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marble falls

(72,201 posts)
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 01:38 PM 12 hrs ago

Measles Took My Daughter. This Is What I Want Everyone to Know.

Opinion
Guest Essay

Measles Took My Daughter. This Is What I Want Everyone to Know.
April 21, 2026

By Rebecca Archer

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/04/21/opinion/measles-child-britain-vaccination.html

Ms. Archer is a mother in Salford, England. Her daughter Renae died of a complication of measles in 2023.

When my daughter Renae, my firstborn, was 5 months old she spiked a fever. By that evening, she was having trouble breathing — the color was gone from her face and I could see her skin tugging in around her ribs. At the hospital the doctors noted the red spots on her body and diagnosed her with measles.

This was 2013, and Manchester, England, where we lived, was experiencing a measles outbreak that resulted in more than 1,000 suspected cases. A 1998 study by a British doctor, Andrew Wakefield, linking the measles, mumps and rubella vaccine to autism had caused vaccination rates to plummet. The study was later retracted and Mr. Wakefield stripped of his medical license, but the damage had been done. In 2013, most of the cases were among school-age children whose parents had refused to give them the vaccine, which is not compulsory in Britain, or among babies too young to be vaccinated, like my daughter. (The first measles vaccine is usually given at 1 year of age.)

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We got the diagnosis when one of the tests of her spinal fluid had come back from London. Renae had subacute sclerosing panencephalitis, a rare complication of measles. The doctors told me it was fatal, and there was nothing else they could do.

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That last weekend in the hospital, watching Renae die, was so traumatic. I told the doctors that I didn’t want them to continue the treatments. I could tell Renae was in distress, and I just wanted her to be at peace. We turned off the machines on a Friday. My family and I stayed in the room that weekend. On Monday morning, Sept. 25, 2023, Renae took her last breath. It was nine days before her 11th birthday.

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Britain lost its measles elimination status. Its national M.M.R. vaccination rate is around 84 percent, far below the 95 percent target set by the World Health Organization for herd immunity to come into play. We're getting very close to being elimination range, too.







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Measles Took My Daughter. This Is What I Want Everyone to Know. (Original Post) marble falls 12 hrs ago OP
Such a heartbreading story. riversedge 12 hrs ago #1
IGNORANCE EddieOnTheMesa 12 hrs ago #2
Ignorance kills. marble falls 12 hrs ago #6
Post removed Post removed 11 hrs ago #25
Wow, that reply from [Name removed] disappeared while I was watching! 🤣 ShazzieB 10 hrs ago #28
Yes, our MIRTS team deserve a heck of a lot of credit plus all of us on DU too, for watching out, being on the SWBTATTReg 10 hrs ago #30
Ignorance AND incompetence AND arrogance. 3catwoman3 10 hrs ago #29
11 years old, how sad. In tears here. Srkdqltr 12 hrs ago #3
Poor girl...another unnecessary death purr-rat beauty 12 hrs ago #4
Please read more carefully. The child was 5 months old when she niyad 11 hrs ago #16
HER parents weren't careless or ignorant... slightlv 11 hrs ago #19
If everyone could see an infant, a todder, even a teen die of measles--as rare as it remains... hlthe2b 12 hrs ago #5
And the fact it takes a while to do it. marble falls 12 hrs ago #7
RFK Jr. needs to see this. nt oasis 12 hrs ago #8
Better yet, RFKjr needs to contract measles. Intractable 12 hrs ago #9
Given his age, he's probably well vaccinated... Wounded Bear 12 hrs ago #11
I'm sure RFK has all his shots! Do as I say, not as I do. nt Intractable 12 hrs ago #12
Given his age, he likely had measles as a child. ShazzieB 10 hrs ago #31
I had it and I was born in 1969. Haggard Celine 1 hr ago #38
I managed not to ever get mumps. ShazzieB 8 min ago #39
Every day of his stinking life. Tape it on his bathroom mirror, put a poster of it over his bed, put an interlock on ... marble falls 12 hrs ago #10
Works for me. calimary 11 hrs ago #14
It won't change anything. 70sEraVet 11 hrs ago #23
This is a hard story to read LetMyPeopleVote 11 hrs ago #13
Message auto-removed Name removed 10 hrs ago #27
Some of those non vaxxed children who reached adulthood mwmisses4289 11 hrs ago #15
Wakefield... progressoid 11 hrs ago #17
may he ROAST... From The Ashes 11 hrs ago #21
VILE SCUM AZ8theist 8 hrs ago #36
PLEASE, EVERYBODY, READ CAREFULLY. The child contracted measles at 5 months. niyad 11 hrs ago #18
Thought it couldn't read much clearer, thanks for extra reminder! marble falls 11 hrs ago #22
Apparently not, given some of the responses. niyad 9 hrs ago #33
I almost died when I was 7 from the measles Tree Lady 11 hrs ago #20
Fear and ignorance are powerful factors leading to deadly decisions. Passages 11 hrs ago #24
The shame of the Kennedy clan... GiqueCee 11 hrs ago #26
Malevolent fraud is an excellent description. 3catwoman3 10 hrs ago #32
Makes me sooooo maaaaaaaddd Chicagogrl1 9 hrs ago #34
Wakefield should be hanged for what he did to the world. AZ8theist 8 hrs ago #35
A "study" with a sample size of 12. 3catwoman3 4 hrs ago #37
Heart-wrenching. LoisB 39 sec ago #40

