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WhiskeyGrinder

(27,284 posts)
Sun May 31, 2026, 02:13 PM Yesterday

Top Graham Platner adviser threatened former aide over sexting stories

https://www.bangordailynews.com/2026/05/31/politics/top-graham-platner-adviser-threatened-former-aide-over-sexting-stories/

An adviser to Democratic U.S. Senate candidate Graham Platner warned a former aide she would be accused of lying and sabotage if she cooperated with news outlets reporting on sexually explicit messages Platner sent to women, according to a message reviewed by the Bangor Daily News.

Morris Katz, a strategist with the Platner campaign, delivered the Friday warning through an intermediary to former state Rep. Genevieve McDonald, who left the campaign last fall and spoke to The Wall Street Journal and New York Times. The outlets published stories in quick succession on Saturday about the messages that had been flagged by Platner’s wife at the outset of his campaign last summer.

“Just want to be clear on where we are right now,” Katz wrote in the message that McDonald shared exclusively with the BDN. “If the story goes in its current iteration we’ll communicate directly on the record, and by name, that Genevieve violated the personal trust of Amy and Graham and shared explicit falsehoods to sabotage the campaign.”

The Platner campaign has confirmed the existence of the messages. A campaign official told the Times that Platner had been communicating with up to six women, and that aides concluded when they learned of the matter that it was a private one the couple had addressed in counseling.
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Top Graham Platner adviser threatened former aide over sexting stories (Original Post) WhiskeyGrinder Yesterday OP
And it gets worse. RandySF Yesterday #1
It always does. LisaL Yesterday #3
How is this worse? Fiendish Thingy Yesterday #16
The WSJ already knew about it Quiet Em Yesterday #18
Better now than in September Fiendish Thingy Yesterday #20
OR Boo1 Yesterday #25
Unfortunately it doesn't work like that Cosmocat 22 hrs ago #31
Ummm no Boo1 22 hrs ago #37
They were going to accuse her of lying for telling the truth? LisaL Yesterday #2
In other words... jmbar2 Yesterday #4
But it's ok. RandySF Yesterday #5
He is also in Maine. LisaL Yesterday #6
LOL! MineralMan Yesterday #7
...Bill Clinton's campaign where far worse accusations came out? SSJVegeta Yesterday #8
To be fair... jmbar2 Yesterday #10
Like Platners wife? SSJVegeta Yesterday #11
The primary isn't over. RandySF Yesterday #13
3 if you include Mills. None are running a serious campaign. SSJVegeta Yesterday #14
Presumptions aren't facts Boo1 Yesterday #26
Theres 9 days left and nobody else has name recognition or established messaging. One has officially dropped out. SSJVegeta Yesterday #28
The other candidate Boo1 22 hrs ago #38
While polling at 3% or less SSJVegeta 16 hrs ago #45
You're dsicounting Boo1 16 hrs ago #46
Mills dropped out even though she is on the ballot SSJVegeta 16 hrs ago #48
Platner's wife thought she was confiding in a friend questionseverything 4 hrs ago #57
It's getting scary seeing the many ways many men are trying to silence people in this country Attilatheblond 4 hrs ago #52
Disgruntled ex employee makes sense. Mole hill into a mountain. Blue Full Moon Yesterday #9
The employee was Platner's former political director RandySF Yesterday #12
She's a nice lady. Represented the town where I grew up. GPV Yesterday #19
"It's the jews!" Boo1 Yesterday #27
Sending sex messages to at least SIX women? Irish_Dem Yesterday #15
After being newly married. LisaL Yesterday #21
Imperfections! /s pinkstarburst 22 hrs ago #30
Wow , six women?? That's one for every day almost. Nixie 22 hrs ago #35
More shoes will drop. 100% guaranteed. Irish_Dem 22 hrs ago #41
Why are you assuming he can't multi-task? LisaL 22 hrs ago #42
True! He must be great with time management. Nixie 21 hrs ago #44
Looks like Platner's been eating a lot of oysters... sop 5 hrs ago #51
Who is surprised by this? LetMyPeopleVote Yesterday #17
It's a real head scratcher. Just when I think I'm caught up on Nixie 22 hrs ago #36
What would be ironic is if Republicans/Independents voted for him because of these things. betsuni Yesterday #22
I loved your oysters and sausage comment but the thread was Nixie Yesterday #24
Wait, wait. To unpack this-- Platner's own wife told someone about Nixie Yesterday #23
That " someone " was his campaign manager questionseverything 4 hrs ago #58
Platner is done. Democratic Party is being damaged. delisen 23 hrs ago #29
Huh? mr715 22 hrs ago #32
Truth and Politics. delisen 22 hrs ago #33
We'll see. mr715 22 hrs ago #34
Astroturfed is a great word for what we're likely seeing. Nixie 22 hrs ago #40
Im getting Linda Tripp vibes from this Genevieve McDonald. Sexting - yeah that's a shame he did Nanjeanne 22 hrs ago #39
Why weren't those politicians indescretions nothingburgers? intheflow 5 hrs ago #49
That's how I feel. Nanjeanne 5 hrs ago #50
Thought experiment... jmbar2 4 hrs ago #53
Please show any proof that the sexting was nonconsensual. intheflow 4 hrs ago #54
The fact that they were talking about it, and sharing that it was happening... jmbar2 4 hrs ago #56
What the fuck makes you think I'm not a woman and haven't experienced unwanted sexting? intheflow 2 hrs ago #61
Are you writing fan fiction? Nanjeanne 4 hrs ago #55
Most of the story is from the citations on Wikipedia, particularly local Maine coverage of his campaign jmbar2 4 hrs ago #59
Well comparing this to MAGA devotion is bs Nanjeanne 3 hrs ago #60
Maine voters decide duckworth969 22 hrs ago #43
Post removed Post removed 16 hrs ago #47

