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AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 10:57 PM Feb 2024

Someone please explain to me how boinking a subordinate invalids an investigation

and criminal proceeding.

I am failing to understand this.

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Someone please explain to me how boinking a subordinate invalids an investigation (Original Post) AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 OP
Shouldn't all investigations be free of even the hint of bias? TexasDem69 Feb 2024 #1
Where is the bias of having an affair? Is it because Willis is a woman and only men can have them? AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #7
It's not to invalidated an investigation. It's an effort for a mistrial. LakeArenal Feb 2024 #53
What bias? It would be a different matter if she was having an affair Ocelot II Feb 2024 #24
This. LiberalFighter Feb 2024 #48
The claim seems to be that DA Willis hired this subordinate so that she could benefit from his earnings LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2024 #54
ok..thanks for posting....at least it would seem they are saying the affair started after she hired him prodigitalson Feb 2024 #62
This Is What RobinA Feb 2024 #57
The problem is, the Trump defendants KNOW that they are guilty as hell, DemocraticPatriot Feb 2024 #63
There is no explanation Faux pas Feb 2024 #2
Because court shit isn't about truth, it is about rule following and appearances RockRaven Feb 2024 #3
Because rethuglicans have to be in everybody's bedrooms..... Bayard Feb 2024 #4
Right. Everyone needs ecstatic Feb 2024 #5
I dunno Polybius Feb 2024 #8
If consensual, no one's fucking business except the manager and the server. AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #12
No, it's the owner's business Polybius Feb 2024 #18
Just because they banned it at yours doesn't mean every owner is a micromanaging asshole AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #21
They weren't micromanagers, the owners were pretty cool actually Polybius Feb 2024 #26
Not close to the same thing. we can do it Feb 2024 #13
I know Polybius Feb 2024 #19
I agree with the poster who mentioned an "independent contractor" type relationship ecstatic Feb 2024 #25
I like your post. n/t at140 Feb 2024 #28
You're correct, he is not an employee Zeitghost Feb 2024 #50
Do I get a refund on my chili cheese fries? lame54 Feb 2024 #33
It only matters if you are a Democrat RainCaster Feb 2024 #6
I think you may be on to something. nt BootinUp Feb 2024 #9
I don't think that will happen............................... Lovie777 Feb 2024 #10
Uh, authoritarianism. cilla4progress Feb 2024 #11
Because lots of Americas are Puritan religious bigots, and because it benefits Trump. DJ Synikus Makisimus Feb 2024 #14
Did Trump sleep with Alina Habba? blm Feb 2024 #15
Is that a real photo? traitortrump appears to be deteriorating. Hermit-The-Prog Feb 2024 #38
Yes, it is, from 2022 blm Feb 2024 #43
Yeah, he looks like he's lost a ton of weight. ShazzieB Feb 2024 #45
It has nothing to do with the affair itself. It also ... Whiskeytide Feb 2024 #16
She told the truth! Mopar151 Feb 2024 #17
True. . .but I don't care if he was the janitor. . .it doesn't change the facts of the RICO TRIAL! AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #23
Yes, hes a contractor Zeitghost Feb 2024 #51
Perception Kennah Feb 2024 #20
and it's a shame that if something organic develops, people need to have it put under a microscope AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #22
As a Union Shop Steward, I deal with situations of COI and SH all the time Kennah Feb 2024 #34
You can fuck whoever you want John Shaft Feb 2024 #27
True but you may not get to keep your job. SYFROYH Feb 2024 #59
This is someone who she hired and paid Melon Feb 2024 #29
I doubt her boinking him would negate all the facts of the RICO case AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #31
I realize that... but everyone in any trial should Melon Feb 2024 #36
I'm glad this standard didn't exist with JFK. It was Republicans in the 1970s that made this crap AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #37
I think it was in the 90s. LeftInTX Feb 2024 #39
Dole did it in the 1970s against someone he was going to lose to. He found an extra-marital affair AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #40
I worked at a paper company and the phone company (1979-1981) Dating among co-workers was common place LeftInTX Feb 2024 #47
I work for a large State of Georgia division... SYFROYH Feb 2024 #30
Or for government officials to have a romantic relationship with a vendor they hired getting paid with public funds. MichMan Feb 2024 #32
I work for a State of Washington Agency Kennah Feb 2024 #35
Unfortunately, her own statements in 2020 are now coming back to bite her MichMan Feb 2024 #42
Oh my goodness.... Melon Feb 2024 #46
In fairness though... ecstatic Feb 2024 #60
In Texas DA's are considered to be State Officials. Although they serve the county. LeftInTX Feb 2024 #49
It's irrelevant. Emile Feb 2024 #41
Can you please explain how it makes it better? elocs Feb 2024 #44
I don't think it's the boinking. There's an affidavit she submitted re: timing of events. CincyDem Feb 2024 #52
It doesn't invalidate anything, but this distraction -- and poor judgement -- has surely delayed the trial. Silent Type Feb 2024 #55
"If the law is on your side Retrograde Feb 2024 #56
If you can't dazzle then with brilliance, baffle them with bullshit. If you can't baffle them with bullshit, AZLD4Candidate Feb 2024 #61
My dentist had an affair with his receptionist, but that didn't mean my fillings were compromised. Midnight Writer Feb 2024 #58
K & R & heart for the word "boinking" / nt KentuckyWoman Feb 2024 #64

