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bigtree

(93,231 posts)
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 08:04 PM Monday

Republicans and their bull don't shake me as much as the dragging of our party and leaders in Dem forums

...I'm fully prepared to fight republicans on every level, at every opportunity.

But, what shakes me to my core are the organized efforts that get Democrats tearing at each other instead of the republican opposition; especially after the last time Dems convinced each other to pull down the person voters chose to run against Trump, a hair away from the election.

I get it, probably more than the people who engage in it do. It's not like I have some special place in this world where I'm immune to the madness that we're all experiencing at the hands of republicans.

I don't have that kind of life - I have the opposite existence where its like the government has been stalking me with every republican attack on the progressive progress we've achieved in the last century.

You see these types of reactions in dysfunctional families where spouses or parents lash out at vulnerable family members to compensate for their inability to strike back at the actual ones hurting them. Classic transference.

And, look, we've already been victim to this political dissonance encouraged against the Democratic party by hurt people pulling down their own elected leaders just because they could do that definitive thing and feel satisfied they'd at least managed something in response to how hurt they feel.

It's not an excuse, and it clearly misses the mark - so what's the end game?

I'll remind folks of what organized propagandists are doing every day and every hour on the media directed toward us to foment divisions by using 'wedge' issues designed to ignite, inflame, and ultimately distract Democrats from their opposition to republicans.

I mean, even if you don't consider yourself influenced by all of that trolling, does it really sound like something you should be engaging in?

If that sounds a little desperate, then so be it. It's some really insidious shit to watch the wave of mostly disaffected republicans with podcasts and anchor positions eager to claim Democrats 'caved' on something.

I'd guess they're eager to try and make their own former party affiliations look less sordid and as patently anti-American as the present republican party they're now posturing to oppose. Ostensibly doing this dragging on our behalf as they work to form a better and more effective Democratic party than their own decrepit republican one?

No. Fuck no.

When I hear this anti-Dem shit going down, all I can see in front of me is an implosion, basically a retreat. And that's oh so special to this lifelong Democrat who has fought through GENERATIONS of self-immolating pundits entreating Democrats to eat their own.

If that's something that's now considered normal, and I suspect it has become normalized for Democrats to attack the family first and foremost, then there's no limit to the potential gaslighting available to shake the party to the core.

Someone convince me we're not going arm in arm to loser town again. Better yet, count me out of all that. I've already see this fucking movie before.

