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Statement from Congresswoman Jasmine Crockett (Original Post) sheshe2 Mar 18 OP
It really sucks how many men abuse women and children EdmondDantes_ Mar 18 #1
Men are not unique in this. Women are participatory, too. littlemissmartypants Mar 18 #13
Sexual abuse is not limited by any gender or race. Melon Mar 18 #18
So, it's not so bad because some woman someplace did the same? Srkdqltr Mar 19 #26
Let's suppose that someone, an infant or a toddler... littlemissmartypants Mar 19 #28
In a spoken world the tone of voice used is usually that smug, gotcha voice that makes it sound that because a woman did Srkdqltr Mar 19 #29
I don't really understand what you're talking about. And you didn't answer the question... littlemissmartypants Mar 19 #30
But that's the gotcha question. Does it exonerate the man if the woman does it also? Srkdqltr Mar 19 #31
It's a direct yes or no question. And you still haven't answered it. littlemissmartypants Mar 19 #32
Dolores Huerta...said Chavez raped and pressured her into sex in the 1960s, breaking decades of silence irisblue Mar 18 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Mar 18 #15
... Solly Mack Mar 18 #3
Enough is enough mcar Mar 18 #4
I am with you, mcar. sheshe2 Mar 18 #6
sad thing is Skittles Mar 18 #5
At 86, I grew up in an era... oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 18 #17
I absolutely do understand the gals (and guys) who stayed silent Skittles Mar 19 #19
Thanks so much Congresswoman Crockett. littlemissmartypants Mar 18 #7
Amen, sister. Joinfortmill Mar 18 #8
DURec leftstreet Mar 18 #9
I love Congresswoman Crockett's statement hamsterjill Mar 18 #10
I was disappointed... 2naSalit Mar 18 #14
K&R spanone Mar 18 #11
K & R Permanut Mar 18 #12
Good for Rep Crockett jfz9580m Mar 18 #16
There's now talk among our city leaders Mme. Defarge Mar 19 #20
Excellent statement, Jasmine Crockett... Cha Mar 19 #21
Thank you, Cha. sheshe2 Mar 19 #22
Also, no matter how rich!! AKwannabe Mar 19 #23
I hope this gets a full investigation. Buzz cook Mar 19 #24
Thanks for Jasmine's statement ReRe Mar 19 #25
ReRe, it's good to see you. sheshe2 Mar 19 #27
milwaukee has a cesar chaves dr. name it for Dolores pansypoo53219 Mar 20 #33

EdmondDantes_

(1,812 posts)
1. It really sucks how many men abuse women and children
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 08:23 PM
Mar 18

It's really not that hard to not do so. Not that there's a good time to find out someone isn't the good person that was thought, but it sucks a little extra given that this is coming out now as unions are in a very weak position and Republicans will probably try to tie unions in general to this (without even the slightest bit of irony).

littlemissmartypants

(33,783 posts)
13. Men are not unique in this. Women are participatory, too.
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 09:52 PM
Mar 18

And families are the hub where it primarily originates.

Melon

(1,528 posts)
18. Sexual abuse is not limited by any gender or race.
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 11:46 PM
Mar 18

It needs to be rooted out as a society cancer and eliminated.

littlemissmartypants

(33,783 posts)
28. Let's suppose that someone, an infant or a toddler...
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 09:33 PM
Mar 19

Was molested by their grandmother. How bad would that be in your mind?

Srkdqltr

(9,778 posts)
29. In a spoken world the tone of voice used is usually that smug, gotcha voice that makes it sound that because a woman did
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 09:54 PM
Mar 19

It sometime that it's AOK for a man to do it.
Mostly it's men who kill but because women sometimes do, men should get a free pass. Usually the person doing the gotcha will sit back with a smug look very proud of himself.

But then I don't know much.

littlemissmartypants

(33,783 posts)
30. I don't really understand what you're talking about. And you didn't answer the question...
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 10:08 PM
Mar 19

So, I'm not sure that I see your point.

Srkdqltr

(9,778 posts)
31. But that's the gotcha question. Does it exonerate the man if the woman does it also?
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 10:47 PM
Mar 19

That's the subtext to asking that question.

littlemissmartypants

(33,783 posts)
32. It's a direct yes or no question. And you still haven't answered it.
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 11:01 PM
Mar 19

I think the premise that is being proposed based on differences in gender is bizarre.

Rape is rape. Period.

Response to irisblue (Reply #2)

17. At 86, I grew up in an era...
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 11:32 PM
Mar 18

and place where a woman who said she was abused or raped, the blame and shame was put upon her, not the perp.
Divorced women were looked down upon.
"Out-of-wedlock" children were also derided.
As nursing students, we were looked upon as easy prey - because we 'knew things'.
If you were not married by age 25, there was something wrong with you that you could not get and hold a man.

Thus, I can understand a 96 yo being hesitant to speak out and am proud of her for doing so.

It has taken a lot of work from a lot of women (and some men) speaking out to get us where we are today. But, unfortunately, there is still a lot more work to be done. It does my heart good when I hear women (and some men) shouting back!

Skittles

(171,809 posts)
19. I absolutely do understand the gals (and guys) who stayed silent
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 12:00 AM
Mar 19

it's why justice for the Epstein victims is SO important - while there has been improvement in this area there is still room for a LOT more

littlemissmartypants

(33,783 posts)
7. Thanks so much Congresswoman Crockett.
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 09:13 PM
Mar 18

It's way past time since someone provided a strong voice for the voiceless.

Babies are raped somewhere in the world every day.

To me, it's the biggest scourge to the world today.

These perpetrators must be held accountable and spend every waking moment of their lives being afraid of punishment for these crimes against humanity, somehow. Soon. Forever.

Thanks so much for sharing this, she². I love you.

And I love Jasmine Crockett. ❤️

hamsterjill

(17,594 posts)
10. I love Congresswoman Crockett's statement
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 09:39 PM
Mar 18

I'm really shocked at all of this relating to Chavez, and having to absorb it. He was a figure in my childhood and I never heard an inkling of anything like what is being uncovered. So, as I said - I am absorbing.

But make no mistake, the victims need to be supported. I sincerely hope that Ms. Huerta has been able to unburden herself in a way that she will find vindication and peace. At 96, I doubt she will actually see much justice, but she will know that she started the process, and she deserves a peace that she has not been able to have for decades.


2naSalit

(102,908 posts)
14. I was disappointed...
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 09:54 PM
Mar 18

But not shocked. That Ms. Huerta is 96 and is just now telling her truth is a societal failure, as Congresswoman Crockett puts it.

Cha

(319,190 posts)
21. Excellent statement, Jasmine Crockett...
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 03:43 AM
Mar 19

We all know who she's including when she talks about the "abusers".

Mahalo for this, she~

Buzz cook

(2,899 posts)
24. I hope this gets a full investigation.
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 12:32 PM
Mar 19

I don't think Chavez will be cleared. I'm just sick of information being withheld.

ReRe

(12,189 posts)
25. Thanks for Jasmine's statement
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 08:11 PM
Mar 19

I'm fed up to here with old-school good-ole-boy patriarchy, she. I don't know how we can call ourselves civilized humans if we can't stop the abuse that comes from the combination of money, power and a sick mind.

sheshe2

(97,674 posts)
27. ReRe, it's good to see you.
Thu Mar 19, 2026, 08:43 PM
Mar 19

It is disheartening to see the old-school good-ole-boy patriarchy in charge of so many parts of our government, top down.

Worse are the women that are applauding it or just plain covering it up this misogynistic admin.

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