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
7. Where is the bias of having an affair? Is it because Willis is a woman and only men can have them?
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:02 PM
Feb 2024

Is it because she's black and only white people can have them?

How does this compromise an investigation into RICO and Trump if Trump wasn't the "paramour?"

Again, please explain this to me very slowly.

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
53. It's not to invalidated an investigation. It's an effort for a mistrial.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 02:29 PM
Feb 2024

Mistrial so that if trump wins he can dismiss it.

A delay tactic.

Ocelot II

(127,742 posts)
24. What bias? It would be a different matter if she was having an affair
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:40 PM
Feb 2024

with one of the defense lawyers, but how is getting it on with a co-worker any indication of bias?

LiberalFighter

(53,544 posts)
48. This.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 01:59 PM
Feb 2024

And I would not necessarily call him her subordinate. Wade has a bit more power than any of her so-called subordinates.

LetMyPeopleVote

(171,280 posts)
54. The claim seems to be that DA Willis hired this subordinate so that she could benefit from his earnings
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 02:53 PM
Feb 2024

This affair is not ground for disqualification








prodigitalson

(3,169 posts)
62. ok..thanks for posting....at least it would seem they are saying the affair started after she hired him
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 09:20 PM
Feb 2024

in which case I don't give a shit and neither should anyone else. If on the other hand if she hired the guy she was having an affair with that could be improper. nepotism(ish)

RobinA

(10,449 posts)
57. This Is What
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 04:23 PM
Feb 2024

I can't get through my head. They're on the same team! Who gives a crap. What is the problem here?

 

DemocraticPatriot

(5,410 posts)
63. The problem is, the Trump defendants KNOW that they are guilty as hell,
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 09:36 PM
Feb 2024

and can't come up with a good defense..... so they want to muddy the waters.

ecstatic

(34,958 posts)
5. Right. Everyone needs
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:01 PM
Feb 2024

some action every now and then, especially on a case like this! Minus the "subordinate" characterization, of course. I would describe it as colleagues?

Polybius

(20,966 posts)
8. I dunno
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:04 PM
Feb 2024

How would you describe a relationship at a restaurant between a manager and a server? It's technically colleagues, but you have to emphasize that one is the boss.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
12. If consensual, no one's fucking business except the manager and the server.
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:11 PM
Feb 2024

But we know if it's a male manager and a female server, he's taking advantage of his position to lure young women in.
If it's a male server and a female manager, it's dirty but acceptable.

So who care who anyone shtupps as long as it's consensual?

Polybius

(20,966 posts)
18. No, it's the owner's business
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:22 PM
Feb 2024

They banned it in a restaurant that I was working at. A server can date another server or host, and a manager could date another manager. The General Manager couldn't date anyone, because there was only one GM.

I totally see the owner's point too. As a server, I would have gotten away with a lot more if I was dating a manger, such as better sections and a better schedule.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
21. Just because they banned it at yours doesn't mean every owner is a micromanaging asshole
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:27 PM
Feb 2024

that feels they need to control all aspects of their employees lives, even that part when they aren't clocked in.

And it's funny. . .I knew a principal (male) married to a teacher (female) in the same school after he was promoted and he treated his wife on the job the same as he treated all other teachers, including when she was late on her paperwork.

Amazing how maturity plays a factor. But what do I know?