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Republicans and their bull don't shake me as much as the dragging of our party and leaders in Dem forums (Original Post) bigtree Monday OP
Have you thought about running for office? You said you are willing to fight and we need some fighters in DC. LonePirate Monday #1
Bahahahahahaha BannonsLiver Monday #5
Tell us about Merrick Garland again Ponietz Monday #2
Merrick Garland Democrats! John Coktosten Tuesday #77
Garland had a R by his name, last I checked. GreenWave Tuesday #91
This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver Monday #3
What gets me is people looking at results like these and saying "well, they did their best, RockRaven Monday #4
Post removed Post removed Monday #6
Got a link? And she was the best speaker ever. nt babylonsister Monday #8
They are big boys and girls, but our dumbass electorate is not. W_HAMILTON Monday #9
I don't think you understand modern electoral politics Happy Hoosier Monday #44
I don't think the voters understand the ballot box. W_HAMILTON Tuesday #52
Thank you, well said, and I agree with every word. Walleye Monday #7
You're right. And there's a reason why Republicans and Russians put so much effort into dividing the left. W_HAMILTON Monday #10
Because they know an easy win? quakerboy Monday #18
Yeah, no. It's a lot easier to divide Democrats when the person dividing is only a Democrat when it benefits them. W_HAMILTON Monday #50
Whom do you mean? Could it be Tim Kaine (Hillary's running mate), who Jack Valentino Tuesday #51
And if we had voted for Hillary and him, there would be no Trump. W_HAMILTON Tuesday #53
I DID VOTE for Hillary and him---!!!! Jack Valentino Tuesday #55
So you want to blame about a third of the party. quakerboy Tuesday #56
I agree except that I am thinking the cavers represent a lot less than a third of the party. Scrivener7 Tuesday #61
I blame those not voting for Democrats. W_HAMILTON Tuesday #66
so if I look through your post history quakerboy Tuesday #74
You will find me mostly criticizing those that contribute to the in-fighting. W_HAMILTON Tuesday #79
And who do you suppose that was? quakerboy Tuesday #80
You again. Hassin Bin Sober Monday #11
Good lawd 😴 demmiblue Monday #12
Post removed Post removed Monday #13
I heard Carville brow beating Democrats who are upset about this while listening to MSNBC on a walk this afternoon. CentralMass Monday #14
I see eight wedges responsible for the current discord in the party Sympthsical Monday #15
Who knows these days quakerboy Monday #19
Gov Newsom edhopper Monday #16
I dont go down without a fight quakerboy Monday #17
Only 8 of them. creeksneakers2 Monday #25
That's the 8 that were chosen because they aren't running in 2026 Bluetus Monday #27
No proof of that. creeksneakers2 Monday #28
Either it was orchestrated or they went rogue. Cuthbert Allgood Tuesday #85
Probably ended up that way creeksneakers2 Tuesday #93
Don't kid yourself. kacekwl Monday #29
I don't kid myself creeksneakers2 Monday #31
All of them quakerboy Monday #38
That kind of thinking helps Trump. creeksneakers2 12 hrs ago #94
Voting for trump helps trump quakerboy 2 hrs ago #95
Turning against Democrats helps him too. creeksneakers2 2 hrs ago #96
*democrats quakerboy 1 hr ago #97
Most of them didn't. Those who did didn't most of the time. creeksneakers2 1 hr ago #98
They did when it matters and the rest are doing nothing about it. quakerboy 1 hr ago #99
Thank you bigtree. Good post. c-rational Monday #20
Democratic Senators angrychair Monday #21
correct Skittles Monday #23
I also think the timing of it is what hits so hard.... OneGrassRoot Tuesday #59
See it's not that angrychair Tuesday #65
Oh, I DEFINITELY hear you.... OneGrassRoot Tuesday #67
Making it all about how devastating losing ACA- subsidies would be-only to cave--was very poor messaging crimycarny Tuesday #78
I am so sorry, popsdenver Monday #22
We've got midterms to win mcar Monday #24
What we say on this site hurts no one iemanja Monday #41
On this site? Have you looked at social media and MSM? mcar Tuesday #64
It isn't a "narrative" Queso Delicioso Tuesday #82
7 elected Democrats voted to end the shutdown mcar Tuesday #84
This is going to hurt the midterms Cuthbert Allgood Tuesday #87
I can make the case gab13by13 Monday #26
Well, as long as the party makes stupid ass choices that make zero sense you better get used to it. nt yaesu Monday #30
Agree and to add FHRRK Monday #32
Well played. MarineCombatEngineer Monday #34
How is your head? FHRRK Monday #35
Massive hangover this morning, ok now. MarineCombatEngineer Monday #36
I got up once to get a beer FHRRK Monday #46
Lawrence just discussed problems for LEADERSHIP of Dem party, and we all should read/ elleng Monday #33
I think you and I are the only two DU'ers watching Ninga Monday #37
UTTERLY credible. elleng Monday #42
Well. Our priority right now must be to make sure you're not shaken. Scrivener7 Monday #39
You have a soft spot for the most ineffective Democrats iemanja Monday #40
Lawrence O'Donnell has proven you right tonight, and all the anti-Schumers wrong. ancianita Monday #43
Here's the link to Rhiannon12866's OP with video... PunkinPi Tuesday #57
Yes, I saw it, thanks. ancianita Tuesday #69
Sure, you're welcome. PunkinPi Tuesday #86
Yep, it happens when folks upload a full hour. But it's worth the info for the 12 hrs that 177 people got to view it. ancianita Tuesday #88
Senator Chris Murphy and 36 other Democratic Senators disagree. And they're in a better position to know. Scrivener7 Tuesday #63
They don't wanna get dragged? Happy Hoosier Monday #45
Even worse FHRRK Monday #47
I agree, Bigtree. summer_in_TX Monday #48
Ask yourself this Metaphorical Monday #49
Hilarious awesomerwb1 Tuesday #54
K&R betsuni Tuesday #58
You Lost Me At "I Get It, Probably More Than...." How's That... ColoringFool Tuesday #60
So we should sit back while they sell us out over and over again Thrill Tuesday #62
Strategic voting to get a 271 vote count from Republicans is not selling out. ancianita Tuesday #70
Disagree, we're not dragging dem leadership enough on communication uponit7771 Tuesday #68
So, are we supposed to pretend that Bettie Tuesday #71
" Republicans and their bull don't shake me as much as the dragging of our party and leaders in Dem forums" BannonsLiver Tuesday #72
Indeed. Never saying a negative word about ineffectual, self-inflicted losses... LR3 Tuesday #75
Agree MorbidButterflyTat Tuesday #73
Moronic things like "don't listen to Lawrence O'Donnell, he's rich"; Tim Kaine's a "corporate shill," don't listen. betsuni Tuesday #92
Yes, yes John Coktosten Tuesday #76
When they fuck up, intentionally or not, they *absolutely* deserve to get dragged Rob H. Tuesday #81
Well you sure joined the wrong party...that's what Dems do. pecosbob Tuesday #83
We'll either cool off or pay at the polls next year gulliver Tuesday #89
March in lockstep is a REPUBLICAN TRAIT! Emile Tuesday #90

