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marmar

(79,980 posts)
Fri May 8, 2026, 09:10 AM 3 hrs ago

MAGA's sad effort to make "trad" sexy


I read the right-wing women’s magazine sex issue so you don’t have to
Evie magazine, conservatism's answer to Cosmo, tried to make "trad" sexy. It failed

By Amanda Marcotte
Senior Writer
Published May 8, 2026 6:45AM (EDT)


(Salon) "Body count? One. Orgasms? Countless,” reads the caption over a photograph of a woman’s crotch, which is bare except for some strategically-placed flower petals. Another illustration shows a woman’s hand resting on a man’s naked back. The awkwardly-worded motto reads “Make him hard, not his life.”

No, this isn’t your mother’s conservative Christianity. But in many ways, Evie Magazine is selling something worse.

....(snip)....

Evie Magazine is the latest iteration of these long-standing efforts to sell fundamentalism to young people with “hip” packaging. The young women’s magazine has admittedly been more successful than its predecessors, mostly due to what seems like a large infusion of cash that allows both its website and print edition to ape the expensive look of its worldly competitors, like Teen Vogue or Cosmopolitan. In its seven years of existence, Evie has strived to escape the cringeworthy reputation of evangelical youth culture by featuring scantily-clad models and even risqué content — which is supposed to be for married women only.

But even by these standards, their newly released “Sex” issue is surprising. At first blush, it’s hard to even believe it’s meant to push traditional gender roles on women. The cover features a bride in wedding-night lingerie, and the contents are positively NC-17: illustrations of naked couples copulating, how-to manuals for performing oral sex, bodice ripper-style descriptions of sexual intercourse and full-page photographs of models in suggestive poses, like eating cherries or drinking open-mouthed from a hose. Old-school religious conservatives would be appalled, and in fact, many complained on Evie’s Instagram page that the magazine, which is published by Gabriel Hugoboom and Brittany Martinez, a husband and wife team, had gone too far.

....(snip)....

Evie’s “Sex” issue is not a useful guide on the art of, well, sex. Instead, it’s propaganda, meant to sell a young, inexperienced audience on the idea that being a submissive wife in a traditional marriage is an erotically-charged and sexually-fulfilling lifestyle. The magazine is clever about concealing its agenda. The words “Christian” or “religious” are carefully avoided in favor of euphemisms like “traditional.” Instead of scolding the reader about the alleged evils of premarital sex, abstaining until marriage is simply (and falsely) presented as the cultural norm. The use of terms like “men” and “women” is scant; the magazine mostly refers to “husbands” and “wives,” as if sexual contact outside of heterosexual matrimony is so rare as to barely rate a mention. In 21st-century America, it’s exceedingly rare for women to be virgins on their wedding day. But inside the “Sex” issue, it’s just assumed that a woman’s wedding night will be her sexual initiation. ................(more)

https://www.salon.com/2026/05/08/i-read-the-right-wing-womens-magazine-sex-issue-so-you-dont-have-to/





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MAGA's sad effort to make "trad" sexy (Original Post) marmar 3 hrs ago OP
Heeeeere we go . . . . Regurgitation of The Total Woman no_hypocrisy 3 hrs ago #1
Evie claims to be 7 years old? mwmisses4289 3 hrs ago #2
seducing them into sex slavery. Baitball Blogger 3 hrs ago #3
Cosmo is nothing to brag about, either. valleyrogue 3 hrs ago #4
And her English? HighFired49 49 min ago #26
Is this the one with the Saran Wrap? milestogo 3 hrs ago #5
That's not sexy..... SergeStorms 2 hrs ago #9
A few years back, we had The Promise Keepers. They became very popular around here. Midnight Writer 3 hrs ago #6
You got that right!!!! It is time for men to grow up and quit wanting worship as that belongs to God not man Stargazer99 1 hr ago #14
Feeble god XCSki 58 min ago #22
Jeezus. Joinfortmill 2 hrs ago #7
"Be the Mary Magdalene to his Jesus" ChicagoTeamster 2 hrs ago #8
*snort* tanyev 52 min ago #24
Back to the Stone Age, bit by bit. The Madcap 2 hrs ago #10
Hysteria Podcast dealt with this subject bluestateboomer 2 hrs ago #11
I have a niece marrying a fundie Catholic JenniferJuniper 2 hrs ago #12
I'm thinking that any man who would seek out a wife like that will soon get bored with what he has at home. Xavier Breath 1 hr ago #15
Yeah, those brownies better be really, really good. JenniferJuniper 23 min ago #28
I hope she chose a good man, otherwise, she is setting herself up for failure. OMGWTF 1 hr ago #16
She'd be better off buying a lottery ticket. hunter 56 min ago #23
Gabriel HUGOBOOM??? skypilot 1 hr ago #13
I was always horrified by the idea Farmer-Rick 1 hr ago #17
Yeah, they don't talk about that in TradVille jmbar2 1 hr ago #21
Excellent analysis. Martin68 1 hr ago #18
What To Wear To Church: The Etiquette Guide Every Girl Needs. progressoid 1 hr ago #19
These normie gender-obsessed magazines are often honestly one of the greatest spreaders of misogyny. Oneironaut 1 hr ago #20
Jack Jones - Wives and Lovers NBachers 49 min ago #25
So if I'm a man, and it's my house, then I get to make all the rules, right? Seinan Sensei 33 min ago #27

