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milestogo

(23,394 posts)
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 04:21 PM 2 hrs ago

Good riddance to men who sexually assault women.

I don't give a flying fuck if you've already been elected to office or you're running for office in a key race.

i don't give a flying fuck what your platform is. Its all talk.

Men who have a history of assaulting women should just leave the Democratic party and go far, far away.


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Good riddance to men who sexually assault women. (Original Post) milestogo 2 hrs ago OP
Nonsense bucolic_frolic 2 hrs ago #1
* Only if they're Republicans. BannonsLiver 2 hrs ago #7
You got me bucolic_frolic 53 min ago #45
Hopefully, providing that there is some verifiable evidence... -misanthroptimist 2 hrs ago #2
Oh puh-leeze... milestogo 2 hrs ago #3
Quantity isn't quality -misanthroptimist 2 hrs ago #4
And if this were happening to men instead of women we wouldn't even be having this discussion. milestogo 2 hrs ago #5
You're saying no evidence is required from women making this claim? live love laugh 2 hrs ago #12
I neither trust nor believe men or women based on their gender -misanthroptimist 1 hr ago #19
No one said anything about witnesses or cameras -misanthroptimist 1 hr ago #23
To prove something in a court of law you need evidence. milestogo 1 hr ago #26
I agree it can be difficult to prove -misanthroptimist 1 hr ago #31
And FYI- attempted rapes are usually not prosecuted. milestogo 22 min ago #51
There is evidence. SamuelAdams 2 hrs ago #10
Do you a link for that or a source article on those emails, I can't find one. Thanks. nt blue_jay 1 hr ago #15
You're talking about a specific case -misanthroptimist 1 hr ago #18
Yes wern't most of the first batch of accusations, IbogaProject 1 hr ago #25
No idea -misanthroptimist 1 hr ago #28
No obamanut2012 1 hr ago #30
Wow. MorbidButterflyTat 1 hr ago #37
You can let go of the pearls -misanthroptimist 1 hr ago #38
She could be cashing a nice, Republican check. Ever thought about that? paleotn 1 hr ago #43
I strongly suggest that you acquaint yourself with the actual statistics niyad 15 min ago #57
You tell me. Exactly how many? -misanthroptimist 1 hr ago #39
I think it depends on the man. milestogo 50 min ago #46
Too Much Deference to Platner Starbeach 23 min ago #50
Politico (who broke the story) said that they reviewed documents. lapucelle 1 hr ago #29
Her account of the episode. lapucelle 1 hr ago #35
Careful there. That might cause potential Republican propaganda not to work. paleotn 1 hr ago #42
I'm so sick of it PatSeg 2 hrs ago #6
Apparently. milestogo 2 hrs ago #8
Yes and that is why campaigns usually PatSeg 2 hrs ago #13
Maybe he didn't think anything he did was wrong MorbidButterflyTat 1 hr ago #14
I was working for a candidate and a story came out milestogo 1 hr ago #20
Yes and that's actually worse PatSeg 17 min ago #55
or run as a repuke Skittles 1 hr ago #33
Men who do this believe that most men do this, and Maru Kitteh 1 hr ago #40
Probably true PatSeg 12 min ago #58
The gentleman had some questionable behavior in the past Keepthesoulalive 1 hr ago #21
he's a straight white man Skittles 1 hr ago #34
I'm seeing some posts implying if republicans vote for scum Keepthesoulalive 1 hr ago #41
This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver 2 hrs ago #9
The stuff is hitting the fan. Jacson6 2 hrs ago #11
Good riddance to bad rubbish. Raftergirl 1 hr ago #16
THANK YOU Skittles 1 hr ago #17
Or they can switch to the GOP and get elected to the highest offices, i.e. president, SCOTUS. Katinfl 1 hr ago #22
yup Skittles 1 hr ago #36
This can cure the problem. twodogsbarking 1 hr ago #24
Thank You! Innocent Smith 1 hr ago #27
+1000! mcar 1 hr ago #32
Susan Collins sends her thanks! She doesn't know what she'd do without Dems doing her work for her. paleotn 58 min ago #44
It's sickening. MorbidButterflyTat 19 min ago #52
The Maine Democratic Party calls on Graham Planter to drop out of the Senate race. LetMyPeopleVote 43 min ago #47
My aunt was nearly murdered by her wacko husband Just_Vote_Dem 39 min ago #48
So another 6 years of Collins? The Supreme Court appointments she supported did more damage to 3Hotdogs 30 min ago #49
Purge the scumbags. Dave Bowman 18 min ago #53
Perfect is the enemy of good. Bobstandard 18 min ago #54
This is EXACTLY why I felt he should have been dropped the first time. jmbar2 16 min ago #56

milestogo

(23,394 posts)
3. Oh puh-leeze...
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 04:34 PM
2 hrs ago

How many women have to come forward with their stories before its clear that this guy is really bad news?