Fiendish Thingy

(24,232 posts)
16. How is this worse?
Sun May 31, 2026, 03:22 PM
Yesterday

McDonald betrayed a confidence.

She is also a lobbyist for conservative oriented industries.

Quiet Em

(3,095 posts)
18. The WSJ already knew about it
Sun May 31, 2026, 03:58 PM
Yesterday

McDonald and a current staffer on Platner's campaign confirmed it when asked by the WSJ.

I can tell you that I don't know what the WSJ knows or who they may be getting info from, e.g. one of the women in the sexting convos, but I'm going to guess the that WSJ and right wing operatives aren't done with their story yet.

Fiendish Thingy

(24,232 posts)
20. Better now than in September
Sun May 31, 2026, 04:01 PM
Yesterday

After a few news cycles, we will see if it’s a somethingburger, or the nothingburger it appears to be.

By no means do I see the current details dooming his campaign.

jmbar2

(8,214 posts)
4. In other words...
Sun May 31, 2026, 02:22 PM
Yesterday

shut up, or bad things might happen to you. Where have we heard that before?

LisaL

(47,618 posts)
6. He is also in Maine.
Sun May 31, 2026, 02:30 PM
Yesterday

And unless you live in Maine, you can't have an opinion. Or so I have been told. You can donate money to his campaign, but you can't have an opinion.
Makes total sense.

MineralMan

(151,722 posts)
7. LOL!
Sun May 31, 2026, 02:35 PM
Yesterday

I'm not really paying much attention to all of this. The voters in Maine will make their own decisions, no doubt.

jmbar2

(8,214 posts)
10. To be fair...
Sun May 31, 2026, 02:53 PM
Yesterday

We know more about Clinton's misbehavior than we do about what else Platner has been up to because the women are being told to STFU! By democrats.

SSJVegeta

(3,247 posts)
11. Like Platners wife?
Sun May 31, 2026, 03:07 PM
Yesterday

Surely anybody who told women to stfu should be fired. Nonetheless Susan Collins is still much worse. And Platner and Colliins for now are our options there

SSJVegeta

(3,247 posts)
14. 3 if you include Mills. None are running a serious campaign.
Sun May 31, 2026, 03:12 PM
Yesterday

Platner is the presumptive nominee until that changes

SSJVegeta

(3,247 posts)
28. Theres 9 days left and nobody else has name recognition or established messaging. One has officially dropped out.
Sun May 31, 2026, 06:04 PM
Yesterday

Last edited Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:44 AM - Edit history (2)

SSJVegeta

(3,247 posts)
45. While polling at 3% or less
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:42 AM
16 hrs ago

Platner is at 76%

Crazier things have happened, but I dont think a person will magically go from low single digits to victory in 8 days.

Boo1

(507 posts)
46. You're dsicounting
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:51 AM
16 hrs ago

Mills being on the ballot and rcv in Maine.

A poll in the field a week ago doesn't mean anything today. A lot can happen in 9 days

SSJVegeta

(3,247 posts)
48. Mills dropped out even though she is on the ballot
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 02:01 AM
16 hrs ago

Unless she unsuspends her campaign RCV wont do a lot of good for anybody else at this point.

