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https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/apr/24/rob-reiner-son-jakeJake Reiner calls parents 'center' of his life and says brother being at 'center' of loss is 'almost too impossible to process'

From left, Jake Reiner, Romy Reiner, Rob Reiner and Michele Reiner in Los Angeles, California, on 15 January 2024. Photograph: Gilbert Flores/Variety/Getty Images
Nick Reiner, the couple's younger son, who long struggled with drug addiction and mental illness, has been charged with two counts of first-degree murder in connection to their deaths, to which he has pleaded not guilty.
"What the hell do you say to someone who is living through this reality?" Jack Reiner wrote in his essay, his first public comment on his parents' deaths.
"We lost more than half of our family that night in the most violent way imaginable. Sure, any loss of a parent is devastating, but nothing compares to losing both of them at the same time and, on top of that, having your brother be at the center of it. It's almost too impossible to process."
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edhopper
(37,426 posts)what this is like.
hlthe2b
(114,273 posts)trouble processing and accepting this--I know I am.
So, I cannot even begin to comprehend how the family can do so. This is such an unimaginably cruel tragedy. I wish I had answers. I can only hope that they can somehow find peace in their lives.
erronis
(24,170 posts)These are probably the vast majority of what happens to us. They don't make 90 minute movies or simple stories.
I've been having discussions with friends about why they like the books or TV serials that start with a problem and end with a solution. (Until the next episode.)
Cha
(319,782 posts)It's been unfathomable to process, on a smaller scale than Jake, Romy, and all their friends and family, of course.
But still crave news on how they are possibly bearing this. I imagine it helps to speak out about it, and so glad Jake did.
💙💔☮️🌻🕯️🕊️💜
So Nick is pleading not guilty.
erronis
(24,170 posts)Unfortunately, for any famous people, the prying paparazzi will dig around anyway.
Figarosmom
(12,610 posts)FakeNoose
(42,015 posts)I'm sure they love their brother, but how can they ever accept this horrible loss? How can they ever forgive him?
None of their lives will ever be the same.
dflprincess
(29,373 posts)Everyone seems to forget about her.