-misanthroptimist

(2,025 posts)
4. Quantity isn't quality
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 04:41 PM
2 hrs ago

Verifiable evidence is the only way to fairly support a claim. Lack of such evidence is NOT sufficient to determine the truth. Otherwise, a mere claim becomes a conviction...which is sort of in direct conflict with our understanding of fairness.

milestogo

(23,394 posts)
5. And if this were happening to men instead of women we wouldn't even be having this discussion.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 04:47 PM
2 hrs ago

A man's word is not holy or sacred and neither is his career.

But some people automatically believe anything a man says and always doubt women.

I trust women. I believe women. And I know that sexual assault occurs often, and it occurs in a context where there are no witnesses and no cameras. Demanding that kind of evidence is just one more way of keeping your foot on our necks.

-misanthroptimist

(2,025 posts)
19. I neither trust nor believe men or women based on their gender
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:31 PM
1 hr ago

I believe in evidence and reaching sound conclusions based on that evidence.

Genitalia is a terrible way to determine facts or truth.

milestogo

(23,394 posts)
26. To prove something in a court of law you need evidence.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:48 PM
1 hr ago

Some people think it isn't sexual assault unless its established in a court of law. Sexual assault is rarely prosecuted successfully.

-misanthroptimist

(2,025 posts)
31. I agree it can be difficult to prove
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:58 PM
1 hr ago

That's a very, very unfortunate aspect of requiring evidence to reach a conviction.

The best thing would be for any woman suffering such an assault to go to the hospital immediately! DNA evidence would be pretty much indisputable.

(I know that that can be extremely difficult and uncomfortable for a woman, but if it will put a rapist in jail, please at least consider it. The bastard belongs in prison where he can't harm other women.)

milestogo

(23,394 posts)
51. And FYI- attempted rapes are usually not prosecuted.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:54 PM
22 min ago

Police and district attorneys have limited resources and they decide what gets prosecuted. In the event that a woman is able to fight off her attacker without actually getting raped or harmed by a weapon, its very unlikely that that incident will be prosecuted. It can't be prosecuted because there is no DNA evidence.

Reporting is stiil important because sex offenders keep doing what they do. If the police have heard about the attempts and have a description it may make it easier to arrest someone when they commit a prosecutable offense. I definitely favor reporting, but you can't expect too much.

SamuelAdams

(434 posts)
10. There is evidence.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:04 PM
2 hrs ago

The accuser told multiple people and there is emails with her accusations. This all from years ago. Why would she have lied to her therapist and friends about this back then?

-misanthroptimist

(2,025 posts)
18. You're talking about a specific case
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:29 PM
1 hr ago

Last edited Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:10 PM - Edit history (1)

I am talking in general when I say that accusations require verifiable evidence.

Now, read this next part with the understanding that I in no way, shape, or form believe what I'm writing happened. I'm merely pointing out possibilities.

To answer your questions:

1. She could conceivably have lied because she was angry at Platner for some reason.

2. She could be not lying but misconstruing what happened for some reason or other. Maybe she exaggerated, maybe she was under the influence, maybe she conflated a dream with reality. Who knows?

Again, I do not believe either of those things. But both are possible based on what we know at present.

In general, I am not prepared to convict a man until there is sufficient evidence. If the accusation becomes the conviction none of us are safe.

In this case, I gotta wonder why a guy who has raped someone would run for public office? He's gotta know that it's going to come out. (Yes, there are possible explanations for that, too. But it's one of those things that baffle me.)

MorbidButterflyTat

(5,007 posts)
37. Wow.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:06 PM
1 hr ago

"2. She could be not lying but misconstruing what happened for some reason or other. Maybe she exaggerated, maybe she was under the influence, maybe she conflated a dream with reality. Who knows?"