LonePirate

(14,308 posts)
1. Have you thought about running for office? You said you are willing to fight and we need some fighters in DC.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 08:08 PM
Monday

Response to bigtree (Original post)

RockRaven

(18,349 posts)
4. What gets me is people looking at results like these and saying "well, they did their best,
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 08:22 PM
Monday

and they're on my team so let's not criticize."

Are they professionals or not?

Because they sure as hell aren't volunteers working pro bono at a task nobody else is willing to undertake. They asked for these positions. They fought and scrapped and clawed at competitors to get these positions. And they get extreme compensation, privileges, and perks alongside the power of those positions.

They can perform skillfully, sharply, adroitly... Or they can get criticized. Clumsiness, bumbling, and failure will not go uncommented upon in a misguided application of partisan loyalty.

Response to RockRaven (Reply #4)

W_HAMILTON

(9,863 posts)
9. They are big boys and girls, but our dumbass electorate is not.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 08:42 PM
Monday

And the constant in-fighting for the past decade has only served to hurt us at the ballot box -- the only place where """fighting""" actually matters.

Post-election vanity campaign rallies in blue areas of red states? Viral TikToks? I'm sorry, but that's not fighting. That's just performative bluster that people turn to in order to feel better about losing the fight at the ballot box, which is THE ONLY FIGHT THAT ACTUALLY FUCKING MATTERS.

IF HILLARY OR KAMALA HAD BEEN ELECTED, WE WOULD NOT BE TALKING ABOUT ANY OF THIS BULLSHIT.

Happy Hoosier

(9,260 posts)
44. I don't think you understand modern electoral politics
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:11 PM
Monday

You can poo-poo viral videos all you like. But social media killed us in the last election. And it could save us in the next. It ain’t 2008 anymore.

W_HAMILTON

(9,863 posts)
52. I don't think the voters understand the ballot box.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 12:19 AM
Tuesday

You can heart as many social media posts as you want and fill your page with all the great content you got from all the protests you attended -- be sure to like and subscribe! -- but if you don't vote to keep Republicans out of power OR you shit on good Democrats (thus making it harder for them to be elected to keep Republicans out of power), that """modern electoral politics""" was just self-promoting bullshit that helped get us to this deplorable point in our nation's history.

W_HAMILTON

(9,863 posts)
10. You're right. And there's a reason why Republicans and Russians put so much effort into dividing the left.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 08:44 PM
Monday

quakerboy

(14,657 posts)
18. Because they know an easy win?
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 09:40 PM
Monday

Our elected Democratic senators are only too happy to divide from us. Outsiders adding to our divisions is more or less equivalent to throwing a 5 gallon tin of gasoline onto the great chicago fire about halfway through.

W_HAMILTON

(9,863 posts)
50. Yeah, no. It's a lot easier to divide Democrats when the person dividing is only a Democrat when it benefits them.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:50 PM
Monday

Jack Valentino

(3,989 posts)
51. Whom do you mean? Could it be Tim Kaine (Hillary's running mate), who
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 12:18 AM
Tuesday

was among the seven Senate Democrats who voted to "cave" ?

W_HAMILTON

(9,863 posts)
53. And if we had voted for Hillary and him, there would be no Trump.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 12:25 AM
Tuesday

But, no, the same idiots are doing the same thing they've been doing for the past decade -- and given the fact they seem to get angrier and angrier by the day, IT'S OBVIOUSLY NOT FUCKING WORKING!

But you know what would have worked?

Voting for Democrats to be in charge of the government because none of this shit would even be debated right now.

You could clone Bernie Sanders to replace every elected Democrat and not a goddamn thing would change because REPUBLICANS WOULD STILL CONTROL EVERYTHING.