Attilatheblond

(9,348 posts)
52. It's getting scary seeing the many ways many men are trying to silence people in this country
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:21 PM
4 hrs ago

Trump, cabinet members, pols of questionable integrity, and possibly billionaire sponsors of same, want to gag federal workers, who are US citizens with rights, just to spare them being outed for malfeasance.

Free speech, my Aunt Fanny's fanny!

Libel should be dealt with thru the legal system. Squelching speech? Ah, no.

Blue Full Moon

(3,693 posts)
9. Disgruntled ex employee makes sense. Mole hill into a mountain.
Sun May 31, 2026, 02:38 PM
Yesterday

The real reason is he doesn't take AIPAC Epstein billionaires money.

RandySF

(86,778 posts)
12. The employee was Platner's former political director
Sun May 31, 2026, 03:08 PM
Yesterday

who resigned over Platner’s Reddit posts and Nazi tattoo.

GPV

(73,402 posts)
19. She's a nice lady. Represented the town where I grew up.
Sun May 31, 2026, 04:01 PM
Yesterday

She said herself on her Facebook page that she didn't just blow up her life for the fun of it.

Nixie

(18,144 posts)
35. Wow , six women?? That's one for every day almost.
Sun May 31, 2026, 07:44 PM
22 hrs ago

His wife got the 7th day? That’s a lot of activity to account for and then you have to assume that one of these multiple sexters might want their 15 minutes. We’ll see if more shoes drop.

LisaL

(47,618 posts)
42. Why are you assuming he can't multi-task?
Sun May 31, 2026, 08:09 PM
22 hrs ago

He could be texting multiple women on the same day. And if he calls them all "honey" he doesn't have to keep their names straight.

Nixie

(18,144 posts)
44. True! He must be great with time management.
Sun May 31, 2026, 08:54 PM
21 hrs ago

That’s a lot of balls in the air to juggle, so to speak.

Actually, I do feel pretty sorry for his wife of less than three years. This had to hurt.

Nixie

(18,144 posts)
36. It's a real head scratcher. Just when I think I'm caught up on
Sun May 31, 2026, 07:45 PM
22 hrs ago

all the angles, more strange things come out.

betsuni

(29,354 posts)
22. What would be ironic is if Republicans/Independents voted for him because of these things.
Sun May 31, 2026, 04:27 PM
Yesterday

Might be familiar and attractive for them. When you're an oysterman, they let you do it....

Nixie

(18,144 posts)
24. I loved your oysters and sausage comment but the thread was
Sun May 31, 2026, 04:38 PM
Yesterday

locked and couldn’t reply. Hilarious….

Nixie

(18,144 posts)
23. Wait, wait. To unpack this-- Platner's own wife told someone about
Sun May 31, 2026, 04:35 PM
Yesterday

the sexts.

Then that person told the media what his wife said.

Now they are going to call the “someone” a liar?

How does that make Platner’s wife look who brought this all up in the first place?

delisen

(7,448 posts)
29. Platner is done. Democratic Party is being damaged.
Sun May 31, 2026, 07:13 PM
23 hrs ago

I believe that he and his wife should be treated with compassion.

I think this has been a manufactured astroturfed campaign run by marketers who have been selling a false narrative for the sake of their own ideologies and ambitions.

I hope Katz makes a statement tomorrow explaining his actions. I think both Bernie and Elizabeth Warren need to address the situation.
The longer this plays out the more damage to the Democratic Party.

If Mills is out there is a vetted , experienced candidate in the race who has received little press. Costello is pro Medicare for All. Maybe he will be satisfactory to the voters in Maine.

Of course everything is up to Platner and nd the people of Maine.

Nixie

(18,144 posts)
40. Astroturfed is a great word for what we're likely seeing.
Sun May 31, 2026, 07:52 PM
22 hrs ago

Things just don’t add up.

Great post.

Nanjeanne

(6,679 posts)
39. Im getting Linda Tripp vibes from this Genevieve McDonald. Sexting - yeah that's a shame he did
Sun May 31, 2026, 07:48 PM
22 hrs ago

that when newly married. And im glad he and his wife got counseling and are reconciled. But it sure as shit doesn’t affect me any more than Clinton’s infidelities or Kennedys or FDR’s. Not on the scale of the destruct the Rs are perpetrating on us daily.

intheflow

(30,273 posts)
49. Why weren't those politicians indescretions nothingburgers?
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 12:26 PM
5 hrs ago

Because it was consensual (as far as we know) between adults.