Back to my original point. . .how does her affair change the facts found during a RICO invesigation? How does it change the indictment? How does it taint a jury pool?

It doesn't matter IN the court room and it shouldn't matter at all in criminal proceedings.

Polybius

(20,966 posts)
26. They weren't micromanagers, the owners were pretty cool actually
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:47 PM
Feb 2024

It took a lot for them to fire people, and they fed us for free too. They just thought this dating policy was a good idea, and I get their point. Not saying that I agree or not, or that I would implement it, but I get it.

Polybius

(20,966 posts)
19. I know
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:22 PM
Feb 2024

I just wanted to know how the other person felt about a situation like that, and they responded.

ecstatic

(34,958 posts)
25. I agree with the poster who mentioned an "independent contractor" type relationship
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:41 PM
Feb 2024

I see it more along those lines. Wade is a private attorney and judge lending his expertise (and apparently some extra services on the side ). He's not an employee IMO.

All of that said, I do wish they could have kept things more professional. Anything that slows down donny from meeting his jail cell is very very unfortunate. Jack Smith Chutkan etc PLEASE do NOT fuck or socialize with anyone for the next few months!

STAY FOCUSED DAMMITT!!!

 

Zeitghost

(4,557 posts)
50. You're correct, he is not an employee
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 02:25 PM
Feb 2024

But the contractor aspect makes it worse. A government manager having a personal relationship with a contractor/vendor that their department does business with creates a huge conflict of interest.

DJ Synikus Makisimus

(1,108 posts)
14. Because lots of Americas are Puritan religious bigots, and because it benefits Trump.
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:12 PM
Feb 2024

It also could get the judge off the hook vis à vis Trumpworld. Perhaps, perhaps not.

You really didn't think the courts would save us from Trump, did you?

ShazzieB

(21,768 posts)
45. Yeah, he looks like he's lost a ton of weight.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 10:12 AM
Feb 2024

I did a double take. No, make that a triple take! Wtaf.

Whiskeytide

(4,608 posts)
16. It has nothing to do with the affair itself. It also ...
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:21 PM
Feb 2024

… has nothing to do with the investigation. This is only a hearing to determine if Willis should be removed from the case because she gave a paramour a job paid for by tax payers. If he got the job on his courtroom skills, it’s a nothingburger. If he got the job because of his bedroom skills, it’s a problem for her.

I understand he got the job before they got busy in the sack. If that’s the case, the judges hearing should establish that and they can move on.

Mopar151

(10,338 posts)
17. She told the truth!
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:21 PM
Feb 2024

And didn't pay for an extra hotel room for cover!

Also, wasn't he an independent contractor? That's not a direct subordinate, so a lot of rules r/e subordinate relationships simply don't apply.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
23. True. . .but I don't care if he was the janitor. . .it doesn't change the facts of the RICO TRIAL!
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:37 PM
Feb 2024

Juries don't go "The DA had an affair. . .not guilty."

All this is a distraction.

 

Zeitghost

(4,557 posts)
51. Yes, hes a contractor
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 02:28 PM
Feb 2024

Which leads us to, what are the rules for relationships between a governmental department managers and contractors that their departments have contracts with. Seems like that might be a problem.

Kennah

(14,465 posts)
20. Perception
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:25 PM
Feb 2024

Two people genuinely engaged in a mutual relationship, when one is in a position of power over the other, remains sexual harassment because of either Quid Pro Quo or Hostile Work Environment.

Under Quid Pro Quo, the perception is that the person in the position of power forced the issue.

Under Hostile Work Environment, the perception from others in the office is the the person in the position of power is giving preferential treatment to the person they are sleeping with.

Conflict of Interest is the same way. Conflict of Interest creates a perception that something is not right, but it does not mean that something wrong has happened--only that the perception is there.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
22. and it's a shame that if something organic develops, people need to have it put under a microscope
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:36 PM
Feb 2024

Personally, I don't care about who she is with if her office can prove the CRIME was committed and TRUMP did it, which is all that needs to be done.

This is a RICO TRIAL.

Kennah

(14,465 posts)
34. As a Union Shop Steward, I deal with situations of COI and SH all the time
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 01:22 AM
Feb 2024

Coworkers sleep with coworkers, and it usually ends messy. If one is in the management chain, then it's completely fucked up.