EddieOnTheMesa

(81 posts)
2. IGNORANCE
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 01:49 PM
12 hrs ago

Brings so much needless sadness. Unfortunately this current administration is nothing but ignorance.

Response to marble falls (Reply #6)

ShazzieB

(22,726 posts)
28. Wow, that reply from [Name removed] disappeared while I was watching! 🤣
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 03:41 PM
10 hrs ago

This is the first time I ever alerted on a post to find it already gone when I came back from sending the alert. Congrats to whoever beat me to alerting on it, and to MIRT for the quick ban. That kind of antivaxx claptrap is not welcome here at DU.

SWBTATTReg

(26,325 posts)
30. Yes, our MIRTS team deserve a heck of a lot of credit plus all of us on DU too, for watching out, being on the
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 03:55 PM
10 hrs ago

alert, and notifying MIRTS.

niyad

(133,159 posts)
16. Please read more carefully. The child was 5 months old when she
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 02:37 PM
11 hrs ago

contracted measles. .the vaccine not given til 1 year. The child developed a rare and ulttimately fatal complication that killed her ten years later. The parents were neither careless nor ignorant.

slightlv

(7,857 posts)
19. HER parents weren't careless or ignorant...
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 02:48 PM
11 hrs ago

but the parents around her... I would say they contributed to her daughter's death by not vaccinating their children. They, in turn, exposed a baby who was too young to vaccinate. And this is what's happening today in America with Measles parties and chickenpox parties and such. The ignorance and stupidity is too much to bear sometimes. I had both diseases as a kid... What's the saying... I was born so long ago.... (LOL) But I remember neither of those two illnesses being anything I'd wish on my or anyone else's child. It was enough I had to go through them. And I pity my poor mom... she had three kids... and when one came down, it was a sure bet that at least one if not both of the other kids would, too. And Mom kept us up on all vaccinations available to us at the time.

I remember when my brother and I came down with chicken pox. My baby sister did, too, of course. She also developed scarlet fever and whooping cough. I bless those who persevere in their studies to vaccinate against these childhood diseases. And those who develop vaccines for us adults, too... like those of us who had chicken pox as kids, now coming down with shingles. After one mild case of shingles on the left side of my face and body, I swore I'd get vaccinated when it was released even if I had to pay for it myself. I never wanted to go through that kind of pain again!

hlthe2b

(114,224 posts)
5. If everyone could see an infant, a todder, even a teen die of measles--as rare as it remains...
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 01:50 PM
12 hrs ago

They would not only NEVER forget it but become the world's activists against these anti-vaxxers. I have seen one very young child die, and I can assure you I won't forget it--nor their equally grief-stricken and guilt-overwhelmed parents' faces

It would be disrespectful to the families to post videos of any of these children, but even nearly all physicians today have never seen a case. Rapidly changing, but had they only seen it for themselves, they too would not have acquiesced to their "Doctor Google" adamant patients who refused vaccines. The pediatricians I respect told their vaccine-refusing parents (sans any medical contraindication for their child) to go elsewhere.

They will never get them back. And most will never get over their foolish choice.