Jack Valentino

(3,989 posts)
55. I DID VOTE for Hillary and him---!!!!
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 12:42 AM
Tuesday

but seems like he turned out a little 'weak', didn't he....


quakerboy

(14,657 posts)
56. So you want to blame about a third of the party.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:43 AM
Tuesday

Instead of a different third of the party.

I'd argue that the ones who are quick to cross to the other side of the isle when they think the money/influence is better are the ones who are only democrats when it benefits them.

Scrivener7

(57,768 posts)
61. I agree except that I am thinking the cavers represent a lot less than a third of the party.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 09:36 AM
Tuesday

W_HAMILTON

(9,863 posts)
66. I blame those not voting for Democrats.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 11:07 AM
Tuesday

That is ultimately where the buck stops and the direct cause of all these issues.

If Democrats were in control right now, none of these issues would even be up for debate.

quakerboy

(14,657 posts)
74. so if I look through your post history
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 12:08 PM
Tuesday

I will find you pointing at centrists and independents as the reason for electoral losses?

W_HAMILTON

(9,863 posts)
79. You will find me mostly criticizing those that contribute to the in-fighting.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:43 PM
Tuesday

If we are talking about voters rather than politicians, I have said time and time again FUCK ANYONE AND EVERYONE THAT DIDN'T SUPPORT AND VOTE FOR HILLARY CLINTON!

quakerboy

(14,657 posts)
80. And who do you suppose that was?
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:48 PM
Tuesday

I personally would rather not F any of them.

But those who chose not to vote for Kamila Harris can go to hell. Unfortunately, they decided to take the rest of us with them.

Response to bigtree (Original post)

CentralMass

(16,722 posts)
14. I heard Carville brow beating Democrats who are upset about this while listening to MSNBC on a walk this afternoon.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 09:04 PM
Monday

He essential was saying they better shut up and get over it by Wednesday evening
It always unpleasant listening to him.

Sympthsical

(10,749 posts)
15. I see eight wedges responsible for the current discord in the party
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 09:08 PM
Monday

And none of them are posting here as far as I know.

Maybe go give them one of these chat ups?

For, you know, a change.

quakerboy

(14,657 posts)
19. Who knows these days
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 09:44 PM
Monday

I saw a post earlier that was almost verbatim what i was hearing in an interview with Fetterman on the radio at the same time.

quakerboy

(14,657 posts)
17. I dont go down without a fight
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 09:36 PM
Monday

No matter which letter the people who attack me have in front of their names.

Tell our elected senators to stop attacking us, and I will stand with them. All the way.

We arent going to loser town. We just got took. By the senators we elected. Right to losertown. Without even getting asked if we wanted to go.

Bluetus

(1,893 posts)
27. That's the 8 that were chosen because they aren't running in 2026
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:27 PM
Monday

The actual number is undoubtedly higher. But even 1 Manchin is one too many. We have to root out these people and reform the DNC that helps these people get elected.

Cuthbert Allgood

(5,339 posts)
85. Either it was orchestrated or they went rogue.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 02:02 PM
Tuesday

I have a hard time believing that all voting for it just randomly aren't up for re election this cycle.

If they went rogue, that's almost worse and Chuck should be taken out of leadership for not having control over the party.

creeksneakers2

(7,888 posts)
93. Probably ended up that way
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 03:21 PM
Tuesday

Because those who would soon face the vote would not have dared. Schumer can't force anyone.

kacekwl

(8,773 posts)
29. Don't kid yourself.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:28 PM
Monday

There are many more who only voted no because they could and know they would get slammed in the next election.

quakerboy

(14,657 posts)
38. All of them
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:52 PM
Monday

They let their fellows do this. Those 8 did not walk over to help trump in a vacuum. And they are not being iced out of positions or power for doing so. This was a group effort. Anyone who was thinking of desertion should have known that their future would be much reduced. Those retiring should have been told that all the unofficial influence and perks they expected to benefit from would melt like a snowflake on an Arizona sidewalk in summer if they abandoned their team and the American people.

I hold every single sitting senator responsible. No more excuses.

quakerboy

(14,657 posts)
99. They did when it matters and the rest are doing nothing about it.
Thu Nov 13, 2025, 01:52 AM
1 hr ago

a few rotten apples do indeed spoil the whole barrel if they are not removed quite quickly.

angrychair

(11,468 posts)
21. Democratic Senators
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:06 PM
Monday

Made the shutdown about the ACA subsidies. Nothing else.
They put the American people through hell.

People lost their jobs.
People were going hungry.