I've seen where a manager was trying to sleep with women who report to them, and the manager clearly seemed to be using their position and influence to get women to sleep with them. Sometimes, women do sleep with their manager, I believe, because they don't think the employer will handle the situation appropriately, and I've seen it. The manager gets warned and the employee gets fired--not right away, they bide their time.

With a criminal trial where the standard is beyond a reasonable doubt, I suspect any good lawyer can throw enough doubt at the case as to make a conviction impossible.

 

John Shaft

(808 posts)
27. You can fuck whoever you want
Mon Feb 12, 2024, 11:48 PM
Feb 2024

as long it's consensual and it isn't a child.

Fuck this puritanical garbage. My ass.

SYFROYH

(34,212 posts)
59. True but you may not get to keep your job.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 06:54 PM
Feb 2024

Organizations have an interest in demanding a lack of conflict of interest.

Melon

(812 posts)
29. This is someone who she hired and paid
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 12:05 AM
Feb 2024

Over a half million dollars of public funds. It’s grossly unprofessional at the least and a waste of money if it results in starting over.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
31. I doubt her boinking him would negate all the facts of the RICO case
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 12:11 AM
Feb 2024

This is a fishing expedition by Assfaced Shitgibbon and his trolls in "legal" to delay, muddy waters, and launch into self-righteousness.

Melon

(812 posts)
36. I realize that... but everyone in any trial should
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 02:14 AM
Feb 2024

Be walking the line and acting beyond reproach to prevent a mistrial. Every large court case that gets media play discusses everything the judges are doing to prevent taking actions that could be deemed questionable. Sleeping with a subordinate can get you dismissed at Arby’s. These people are very well paid.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
37. I'm glad this standard didn't exist with JFK. It was Republicans in the 1970s that made this crap
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 02:19 AM
Feb 2024

grist for everyone's mill.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
40. Dole did it in the 1970s against someone he was going to lose to. He found an extra-marital affair
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 06:09 AM
Feb 2024

made it a campaign plank, hammered it on home, won. . .and the Republicans saw a winning campaign issue to us with RW Christian trolls that want saints and not people.

Except when they do it, it's just an indiscretion. When Democrats do it, it's a major character flaw that shows the Democrat is ill-equipped to have public office or trust.

LeftInTX

(34,006 posts)
47. I worked at a paper company and the phone company (1979-1981) Dating among co-workers was common place
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 01:55 PM
Feb 2024

Arranging dates, marriages, divorces etc. It was almost like high school, LOL.
These were well known companies.

Work environment at both places was toxic, but the dating was the least toxic aspect. No one gave it a thought. Sexual harassment was common place at the phone company. One guy followed me into my apartment without permission and was constantly asking me questions about my personal life. (He was married. He was harassing me. It was a form of intimidation) I had no legal standing against this. People would steal your work, they would mess up your work. It seemed instead of working, most co-workers were engaged in sabotage. The phone company eventually folded.

______________

It was so bad, I got out of the corporate world and vowed I would never work in business again in my life. I didn't leave because of the dating. It was all the other stuff.
I went to nursing school
____________

Interns and nurses dating was acceptable, although it was not common. (Let's face it, if you're single nurse and interacting with a group of interns, it's a pretty good set up. They have their own room and you go over there and interact with them professionally to clarify orders etc) Although I really didn't see flirting on the job, I know a few relationships developed) I remember in the 90's, all of a sudden, those relationships had to be under the radar. We had some training about it too and were told to avoid flirting on the job etc. I was old and married by then.

SYFROYH

(34,212 posts)
30. I work for a large State of Georgia division...
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 12:06 AM
Feb 2024


...and supervisors must disclose a relationship with a direct report to the higher supervisor for review and oversight.

It's considered a conflict of interest - in reality or in appearance. It cannot be known why the supervisor makes a decision with a direct report when there is a secondary relationship (amorous or sexual).

And if he gave her significant gifts, that could look like a kick back. Willis said she paid for her vacations and I hope she has the receipts.

Of course, Willis works for Fulton County and not the state, but its hard to imagine that they allow supervisors to be in relationships with direct reports (without oversight of the professional relationship by a third party).