Or...........maybe he did it.

Unlikely he will be convicted; he hasn't been charged with a crime.

paleotn

(23,198 posts)
43. She could be cashing a nice, Republican check. Ever thought about that?
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:15 PM
1 hr ago

Or were you too busy doing Susan's work for her?

niyad

(135,648 posts)
57. I strongly suggest that you acquaint yourself with the actual statistics
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 07:01 PM
15 min ago

on so-called "false " rape claims, and on the number of rapes that are never reported, PRECISELY FOR THE kinds of posts I am seeing here. And also look at the misogynist attitudes of law enforcement, legal systems, the military, and even hospitals. Let's talk about HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF UNTESTED RAPE KITS. Let's talk about women being forced to pay to have these kits tested, something no other victims of crimes are required to do.

SMDH

milestogo

(23,394 posts)
46. I think it depends on the man.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:26 PM
50 min ago

How many women accused Trump before there were any legal consequences? At least 28.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_Trump_sexual_misconduct_allegations

How many women accused Harvey Weinstein before there were any consequences? At least 8.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harvey_Weinstein_sexual_abuse_cases

How many women accused Eric Swalwell before he resigned from office? 6 have accused him. He resigned after 4.
https://abc7news.com/post/fellow-california-congressman-rep-sam-liccardo-says-rumors-eric-swalwell-sexual-misconduct-swirled-years/18894415/

How many women accused Bill Cosby of drugging and raping them? At least 60.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bill_Cosby_sexual_assault_cases

How many female athletes accused Dr Larry Nassar of sexually assaulting them? Around 150.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Larry_Nassar#Sexual_assault_accusations_and_convictions

Starbeach

(406 posts)
50. Too Much Deference to Platner
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:53 PM
23 min ago

Democrats fell for Platner's PTSD card and excused all kinds of questionable behaviors. I'm not saying that he doesn't have PTSD, but it cannot grant permanent immunity for a Senate candidate against all scrutiny. Democrats avoided an accountability analysis.

lapucelle

(21,309 posts)
29. Politico (who broke the story) said that they reviewed documents.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:56 PM
1 hr ago
A woman who dated Maine U.S. Senate candidate Graham Platner says he forced her to have sex with him nearly five years ago despite her repeated objections, an allegation Platner denies.

The woman, a 41-year-old Maine resident named Jenny Racicot, detailed the alleged incident to POLITICO in three interviews over the past two weeks. POLITICO also spoke with a man Racicot dated and confided in the years after the alleged incident, and reviewed documents, including emails between Racicot and her therapist and messages between Racicot and an acquaintance whom she warned against getting involved with Platner years before he ran for office.

Racicot said she had an on-and-off relationship with Platner, who is now the Democratic Senate nominee in Maine, for more than two years before he entered her rural Maine home uninvited one night in late 2021, deeply intoxicated, and forced himself on her while she repeatedly told him to stop. She said she cut off contact with him after telling him the encounter was not consensual.

https://www.politico.com/news/2026/07/06/graham-platner-sexual-assault-allegation-00987737

lapucelle

(21,309 posts)
35. Her account of the episode.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:00 PM
1 hr ago
That night in late 2021, she said she had exchanged text messages with him and told him not to come over, saying she wasn’t in the mood for company. Later that evening, she said she realized when she heard a sound on the stairs that he had let himself into her house, which was unlocked.

Platner came up the stairs, Racicot said, to where she was on a couch. He got on top of her and kept grabbing her, she said, while she repeatedly told him to stop and that she wasn’t interested. Racicot said she smelled alcohol on his breath and believed he was “almost blackout drunk” because Platner ignored her protests and continued to grab her after knocking over an antique sewing kit, spilling small needles everywhere.

“I had been telling him these words, like: ‘No, don’t,’” she recalled.

“And, the look on his face and realizing what was happening, I just realized that, like, I am in a situation where there’s no consent here,” she said.

https://www.politico.com/news/2026/07/06/graham-platner-sexual-assault-allegation-00987737

paleotn

(23,198 posts)
42. Careful there. That might cause potential Republican propaganda not to work.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:13 PM
1 hr ago

And they won't feel all clean and self righteous all the way to the maga gulag.

Sorry, folks, in the fight for American democracy, we may have to cut cards with the devil more than once. If not, enjoy feeling all pure and self righteous on your way to the maga gulag. I don't want to hear one GD whine out of any of them.