Yet the majority showed their support for what Democrats were doing.
The election showed that.

Yet they caved and nothing about the ACA subsidies has changed from what it was 40 days ago.
It's not Senate Democrats fault that Republicans are doing this. Not at all. It is 100% on the Republicans.

It is their fault to have made the longest shutdown in US history about the ACA subsidies and then fail to actually change anything about the situation.

Skittles

(168,606 posts)
23. correct
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:15 PM
Monday

I think what gets forgotten is REPUBLICANS DO NOT CARE IF PEOPLE HAVE HEALTH INSURANCE, THEY LITERALLY DO NOT FUCKING CARE.

OneGrassRoot

(23,906 posts)
59. I also think the timing of it is what hits so hard....
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 06:39 AM
Tuesday

It was right after a huge electoral victory. We were flying high. Then BOOM.

It was jarring. I understand there are specific reasons behind the timing (probably Thanksgiving air travel, for one), but the contrast of the win vs what feels like concession hits hard.

angrychair

(11,468 posts)
65. See it's not that
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 10:49 AM
Tuesday

It's a lot more straight forward and practical.
The ACA subsidies are a linchpin of our healthcare system, especially so given cuts to Medicaid and Medicare and a slowing economy.

Cutting these subsidies also has a more practical reality of people, millions of people, losing their healthcare because they can no longer afford it. Including people here on DU. Including people in my family.

The people talking about this so nonchalantly, as if it's no big deal hundreds of thousands of people could die, is crazy to me. It's a very big deal that 8 Democratic senators (including Schumer) and one Independent decided for the rest of the country that flying for vacations was more important.

OneGrassRoot

(23,906 posts)
67. Oh, I DEFINITELY hear you....
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 11:22 AM
Tuesday

and I’m so sorry your family is impacted as well. Death and suffering are here. (Well, they’ve been here but it’s going to get much worse, needlessly so.) I didn’t mean to minimize impact at all. We are among those impacted. By all of it.

crimycarny

(1,967 posts)
78. Making it all about how devastating losing ACA- subsidies would be-only to cave--was very poor messaging
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:14 PM
Tuesday

I think the messaging on this should have compared the cost of extending the ACA subsidies for a year to Trump's $20 billion bailout to Argentina.

I did see one tweet from Elizabeth Warren, after the Democrats voted to end the shutdown without extending ACA subsidies, where she made this comparison, stating that extending the ACA subsidies for a year would cost taxpayers less than the $20 billion to Argentina. When I read that, I thought, "Why wasn't this the message from the very beginning?".

Instead, the Democrats focused on the devastating consequences of losing the ACA subsidies. All of that is true, of course, but it still leaves voters unsure of how much it would cost to extend it to them. THAT is what those voters who lean right (not crazy MAGA) tend to care about, "what is this going to cost me?", not "what is this going to do to people". I think comparing what the GOP has already spent of the taxpayer money, and on what, to the cost of extending the ACA subsidies combined with what that would to those who rely on the subsidies (comparison of rising premiums) would have had a bigger impact. IMO.

popsdenver

(980 posts)
22. I am so sorry,
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:12 PM
Monday

should we be lumping praise and cheering the 8 Dems that voted with the Republicans yesterday???????????

I was alive way back when some of us were being criticized for calling out the massive group of so called "Reagan Democrats".
Despite Reagan, HWBush, and the Republican CABAL that were actively doing massive damage to the American Way and the middle class.

mcar

(45,473 posts)
24. We've got midterms to win
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:15 PM
Monday

I'm OK with Dems being upset at the 8, but the "Dems suck" narrative only hurts us.

iemanja

(57,135 posts)
41. What we say on this site hurts no one
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:00 PM
Monday

What those eight Democrats did does. They set us up for a world of criticism, and Trump is laughing and insulting us with slurs.

mcar

(45,473 posts)
64. On this site? Have you looked at social media and MSM?
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 09:58 AM
Tuesday

MSM is gloating that they can use their "dems in disarray" meme. Bluesky is barely readable right now.

Trump always insults us with slurs, by the way.

Queso Delicioso

(166 posts)
82. It isn't a "narrative"
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:57 PM
Tuesday

It's a conclusion to which people are coming independently, based on the evidence of their own eyes and ears. If you want to change that conclusion, you (well, they) need to get busy drumming up some more favorable evidence.

mcar

(45,473 posts)
84. 7 elected Democrats voted to end the shutdown
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:59 PM
Tuesday

Tarring all elected Democrats with the same brush hurts us and our electoral chances. It's also grossly unfair.