MichMan

(16,071 posts)
32. Or for government officials to have a romantic relationship with a vendor they hired getting paid with public funds.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 12:47 AM
Feb 2024

Kennah

(14,465 posts)
35. I work for a State of Washington Agency
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 01:31 AM
Feb 2024

Until a few years ago, we had ZERO policies prohibiting it. There was a case of a husband working as a Deputy Director, essentially second in command, and his wife was the HR Director, who reported to her husband. I wasn't working there at the time, but I was gobsmacked to learn this. Pressure built, and she finally took a job at another agency.

I know of several managers whom I believe are serial predators that transfer from agency to agency skirting a concluded investigation. And I cannot seem to get anyone to take notice.

MichMan

(16,071 posts)
42. Unfortunately, her own statements in 2020 are now coming back to bite her
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 09:17 AM
Feb 2024
“I certainly will not be choosing people to date that work under me, let me just say that,” Willis said during the appearance on a progressive news program in Atlanta nearly four years ago.

Segments of the interview went viral on social media Monday, sparking criticism against Willis for perceived hypocrisy, especially given her emphasis on not tolerating workplace harassment and inappropriate relationships, saying these issues “will not be something that will be allowed on my watch.”

Willis noted that inappropriate relations involving her staff had the potential to betray the public’s trust, while she also acknowledged such a situation would break moral obligations and damage the integrity of the office.

“I think that what citizens are really, really concerned about is if you chose to have inappropriate contact with employees,” she continued. “There’s nothing I can say on it other than that it is distracting, it is certainly inappropriate for the No. 1 law officer in this state, and it really, really saddens me.”


https://atlantablackstar.com/2024/01/22/video-surfaces-of-fani-willis-swearing-off-workplace-romances/

ecstatic

(34,958 posts)
60. In fairness though...
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 07:52 PM
Feb 2024

She didn't think that someone who looked like that would end up on the team. He's really handsome.



Just kidding. I think.

LeftInTX

(34,006 posts)
49. In Texas DA's are considered to be State Officials. Although they serve the county.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 02:18 PM
Feb 2024

We have county courts at law and state district courts. County courts handle misdemeanors and some felonies.

Felonies are considered state charges.

In Trump's case, it is very likely, "Georgia vs Trump", not "Fulton County vs Trump".

Grand Jury indictments almost always go to state Courts. Each state gives their state courts unique names: Superior Court, Circuit Court etc. Although state courts are local, a change of venue can be ordered to another county in the state. (This is true in all 50 states) A county court case, really can't be given a change of venue in another county.

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
44. Can you please explain how it makes it better?
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 09:54 AM
Feb 2024

Perhaps you should work on the understanding.

CincyDem

(7,259 posts)
52. I don't think it's the boinking. There's an affidavit she submitted re: timing of events.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 02:29 PM
Feb 2024

Trump is raising question re: the truthfulness of that affidavit. If with of them were less than truthful in their filing, that’s gonna be an issue. Boink all you want…boink in your office….hell, boink in the courtroom after hours…but don’t misrepresent anything to the court. Ever.

Silent Type

(11,432 posts)
55. It doesn't invalidate anything, but this distraction -- and poor judgement -- has surely delayed the trial.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 03:04 PM
Feb 2024

Even before the distraction came to light, Willis was saying the trial wouldn't start before late August and might be 2025 (of course, she might have known what was about to drop).

trump is still guilty, but thanks to this distraction, it may be years -- if ever -- before trump goes to trial.

Retrograde

(11,307 posts)
56. "If the law is on your side
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 03:23 PM
Feb 2024

pound the law; if the facts are on your side, pound the facts. If neither the law nor the facts are on your side, smear the prosecuting attorneys" - retrograde's update to an old saying.

Donnie's side knows Willis and her team have a very strong case. They can't argue based on what they did, so the only tactic left to them is to attack, attack, attack the prosecution's team - throw all the mud they can find and make up at Willis and hope something sticks enough to at least taint the jury pool.

I think Willis made a mistake in this close attachment to a fellow prosecutor, but it happens in a lot of fields. But bottom line, her real "mistake" was being a woman - and a woman of color - who dared try hold Donnie accountable for his actions.

AZLD4Candidate

(6,698 posts)
61. If you can't dazzle then with brilliance, baffle them with bullshit. If you can't baffle them with bullshit,
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 09:14 PM
Feb 2024

bury them in paperwork.

Midnight Writer

(24,866 posts)
58. My dentist had an affair with his receptionist, but that didn't mean my fillings were compromised.
Tue Feb 13, 2024, 06:39 PM
Feb 2024
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