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cbabe

(6,836 posts)
Sat May 23, 2026, 12:23 PM 23 hrs ago

Experience: we found a baby on the subway - now he's our 26-year-old son

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/may/22/experience-found-baby-subway-now-26-year-old-son

Experience: we found a baby on the subway – now he’s our 26-year-old son

I was rushing towards the turnstile when I noticed a bundle of clothes in a corner. I walked over, peeled back a dark sweatshirt, and saw him.

Danny Stewart
Fri 22 May 2026 00.00 EDT

In the summer of 2000, I could never have imagined becoming a father. I was 34, living in New York City, with a good job in social care, but still in a tiny apartment. I had been with my partner, Pete, for just over three years; we were serious, but we didn’t live together. Becoming a parent was not on my radar.

One August evening, I had finished work late and was hurrying to a dinner reservation I had with Pete. I was rushing towards the turnstile at Union Square station when I noticed a bundle of clothes in a corner. I saw it move and stopped in my tracks. I walked over, peeled back a dark sweatshirt, and saw him: a newborn baby, with the umbilical cord still attached.

I was in shock. I sprinted up to the street and found a payphone to call 911. “I found a baby,” I blurted out. I rushed back to the platform and crouched down next to the baby. I stroked his head to comfort him but he pulled a face. “OK, you don’t like that,” I said. We stared at each other. My heart was racing.



Pete’s written a memoir, and we also turned the story we wrote for Kevin into a children’s book and had a short animation made. We want other children to understand there are lots of ways to become a family.

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Experience: we found a baby on the subway - now he's our 26-year-old son (Original Post) cbabe 23 hrs ago OP
Such a wonderful story BlueWaveNeverEnd 22 hrs ago #1
Gorgeous SuzyandPuffpuff 22 hrs ago #2
That was absolutely lovely. LovelyStuff 21 hrs ago #3
Great story DiverDave 21 hrs ago #4
Something in my eyes... mcar 21 hrs ago #5
Same here too. I guess all the grass pollen Botany 20 hrs ago #10
It's the onions in the chuck roast. Mine too. twodogsbarking 18 hrs ago #13
Yeah. No kidding. calimary 11 hrs ago #19
Thanks so much for posting this EverHopeful 21 hrs ago #6
Thanks for this malaise 21 hrs ago #7
Thank you for this beautiful moment of humanity. niyad 21 hrs ago #8
Well that got my tear ducts flowing. I had no idea an adoption could work this way. How wonderful for all of them. chowder66 21 hrs ago #9
Awe! This made me smile. hamsterjill 20 hrs ago #11
The Universe moves in mysterious ways. patphil 18 hrs ago #12
Double lucky with fathers! BeneteauBum 17 hrs ago #14
A beautiful, moving story. Thanks for bringing it to our attention. 70sEraVet 17 hrs ago #15
That gives a whole new meaning to "finders, keepers". Buddyzbuddy 17 hrs ago #16
What an incredibly lovely story! Devilsun 14 hrs ago #17
Thank you for sharing jackcrow2001 12 hrs ago #18
What generous, loving hearts wendyb-NC 10 hrs ago #20
Do we have the name of the book... Trueblue Texan 1 hr ago #21
Our Subway Baby cbabe 20 min ago #22

DiverDave

(5,264 posts)
4. Great story
Sat May 23, 2026, 01:35 PM
21 hrs ago

Why am I crying?
Parenting saved my life.
I'm convinced I would have drank and drugged myself to death.
And it IS the best thing I have ever done.

Botany

(77,889 posts)
10. Same here too. I guess all the grass pollen
Sat May 23, 2026, 02:29 PM
20 hrs ago

... in the air has kicked up my allergies or
maybe it is the dust. This has to do with
real family values and love.

EverHopeful

(707 posts)
6. Thanks so much for posting this
Sat May 23, 2026, 01:54 PM
21 hrs ago

Read it but haven't figured out how to post here.

It brought tears to my eyes and gave me a much-needed boost of my faith in humanity.

I actually remember when it was in the news when he was originally found.

Shocked me that it was so many years ago. Time flies when you're having fun or getting old

chowder66

(12,535 posts)
9. Well that got my tear ducts flowing. I had no idea an adoption could work this way. How wonderful for all of them.
Sat May 23, 2026, 02:19 PM
21 hrs ago

And that judge!! Wow!!

hamsterjill

(17,775 posts)
11. Awe! This made me smile.
Sat May 23, 2026, 03:15 PM
20 hrs ago

What an awesome turn of events and obviously something meant to be. Incredible story!!!!

patphil

(9,231 posts)
12. The Universe moves in mysterious ways.
Sat May 23, 2026, 04:48 PM
18 hrs ago

At least they seem mysterious at the time, but things happen at precisely the right moment; when the desired effect can be brought about.
And so a love story began near a turnstile in the Union Square subway on one August evening.
And so it continues.

BeneteauBum

(793 posts)
14. Double lucky with fathers!
Sat May 23, 2026, 06:16 PM
17 hrs ago

Kids are cool and the experience of raising them is one of the greater feelings of satisfaction you’ll ever have.

Peace ☮️

70sEraVet

(5,635 posts)
15. A beautiful, moving story. Thanks for bringing it to our attention.
Sat May 23, 2026, 06:17 PM
17 hrs ago

And to think that I live in a state where that children's book is probably on the banned books list!

jackcrow2001

(21 posts)
18. Thank you for sharing
Sat May 23, 2026, 11:13 PM
12 hrs ago

I find myself feeling both warmed at heart and choked up, thanks for the feels.

cbabe

(6,836 posts)
22. Our Subway Baby
Sun May 24, 2026, 11:09 AM
20 min ago
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Our_Subway_Baby

Our Subway Baby is a picture book written by Peter Mercurio, illustrated by Leo Espinosa, and published September 15, 2020 by Dial Press. The book tells the true story of how Pete and his husband, Danny, found and eventually adopted their son, Kevin.

(Maybe someone can post some photos from the article? Great looking family.)
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