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littlemissmartypants

(29,836 posts)
Wed Sep 10, 2025, 10:41 PM Sep 10

Aren't we all (mostly) adults here?

hamsterjill stated here that, "Sometimes, the universe just reminds us that it's a powerful thing." Its my belief that this is a very astute point! There's a lot going on in her observation. Here's mine:

The finger wagging, from those here who like to claim that we adults, who live in a free society with freedom of speech, need them to belittle some of us for expressing emotions are not only pedantic in their obsessive beliefs but are also being disrespectful.

Each of us, as free thinking adults, are entitled to police ourselves and express our feelings.

To attempt to silence someone that is telling you how they feel is a symptom of a deep psychological disturbance.

It's either a symptom of fear, of the need to exert power over others or the expression of the belief that only the very righteous are entitled to have feelings.

Plus, it expresses that those that express their, judged to be contrarian, emotions are wrong in their beliefs and are not entitled to their unique emotions.

Such judgment is also, whether deliberate or unconscious, sometimes an expression of a form of emotional abuse.


I am expressing my feelings here from my personal experience. Of course... YMMV.*


❤️ pants
RESIST!! ✊️

*Your Mileage May Vary
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Aren't we all (mostly) adults here? (Original Post) littlemissmartypants Sep 10 OP
Adults (almost all of DU) have no trouble expressing their feelings without supporting political violence. . nt Bernardo de La Paz Sep 10 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Sep 10 #2
I can feel pity for the wasted potential of a child who was raised to be hateful. haele Sep 10 #3
Very interesting points, haele. Thank you. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Sep 10 #8
K&R ZDU Sep 10 #4
My pleasure and thank you, ZDU. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Sep 10 #7
It's just virtue boasting (n.t.) Oeditpus Rex Sep 10 #5
Thanks for reminding me about this. littlemissmartypants Sep 10 #6
I think maybe signaling can be done in different ways Oeditpus Rex Sep 11 #10
👍❤️ littlemissmartypants Sep 11 #11
I felt sorry for his children Maru Kitteh Sep 10 #9
For their sake, I hope he had a very good life insurance policy. ... littlemissmartypants Sep 11 #12

Bernardo de La Paz

(58,592 posts)
1. Adults (almost all of DU) have no trouble expressing their feelings without supporting political violence. . nt
Wed Sep 10, 2025, 10:43 PM
Sep 10

Response to littlemissmartypants (Original post)

haele

(14,599 posts)
3. I can feel pity for the wasted potential of a child who was raised to be hateful.
Wed Sep 10, 2025, 10:52 PM
Sep 10

Just as I feel pity for the MAGA snowflakes at work, too afraid to look weak or be taken "advantage of" if they express mercy or understanding of what might cause a person to fall short and fail.

You don't have to coddle or excuse in an action or person; you have to understand where the fault is and actually work to to correct the problem, instead of just trashing it and walking away. Sometimes that means fighting. Sometimes it means negotiation. But it doesn't mean accepting.
Because problems only grow if left to themselves or put away to the side and ignored.
Kirk and his ilk are symptoms that had been coddled and taken advantage as tools for a few human embodiments of the Seven Deadly Sins....

littlemissmartypants

(29,836 posts)
6. Thanks for reminding me about this.
Wed Sep 10, 2025, 11:04 PM
Sep 10

I'm thinking it's the same thing that I've read about called virtue signaling. Is that right?

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Oeditpus Rex

(42,747 posts)
10. I think maybe signaling can be done in different ways
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 12:00 AM
Sep 11

Like, on another's/others' behalf

I used "boasting" because it's only on the boaster's behalf But, yeah, basically they're the same.

Maru Kitteh

(30,657 posts)
9. I felt sorry for his children
Wed Sep 10, 2025, 11:14 PM
Sep 10

but as I said, I felt sorry for his kids before he was shot, too. Political violence can be awful AND Kirk can still be a dead human louse.

littlemissmartypants

(29,836 posts)
12. For their sake, I hope he had a very good life insurance policy. ...
Thu Sep 11, 2025, 12:21 AM
Sep 11

His wife might have to sell/auction the enormous rock she wears (if it's real) otherwise.

They should be fine, financially speaking. Time will tell about the emotional repercussions.

Charlie Kirk Net Worth: How the Trump Ally and Activist Became a Millionaire
Edited by: Rounak Bagchi
Updated Sep 11, 2025, 02:39 IST
Kirk’s salary rose from $27,000 in 2016 to more than $407,000 by 2021 and his personal holdings now include three high-end homes
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At just 31, Charlie Kirk has amassed an estimated net worth of $12 million. The chief executive and co-founder of Turning Point USA, Kirk has transformed a small campus-based project into one of the most prominent organizations in conservative politics. And, along the way, he has also secured a lifestyle that includes a Spanish-style mansion, luxury travel and multiple seven-figure properties, according to a report by news agency Associated Press.
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https://www.timesnownews.com/world/us/us-news/charlie-kirk-net-worth-utah-university-uvu-shooting-article-152762107
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