no_hypocrisy

(55,265 posts)
1. Heeeeere we go . . . . Regurgitation of The Total Woman
Fri May 8, 2026, 09:18 AM
3 hrs ago
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Total_Woman

The Total Woman is a self-help book for married women by Marabel Morgan published in 1973. The book sold over 500,000 copies within the first year, making it the most successful non-fiction book in the U.S. in 1974.[1] Overall, it sold more than ten million copies.[2] Grounded in evangelical Christianity, it taught that "A Total Woman caters to her man's special quirks, whether it be in salads, sex, or sports,"[3] and is perhaps best remembered for instructing wives to greet their man at the front door wearing sexy outfits; suggestions included "a cowgirl or a showgirl." "It's only when a woman surrenders her life to her husband, reveres and worships him and is willing to serve him, that she becomes really beautiful to him," Morgan wrote.


No thanks, I think I'll stick to The Happy Hooker.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Happy_Hooker

An international phenomenon upon its initial publication in 1972, The Happy Hooker established Xaviera Hollander—previously the most powerful madam in New York City—as the world's best-known observer and commentator on sexual issues. A racy account of her life behind the brothel door, The Happy Hooker became an instant classic that marked the intersection between the Playboy generation and the sexual revolution of the feminist era. Hollander left no vice unturned, covering lesbianism, bondage, and other sexual appetites with a frank tone that left the reader with no doubt that they were listening to a master…or mistress, as it were.

mwmisses4289

(4,601 posts)
2. Evie claims to be 7 years old?
Fri May 8, 2026, 09:27 AM
3 hrs ago

I first became aware of it about 2 years ago, and I seem to remember it was touting itself as a new mag, with that rich gal from ballet farm being touted as their 1st cover model. Guess I was wrong. I know I first heard about the whole "trad wife" nonsense about two years ago, when there was some controversy with the ballet farm gal and her hubby, some airline execs son.

valleyrogue

(2,776 posts)
4. Cosmo is nothing to brag about, either.
Fri May 8, 2026, 09:38 AM
3 hrs ago

Sexist ideas come in all kinds of packaging.

I am not a fan of Amanda Marcotte. She isn't the brightest bulb in the chandelier.

HighFired49

(513 posts)
26. And her English?
Fri May 8, 2026, 12:16 PM
49 min ago

Her English is atrocious. "Commentator" is old and never was correct, and has been mostly replaced with "commenter". In addition, her use of "has strived" should be "has striven", and why is a hyphen needed in "awkwardly-worded"? Then her "efforts to sell fundamentalism to young people with “hip” packaging."? Do the young people have "hip packaging"? Sheesh!!

Those were just a few issues that I noticed in a quick read. After that, I probably wouldn't read anything else that she has written. Sad for a "senior writer" to make so many errors in just a couple of paragraphs. My English isn't perfect, but I don't claim to be a "senior writer".

milestogo

(23,175 posts)
5. Is this the one with the Saran Wrap?
Fri May 8, 2026, 09:59 AM
3 hrs ago

A woman should greet her husband at the door wearing only Saran Wrap.

Midnight Writer

(25,674 posts)
6. A few years back, we had The Promise Keepers. They became very popular around here.
Fri May 8, 2026, 10:03 AM
3 hrs ago

Promise Keepers believe The Man is chosen by God to rule the family with a strong hand. Women are here to be the helper of The Man.

