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Brenda

(2,140 posts)
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 08:04 PM 4 hrs ago

I had to have an old oak taken down today

Probably 40 year old water oak, 60+ ft high. But rotting from the bottom up and I had to do it.

It's also my birthday and I'm getting way too sentimental about it.

There used to be someone on DU many years ago who talked about trees and how you should say something to the old ones when they were dying. I can't remember his name.

But I did say things to my oak like thank you for shading my home for so many years and providing comfort and shelter for so many birds, squirrels, etc.

Those tree guys are brave folks and deserve every dollar they're paid.








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I had to have an old oak taken down today (Original Post) Brenda 4 hrs ago OP
This message was self-deleted by its author applegrove 4 hrs ago #1
Do you get the enviable task of splitting all the wood? applegrove 4 hrs ago #2
We had a similar experience not too long ago. senseandsensibility 4 hrs ago #3
I can see a lot more blue sky and clouds now Brenda 4 hrs ago #4
Hurricane Ian put the final word on a beautiful but very old white oak across the street from me.. Deuxcents 3 hrs ago #5
You understand. It was a friend. Brenda 3 hrs ago #7
I do understand 🌺 Deuxcents 3 hrs ago #10
Happy Birthday😀 malaise 3 hrs ago #6
Thanks malaise! Brenda 3 hrs ago #8
Great idea..a gift for future generations Deuxcents 3 hrs ago #11
Good firewood, good cooking wood too. Emile 3 hrs ago #9
This message was self-deleted by its author Brenda 3 hrs ago #13
Years ago i took down 3 beautiful, but dying maples. dem4decades 3 hrs ago #12
I transplant in black cherry, shagbark hickory and hardwood maples when i can. Tetrachloride 3 hrs ago #14
i had to take down a big ole maple that was totally hollow. mopinko 3 hrs ago #15
Always sad, particularly long lived, slow growing species like oak. paleotn 3 hrs ago #16
Happy Birthday Brenda! MIButterfly 2 hrs ago #17
Give some wood to furniture and musical instrument makers, so the wood isn't just destroyed. Liberty Belle 2 hrs ago #18
Sorry about your tree. 😢 We had a massive Siberian Elm that had a enormous bough break off last summer Raftergirl 2 hrs ago #19
It happens. Part of the cycle of life. usonian 2 hrs ago #20
Happy Birthday and Mary Happy Returns, Brenda! littlemissmartypants 2 hrs ago #21
I am sorry mgardener 1 hr ago #22
Did you tie a yellow ribbon 'round the old oak tree? chouchou 1 hr ago #23
Sending birthday wishes and also gentle hugs for the sadness and melancholy you feel for the loss of your tree "friend". KitFox 59 min ago #24

Response to Brenda (Original post)

applegrove

(134,076 posts)
2. Do you get the enviable task of splitting all the wood?
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 08:07 PM
4 hrs ago

I think you can rent a mechanical wood splitter.

senseandsensibility

(26,163 posts)
3. We had a similar experience not too long ago.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 08:12 PM
4 hrs ago

I kept one of the leaves as a memento. The yard seemed incredibly empty and exposed for a while until I finally (sort of) got used to it.

Deuxcents

(28,437 posts)
5. Hurricane Ian put the final word on a beautiful but very old white oak across the street from me..
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 08:17 PM
3 hrs ago

So few of them here and it was gorgeous but had a lot of battles in its lifetime. I was really sad when they came to get it and still miss it.

Response to Emile (Reply #9)

dem4decades

(14,746 posts)
12. Years ago i took down 3 beautiful, but dying maples.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 08:36 PM
3 hrs ago

I miss that shade they cast on my southern windows, but they were dropping limbs so they had to go. Finally was able to grow grass in the yard though.