ShazzieB

(22,726 posts)
31. Given his age, he likely had measles as a child.
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 03:58 PM
10 hrs ago

He was born in 1954 and would have been 16 when the MMR vaccine was released. A large percentage of us baby boomers had measles long before we reached that age. I wouldn't be surprised if he had a mild case as a child, hence his airy dismissal of measles as a "minor, harmless" disease.

Antivaxxers are among my most unfavorite people ever. They're right up (down?) there with white supremacists, homophobes, and transphobes in my book.

Haggard Celine

(17,863 posts)
38. I had it and I was born in 1969.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 01:09 AM
1 hr ago

My mom said I had it as a baby, less than a year old. I also had mumps before my first birthday. Haven't heard of anyone getting mumps for a long, long time.

ShazzieB

(22,726 posts)
39. I managed not to ever get mumps.
Wed Apr 22, 2026, 02:16 AM
8 min ago

I remember some cases at my school when I was a kid, but it skipped me. I haven't heard of anyone I know having it since then. I assume it must be less contagious than measles and rubella, because relatively few kids seemed to catch it, even back then.

I had measles when I was 7 and rubella when I was 14, during what I later learned was a major nationwide epidemic during which 20,000 children were born with serious heart, hearing, and vision problems related to rubella exposure in utero. It's almost always a very mild disease when kids or aduIts get it but can be catastrophic when contacted by pregnant mothers. I'm glad those days are over and really hope antivaxxers dont manage to bring them back.

marble falls

(72,201 posts)
10. Every day of his stinking life. Tape it on his bathroom mirror, put a poster of it over his bed, put an interlock on ...
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 02:11 PM
12 hrs ago

... his car that requires him to read this before he can turn his ignition key and chisel it on his grave stone.

LetMyPeopleVote

(180,728 posts)
13. This is a hard story to read
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 02:25 PM
11 hrs ago

People who do not vaccinate their children are poorly informed and are putting their children at risk

Response to LetMyPeopleVote (Reply #13)

mwmisses4289

(4,446 posts)
15. Some of those non vaxxed children who reached adulthood
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 02:30 PM
11 hrs ago

one of the first things they did was go get vaccinated. Their parents apparently were not happy with them.
This story is a few years old, but he was apparently one of several young unvaxxed adults who went and got vaccinated.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2019/mar/01/teens-breaking-away-anti-vaxxer-family

niyad

(133,159 posts)
18. PLEASE, EVERYBODY, READ CAREFULLY. The child contracted measles at 5 months.
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 02:42 PM
11 hrs ago

The vaccine was generally not given til one year of age. There was a measles outbreak, thanks to that asshole wakefield. The child contracted a rare side effect that killed her just before she turned 11. HER parents were not to blame.

Tree Lady

(13,331 posts)
20. I almost died when I was 7 from the measles
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 02:49 PM
11 hrs ago

People are crazy not to get their kids a vaccine for it.

GiqueCee

(4,476 posts)
26. The shame of the Kennedy clan...
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 03:24 PM
11 hrs ago

... is not a good person. His morbid fascination with dead wildlife not withstanding, including that poor worm that was poisoned by munching on Kennedy's diseased brain; he apparently has a long history of being a pathological contrarian.
I would posit that he couldn't bear living in the shadow of his father, so he sunk into more and more destructive beliefs and behavior so at least he'd get noticed for something. Oh, he got noticed alright, but not for anything good.
Now, as head of Health and Human Services, he is in a position to inflict irreparable harm on millions, but especially on those gullible enough, or just plain stupid enough, to believe his lies. But I don't think he does it out of stupidity; I think he does it out of sheer malice, because he likes to hurt people for not idolizing him as millions did for his father. He's Jim Jones Lite, but his Kool Ade is a bushel of bullshit wrapped in a pretty ribbon of faux medical "science".
Kennedy is an evil sonofabitch who has to be exposed as the malevolent fraud he is.

3catwoman3

(29,600 posts)
32. Malevolent fraud is an excellent description.
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 04:02 PM
10 hrs ago

And so defensive. He's as gossamer-skinned as Trump.

3catwoman3

(29,600 posts)
37. A "study" with a sample size of 12.
Tue Apr 21, 2026, 09:53 PM
4 hrs ago

I may not remember much from the one and only statistics class I suffered thru and detested, but I certainly remember that you cannot draw any valid conclusions from an N of 12.

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