Of course, every abusive, controlling, bullying asshole jumped on to this "Movement" that made it virtuous to be a tyrant in your own home.

Stargazer99

(3,545 posts)
14. You got that right!!!! It is time for men to grow up and quit wanting worship as that belongs to God not man
Fri May 8, 2026, 11:29 AM
1 hr ago

XCSki

(28 posts)
22. Feeble god
Fri May 8, 2026, 12:06 PM
58 min ago

Man needing worship, I get. God needing worship? Must be a feeble one there. Must have better things to do as a god, I’d think.

The Madcap

(2,001 posts)
10. Back to the Stone Age, bit by bit.
Fri May 8, 2026, 10:36 AM
2 hrs ago

I will never understand why people would want to subjugate themselves to such a rigid system.

So, as a man, my obligation is to go out and work every single day (except Sunday), all day long, come home to a hot dinner, ignore the kids, and provide every single penny to the family. My wife must cook the dinner, look beautiful every minute, raise the children, make the house perfectly clean, and serve my every need at my command...

That seems to be what these people are saying. I just don't understand why working together on tasks and enjoying family life together is so forbidden. It's like humans are two completely different species: male and female, with no overlap.

I get being alluring to one's partner. That is a good thing. Subjugation, though, is on a completely different level.

I'll pass.

JenniferJuniper

(4,575 posts)
12. I have a niece marrying a fundie Catholic
Fri May 8, 2026, 10:55 AM
2 hrs ago

this summer.

She wants to be a Trad wife because "school was so difficult and work has been so stressful, I just want to stay home and have babies and make brownies. Just be a beautiful little girlie all day, getting ready for my hubs to get home".

And wear pearls and high heels all day, I reckon?

Oh, girl. You have no idea what you are setting yourself up for. I wish more of my mother's generation were still alive to tell her what that life is really like.

Xavier Breath

(6,673 posts)
15. I'm thinking that any man who would seek out a wife like that will soon get bored with what he has at home.
Fri May 8, 2026, 11:31 AM
1 hr ago

OMGWTF

(5,205 posts)
16. I hope she chose a good man, otherwise, she is setting herself up for failure.
Fri May 8, 2026, 11:34 AM
1 hr ago

Every woman needs to have her own money and skills to make money.

Farmer-Rick

(12,773 posts)
17. I was always horrified by the idea
Fri May 8, 2026, 11:43 AM
1 hr ago

That a woman could be dumped from the marriage at 50 and get nothing to live on.

Alimony is very rare now a days. And it's never permanent and can easily be modified. Most men aren't rich enough to warrant paying allimony anyway. So the trad wife loses all her financial security and must rely on the whims of some guy.

It is still used in long-term marriages where there is a massive income disparity or if one spouse is disabled or in poor health. But it's very rare and of course can be changed easily enough.

The best bet for a wife after divorce is to get a lump sum payout. But average middle class men don't have enough money to split between 2 households. And that means the trad wife is left hanging with no means of support and no career opportunities. That must be very scary. It would be for me....

jmbar2

(8,121 posts)
21. Yeah, they don't talk about that in TradVille
Fri May 8, 2026, 11:54 AM
1 hr ago

I would be terrified for any younger woman relative in my family going that route. Job prospects in the future with no skills, trying to enter the workforce at midlife? No retirement beyond hubs portion of SS?

Yipes!

Oneironaut

(6,318 posts)
20. These normie gender-obsessed magazines are often honestly one of the greatest spreaders of misogyny.
Fri May 8, 2026, 11:51 AM
1 hr ago

These people are obnoxious. I absolutely love being lectured by cis men the unending importance of all women being fuckable to them, but also how we should treat a man like a helpless child by doing everything for them.

Seinan Sensei

(1,620 posts)
27. So if I'm a man, and it's my house, then I get to make all the rules, right?
Fri May 8, 2026, 12:31 PM
33 min ago

Soooooo …

What if I “rule” that, in my house, my Wife and I are co-equals?
What if I say that, in my house, my Wife and I each hold co-equal status and have co-equal input?

And if Hugoboom or Boomhauer or anyone else says I’m not allowed to do that, then that would mean I am not the man-of-the-house … that YOU are the man of my house.

Get out of my house, asshole.

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