Trump = pedo = not sex between adults
Trump = rapist = not consensual
Swalwell = harassing texts to women = nonconsensual

Clinton/Lewandowsky - consensual adults
JFK and *waves broadly* - consensual adults
Gary Hart - consensual adults

Platner? Also consensual adults as far as we know. No one has come forward to say they weren't willing participants, or were underage. I never knew DU had so many Puritans until now.

jmbar2

(8,214 posts)
53. Thought experiment...
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:24 PM
4 hrs ago

Fairly newly married Platner working on an oyster farm, wife is school teacher. Not wealthy folks... But he is a glib talker with leadership capabilities. Locals nominate him to local positions.

- About three years ago, he decides to run for office in a grassroots bid. Likely invests their limited marital assets to run. Wife believes in him. Others in town believe in him. Folks volunteer to help.

- As he gets national publicity for saying all the right things, gets a big infusion of cash and hires professional campaign workers. You are one of those enthusiastic workers - female.

- One day, he starts sexting you. Disgusting stuff. Why me? You're creeped out.
"WTF!? He's married, he's a candidate and he's doing this? This guys a jerk. I'm out!"

- These women did not want to be sexted. This was not consensual. They bailed because of it. If you've ever been sexually harassed on the job, you know how creepy it is. You cannot remove that from your mind.

- Stories reach the paid staff and they start resigning well-paid jobs. They are willing to give up paid work, either because they're repulsed, or see writing on the wall and expect the campaign to collapse.

- Resignations of paid staff hits national media, rumors are flying, donations dropping. Remaining loyals are now scrambling to come up with a strategy for controlling the bad publicity. Say that it's all lies. Have the wife say she still loves him. It was in the past, when he was a kid of 37.

- He tries to get remaining supporters/staff to sign NDAs. "Shut up about it!"

- You are one of the women who got the texts. You know his wife and like her. She is devastated, and faces financial ruin if his candidacy collapses. Their entire worldly savings are invested. What choices does she have? Try to resuscitate his reputation or face financial ruin.

In short: Many people are in turmoil due to his poor judgment, lack of self-control. The women who got the trashy sexts, people losing their jobs, his wife, donors, volunteers. So many people affected.

Why should we elect this guy to an important public office? He is destroying everyone around him. He's a loose cannon.

intheflow

(30,273 posts)
54. Please show any proof that the sexting was nonconsensual.
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:35 PM
4 hrs ago

I do not know for a fact that it was, and also - you don't know that it wasn't. Sexting isn't illegal or disturbing if all parties are into it.

jmbar2

(8,214 posts)
56. The fact that they were talking about it, and sharing that it was happening...
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:43 PM
4 hrs ago

suggests that it was unwanted. I cannot recall situations where numerous women go public because they are enjoying getting sexted by some horndog.

Please read my post here, and put yourself in the shoes of women who have been through this.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=21275118

intheflow

(30,273 posts)
61. What the fuck makes you think I'm not a woman and haven't experienced unwanted sexting?
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 04:14 PM
2 hrs ago

Because I am and I have.

This sexting was unwanted by his wife. No other women have come forward to report unwanted attention from Platner. The article in the OP mentioned he had an account on a hookup (not dating) site so that raises the likelihood it was consensual. FFS, learn to differentiate between your feelings and the actual known facts.

Nanjeanne

(6,679 posts)
55. Are you writing fan fiction?
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:40 PM
4 hrs ago

You posted a story and that’s fine if you are taking a writing course. If you want a discussion based on why should we elect this guy….

Because, as I said, I do t give a shit about his sexting (and there nothing that this was not between adults as much as you prefer to create your scenario) and I definitely care that with Susan Collins in the Senate, my actual real concerns and priorities are greatly diminished.

jmbar2

(8,214 posts)
59. Most of the story is from the citations on Wikipedia, particularly local Maine coverage of his campaign
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 01:52 PM
4 hrs ago

The pushback on this reminds me of the MAGA total devotion to Dear Leader, no matter how horrible he is.

Platner's behavior is destructive to those around him.

Nanjeanne

(6,679 posts)
60. Well comparing this to MAGA devotion is bs
Mon Jun 1, 2026, 02:24 PM
3 hrs ago

It’s about having a Dem Senate and sexting is simply not anything I give teo shots about. Your stories just story with zero validation.

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