PatSeg

(54,197 posts)
6. I'm so sick of it
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 04:53 PM
2 hrs ago

This has been going on forever and as I look back over my life, I realize how often I've been on the receiving end of their toxic behavior. Is it really that hard to be a reasonable decent person?

milestogo

(23,394 posts)
8. Apparently.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:03 PM
2 hrs ago

What gets me are the candidates who don't self-examine before committing to run for office. If there is anything about your past that could come out, think about what the cost might be.

PatSeg

(54,197 posts)
13. Yes and that is why campaigns usually
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:15 PM
2 hrs ago

do their own opposition research to find out the bad stuff before one's opponent does. If this allegation is true, this is inexcusable.

MorbidButterflyTat

(5,007 posts)
14. Maybe he didn't think anything he did was wrong
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:22 PM
1 hr ago

How sick is that?

Frat boy "toxic masculinity" is a thing.

milestogo

(23,394 posts)
20. I was working for a candidate and a story came out
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:33 PM
1 hr ago

that after his divorce he had gone to his ex-wife's new home, kicked the back door, and broke it. She reported it to the police and sued him for repairs.

That was the worst they could find. Not horrible, but it was embarrassing for him. When you run for office this kind of stuff can come up because its public information.

PatSeg

(54,197 posts)
55. Yes and that's actually worse
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:59 PM
17 min ago

They think it's not all that bad. Just "guys being guys".

We need to change how we raise our boys. I've done my part in that regard and now my son is raising two decent boys.

Maru Kitteh

(32,131 posts)
40. Men who do this believe that most men do this, and
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:11 PM
1 hr ago

they’re not as wrong as I wish they were.


PatSeg

(54,197 posts)
58. Probably true
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 07:04 PM
12 min ago

And so many are undoubtedly wondering why women really aren't interested in them.

Keepthesoulalive

(2,479 posts)
21. The gentleman had some questionable behavior in the past
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:34 PM
1 hr ago

He had no legislative experience so he had no real campaign experience. Oh well.

Keepthesoulalive

(2,479 posts)
41. I'm seeing some posts implying if republicans vote for scum
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:12 PM
1 hr ago

We should hold our noses and vote for abusers because they get a pass because republicans. This is what has hurt our country no morals just blue versus red.

Response to milestogo (Original post)

Skittles

(173,800 posts)
17. THANK YOU
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:29 PM
1 hr ago

and to the people who claim any such sentiment is "helping Susan Collins", GET BETTER CANDIDATES

JFC

Katinfl

(949 posts)
22. Or they can switch to the GOP and get elected to the highest offices, i.e. president, SCOTUS.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 05:37 PM
1 hr ago

paleotn

(23,198 posts)
44. Susan Collins sends her thanks! She doesn't know what she'd do without Dems doing her work for her.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:17 PM
58 min ago

Ever wonder if this latest one is cashing a nice, fat, Republican check? Hmmm?

MorbidButterflyTat

(5,007 posts)
52. It's sickening.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:57 PM
19 min ago

MAYBE the fate of democracy and the United States shouldn't depend upon ONE election in ONE state!

And women shouldn't be expected to be the sacrificial lambs to the party!

Just_Vote_Dem

(3,740 posts)
48. My aunt was nearly murdered by her wacko husband
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:37 PM
39 min ago

I have no sympathy for men who abuse women!

3Hotdogs

(15,799 posts)
49. So another 6 years of Collins? The Supreme Court appointments she supported did more damage to
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:46 PM
30 min ago

women than what Platner did nor did not do.

There will likely be 2 more vacancies during the next 6 years.

Carry on.

Bobstandard

(2,449 posts)
54. Perfect is the enemy of good.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 06:58 PM
18 min ago

Vote your conscience everyone. But please don’t make my life worse by letting a demonstrably bad incumbent get in the way of Democrats taking the Senate. Recognize that if we don’t take the Senate, we’re screwed. And you know it.

jmbar2

(8,293 posts)
56. This is EXACTLY why I felt he should have been dropped the first time.
Mon Jul 6, 2026, 07:00 PM
16 min ago

There were too many smoking guns. Platner and his supporters have literally put democracy itself in jeopardy by not making the cut earlier.

LISTEN to the women!

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