Cuthbert Allgood

(5,339 posts)
87. This is going to hurt the midterms
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 02:07 PM
Tuesday

100% We just showed that we will cabe and give Republicans what they want while getting morning. What about that do you think encourages people otherwise not committed to get out and vote?

gab13by13

(30,624 posts)
26. I can make the case
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:26 PM
Monday

that it was 9 (I'm including Schumer) Democrats who are dividing the caucus.

Schumer did the same thing back in March when it made more sense to vote no to the CR.

yaesu

(8,807 posts)
30. Well, as long as the party makes stupid ass choices that make zero sense you better get used to it. nt
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:30 PM
Monday

FHRRK

(1,302 posts)
32. Agree and to add
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:32 PM
Monday

1. Garland was the best AG ever
2. Sinema was misunderstood
3. Manchin was a true statesman
4. Lieberman was a combination of 2 and 3 and should have been the Dem nominee for Pres. in 2008
5. All Progressive Dems are Communists or Socialists and should move to the back of the bus and shut up. (Hey, we don’t make them walk or stand so they should be grateful.)
6. Can you imagine the stress put on Schumer? He should get a $50 donation from every Real Dem so he has a huge war chest against any potential challenger.
7. If, god forbid, Schumer is pushed out, we should make Ted Cruz or Josh Hawley the Minority Leader. I would say Markwayne Mullin, but he needs a bit more experience.

MarineCombatEngineer

(16,762 posts)
36. Massive hangover this morning, ok now.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:39 PM
Monday

This is another reason I quit drinking decades ago and this morning reminded my why.
Thanks for asking, good thing I didn't have to drive today, I pretty much spent the day in my sleeper relaxing and reading DU.

I thought for sure that I would wake up this morning and see 2 or 3 hides, but it looks like I came out of last night unscathed.

FHRRK

(1,302 posts)
46. I got up once to get a beer
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:25 PM
Monday

Quickly sat down because I was already throwing F Bombs and alcohol would only make it worse.

My theory on the hides, easily 60 to 70 percent of posters were pissed off too, so hard to get any jury without other like minded, pissed off Dems.

elleng

(141,523 posts)
33. Lawrence just discussed problems for LEADERSHIP of Dem party, and we all should read/
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:33 PM
Monday

and listen (REAL talent!)

Ninga

(8,968 posts)
37. I think you and I are the only two DU'ers watching
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:44 PM
Monday

Lawrence. He has deep experience working for the Budget Committee, makes him credible to me.

iemanja

(57,135 posts)
40. You have a soft spot for the most ineffective Democrats
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 10:59 PM
Monday

Do you dislike the ones who actually serve the people?

ancianita

(42,539 posts)
43. Lawrence O'Donnell has proven you right tonight, and all the anti-Schumers wrong.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:05 PM
Monday

Let them all watch Rhiannon12866's post of The Last Word tomorrow so they know just how wrong.

PunkinPi

(5,233 posts)
86. Sure, you're welcome.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 02:06 PM
Tuesday

Just checked your link out and it looks like they took the video down.

ancianita

(42,539 posts)
88. Yep, it happens when folks upload a full hour. But it's worth the info for the 12 hrs that 177 people got to view it.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 02:17 PM
Tuesday

I'll replace it, thanks. Probably with the full episode audio version.
It usually takes MSNBC at least a day to post on YouTube since the profit from their own channel. Just business.

Scrivener7

(57,768 posts)
63. Senator Chris Murphy and 36 other Democratic Senators disagree. And they're in a better position to know.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 09:54 AM
Tuesday
https://www.msnbc.com/msnbc/news/senate-democrats-rage-colleagues-shutdown-rcna243060
“There’s no way to defend this,” Murphy said. “And you are right to be angry about it. I’m angry about it.”

“This is not the way that I wanted this to go, nor the way that most Americans wanted this to go,” Murphy told reporters on Sunday night.



Happy Hoosier

(9,260 posts)
45. They don't wanna get dragged?
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:18 PM
Monday

Then do better.

We’ve turned out to rallies. We’ve written and called. We showed up at the ballot box and gave the Repugs a damned good thrashing. And less than a week later, eight of them decided that was the perfect moment to just pack out tents and go home empty handed. Do toy think it was a win for is? I sure don’t. And neither do the MAGAts.