Tetrachloride

(9,808 posts)
14. I transplant in black cherry, shagbark hickory and hardwood maples when i can.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 09:11 PM
3 hrs ago

often between faster growing softwoods

mopinko

(74,304 posts)
15. i had to take down a big ole maple that was totally hollow.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 09:14 PM
3 hrs ago

i kept the bottom bit of the trunk, and used it as a planter. i figured some folks wd b mad at me, since a few already were. i wanted them to know how bad it was.

paleotn

(23,229 posts)
16. Always sad, particularly long lived, slow growing species like oak.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 09:15 PM
3 hrs ago

Imagine the things that tree saw in its life. We are so ephemeral in comparison. Here today. Gone in an instant. But the trees live on long after we're forgotten. I do love them.

MIButterfly

(3,624 posts)
17. Happy Birthday Brenda!
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 09:20 PM
2 hrs ago

I hope it was a good day other than having to take your old tree down. I hope you had some fun.

I wish you many more happy birthdays. 🎂

Liberty Belle

(9,711 posts)
18. Give some wood to furniture and musical instrument makers, so the wood isn't just destroyed.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 09:22 PM
2 hrs ago

Ask them to make a special piece for you in exchange for free wood that they could also use for other projects.

Raftergirl

(1,989 posts)
19. Sorry about your tree. 😢 We had a massive Siberian Elm that had a enormous bough break off last summer
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 09:44 PM
2 hrs ago

and we had to get ir taken down immediately. The trunk alone weighed 12K pounds.

I also have a more light in the front yard now so I planted a beautiful perennial garden this spring where the tree was.

Lucky the tree fell into the street and not the house as I likely would have been killed as I was in the room closest to the tree.

usonian

(27,420 posts)
20. It happens. Part of the cycle of life.
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 10:04 PM
2 hrs ago

I live in the Sierra Nevada Foothills, and trees are constantly dying and new ones sprout up.

The borer beetle destroyed countless pine trees whose sap, which defended against the borers, was reduced drastically by years of drought. I lost 4 or 5 pines in my front yard alone.

And then the oaks get old, mistletoe, a parasite, sucks the life out of them, and down they go.

One in my land broke into parts three separate times and fell over my power line, which thanks to the first owner, was UNDERGROUND.

I just posted a roadside "live oak" which ain't live any more.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/1036165222



All these things required tons of cleanup to remove the tinder they created.

There's a big live oak just west of the home that won't live much longer. But behind it is a manzanita that is almost as tall, so there'll be some privacy.

It's sad to see them go, but nature renews (out here, anyway).

Nothing lasts forever, but perhaps you can get a long-living plant for your birthday. In previous homes, we had lemon trees and so on. Again, they don't last forever, but the lemons (Meyer Lemons) were wonderful. Your weather may vary.

littlemissmartypants

(35,861 posts)
21. Happy Birthday and Mary Happy Returns, Brenda!
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 10:15 PM
2 hrs ago

🎉🎉💃🎁💃🎉🎉

I have a couple of oaks that might need to come down.

I love my trees and my birds. But I'm really starting to hate Father Time. These two are probably 80 to 100 years old. One was hit by lightning and has started to show signs that it's time. The other might be OK with a trim.

I hate to do it. I don't want the critters to lose their habitats or the birds to lose their aids to navigation, though. It's not easy.

mgardener

(2,448 posts)
22. I am sorry
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 10:41 PM
1 hr ago

We have tried hard to save our ash tree, the only tree in our yard.
We have had it injected 3 times now.
It looks good and is the only ash tree left in our neighborhood.
We find at least 5-10 dead emerald ash borers on the cement and in the pool daily.
Every time I look at that tree I give thanks.
I would be sad if we had to take it down

KitFox

(618 posts)
24. Sending birthday wishes and also gentle hugs for the sadness and melancholy you feel for the loss of your tree "friend".
Wed Jul 8, 2026, 11:18 PM
59 min ago

I share your sentiment. I agonize every time I lose a tree on my property. I have acres of them, but the big old giants are my special favorites. My children gave some of them names when they were young and now my grandchildren carry that on. I hope some of the wood can remain with you in some way, even if it is cut into rounds for a path or a border around a new tree you choose to plant. Now go have a giant piece of birthday cake and big scoops of ice cream. 🩷🩷🩷

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