FHRRK

(1,302 posts)
47. Even worse
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:28 PM
Monday

On a Sunday night, while the 1st district was just on the 48 hour clock on the SNAP funds being released.

summer_in_TX

(3,925 posts)
48. I agree, Bigtree.
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:39 PM
Monday

I'm going to quote my sister here. Four of the five siblings have been discussing it on our Signal channel.

"Did y’all see the 60 minutes thang yesterday about the farmers (stress, tariffs, high rates of suicide)? They have been hurting for months and Trump does NOT care. And they are largely considered to be R voters. He absolutely does not care.

So why would we think that he was going to care about the prospect of full airplanes colliding? Why would we think he was gonna care about people not getting their paychecks or benefits?

Why would we think he’s ever gonna care about the increase in Air Traffic Controllers early retiring??
He’s not. And you cannot negotiate with someone who does not even give a shizzle about his own people.

Meanwhile, Dems did NOT “cave”. They made sure that “fired” federal workers (the ones that Trump fired during the shutdown) would be reinstated. And that all those furloughed workers would get back pay. That makes a huge difference not only to their families, but to the economy of their communities too."


Our niece is an air traffic controller in the northern part of Colorado. She and her husband have a two-year-old and a four-year-old. Air traffic controllers have been under tremendous stress, understaffed so working overtime. She took a day off week before last to see if she could get a bank loan to tide them over and figure out which bills they could delay paying on. She's working too many hours to be able to work a second job. It's cold there but can they afford to heat there house, feed the whole family, pay for medicine they need? What about seniors and disabled people?

I wanted to send them a gift card but have been buying groceries for a disabled friend and had to be careful. Couldn't give a little extra to the local food pantry either.

Yes, community was stepping up for one another – but it wasn't sustainable and people fall through the cracks. The laid off workers will get their jobs back anh back pay. But will those of us who pitched in? We are doing the right thing – but it's a cost we shouldn't have to bear and many of us can't bear for long.

Metaphorical

(2,560 posts)
49. Ask yourself this
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 11:46 PM
Monday

In the grand scheme of things, did Schumer's actions make any real difference one way or another?

* The longer the shutdown, the more pain that it causes people, and the harder it becomes to recover from.
* There was a very real possibility that the Dems could be tarred with having extended the shutdown (legitimate or not) on the back of a procedural point that would never have passed in a Republican controlled Congress regardless.
* By pushing this to the enrollment period, it has become a primary concern for a lot of people (especially older people) for whom Obamacare and Medicare/Medicaid are lifelines.
* The shutdown was impacting public safety, especially in the air.
* So long as the shutdown is active, Trump can act with impunity. Once over, then everything that he does is going to tar and feather the Republicans.
* Mike Johnson is now taking a stand against Obamacare, which the GOP has been VERY reluctant to actually touch, even though they threaten to touch it all the time. This puts them in the position that they will have to replace it with something else, and they quite probably don't even know how to do it.

Could Schumer have gained meaningful concessions from either Thune or Trump? Not a chance. Trump has no intention of obeying any laws that are passed in that regard.

Was it an ideal solution? No. It was nominally a victory for the Republicans because the Democrats "lost face", but the reality is that its a very pyrrhic victory for them.

awesomerwb1

(4,931 posts)
54. Hilarious
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 12:41 AM
Tuesday

everything is GREAT people. How dare you criticize the Dems when everything is great.

The reps laugh at how easily the Dems cave every bloody time. But hey, they're doing great!! ffs

ColoringFool

(72 posts)
60. You Lost Me At "I Get It, Probably More Than...." How's That...
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 06:51 AM
Tuesday

Hubris for breakfast, eh?

So you've been around a while. I'm 76; so have I. Die-hard. Quit Girl Scouts in 1960 because my peers were for Nixon (we took a "vote" ). So don't lecture me or anyone else for that matter about Party loyalty.

WE STOOD WITH THE PARTY. IT'S KAINE, FETTERMAN, ET AL. WHO DEFECTED.

And we will call them out for the foolish weaklings they just were.

Thrill

(19,342 posts)
62. So we should sit back while they sell us out over and over again
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 09:41 AM
Tuesday

Shutting up and being censored is why they keep doing it. Their weakness is why Republicans have full power

ancianita

(42,539 posts)
70. Strategic voting to get a 271 vote count from Republicans is not selling out.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 11:41 AM
Tuesday

Last edited Tue Nov 11, 2025, 02:57 PM - Edit history (1)

Your all or nothing judgment and approach to governing sounds like how the other party works.

We're a thoughtful governing party, which is why

-- SNAP benefits to 42 million Americans were increased in the Sen. bill that now goes to the House, which had to throw its failed bill out,
-- 4,000 federal workers got their jobs back with back pay, and
-- stopgap funding for much of the government until January 30, 2026,
-- full-year appropriations for certain programs & agencies such as the USDA and Military Construction-Veterans Affairs, through the end of fiscal year 2026.
-- Dems forced Republicans to now have to return to work and Johnson will have to swear in the new Arizona Representative.
-- Dems got 271 Repubs to stop the cancellations of holiday flights

Lawrence has the invaluable experience, insight, and wisdom to understand the nuances and intricacies of the Democratic Senators making this strategic decision.

WE Democrats did all that in the face of Republican laziness and societal indifference.

Bettie

(19,116 posts)
71. So, are we supposed to pretend that
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 11:43 AM
Tuesday

everything is perfect...go around singing "Everything is Awesome!"?

Seems like a good strategy...watch it all fall down and deny reality.

BannonsLiver

(20,089 posts)
72. " Republicans and their bull don't shake me as much as the dragging of our party and leaders in Dem forums"
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 11:52 AM
Tuesday

Of course not. No surprise there. 🙄

LR3

(87 posts)
75. Indeed. Never saying a negative word about ineffectual, self-inflicted losses...
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 12:37 PM
Tuesday

...and failure to stand up to fascists is certainly one position to take.

MorbidButterflyTat

(3,880 posts)
73. Agree
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 11:58 AM
Tuesday

It's disgusting.

I've found consistent, powerful support for Democrats on Twitter/X.

I don't need the anxiety and nonstop negativism posted on here every day, or the bullying snark.

betsuni

(28,545 posts)
92. Moronic things like "don't listen to Lawrence O'Donnell, he's rich"; Tim Kaine's a "corporate shill," don't listen.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 02:37 PM
Tuesday

The constant hateful negativity goo is disgusting and childish.

John Coktosten

(82 posts)
76. Yes, yes
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:08 PM
Tuesday

We must not criticize "party leaders"! You are so right. We must obey and not question those 8 absolutely wonderful senators who had an epiphany and agree with you. After all it was Thomas Jefferson who said, "Dissent is the highest form of treason", right?

Never ever question Lord Schumer and his godlike leadership. Did Tim Kaine post this as a pseudonym?



This is my opinion and I don't give a damn who disagrees but this post REALLY PISSED ME OFF. WHAT ABSOLUTE BS. No matter how those of us try to spin this cowardly capitulation by those 8 milquetoast, pussies, the fact is IF THEY DON'T HAVE OUR BACKS and aren't willing to fight the GOP every step of the way, WE CAN'T HAVE THEIR BACKS.

Reply away, try to bait me if you want. I'll be ignoring any replies to this for my own sanity. Those 8 morons and posts like this have angered me beyond reason. Therefore I'm going to calm down until reason returns.

Happy Veterans Day.







Rob H.

(5,746 posts)
81. When they fuck up, intentionally or not, they *absolutely* deserve to get dragged
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:50 PM
Tuesday

because without consequences they'll never change. I get that Blue MAGA is a thing, but it's a losing strategy.

pecosbob

(8,233 posts)
83. Well you sure joined the wrong party...that's what Dems do.
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 01:58 PM
Tuesday

They tell their us what's good for us and ignore what we are asking for and this always results in a circular firing squad. Dems could have re-opened the government three weeks ago. They took the very same offer that was on the table in October after letting their constituents go without paychecks for a month...for what, exactly? Why shut the government down at all if you're going to re-open in weeks after gaining nothing, in fact after harming your own constituents...for politics.

gulliver

(13,639 posts)
89. We'll either cool off or pay at the polls next year
Tue Nov 11, 2025, 02:20 PM
Tuesday

Love your post. Well said.

Because of social media and the legacy media business model of getting all our hormones in an uproar, we're unfortunately going to be very vulnerable to steering ourselves into a ditch.

We can hope. Maybe people will count to ten, really think this thing through, tune out everybody who's sweating, whose face is a little too red, and who's standing on the table. Those folks, for the information of all, belong squarely on the list of non-leaders.

We have to trust. We have to back each other. We have to stay cool. Or Trump and the Republicans are just going to laugh at us.

Right now, we have the proper definition of the word "irony" being demonstrated. The folks who are angry about not getting the health care subsidies extended are so angry that they're going to weaken our position in December for getting the subsidies extended.

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