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We are legacy owners of Marriott timeshare in Newport Beach, CA. Someone called a couple of days ago and said Real Estate taxes were past due. Husband was napping when his phone rang. When I noticed what was happening he was heading he was getting his CC out of his wallet. He had left his cell phone on an end table so I disconnected call. Later called Orange County and nothing was past due. Once again went over hard and fast rule to never give CC number over the phone. Tax assessment notice came in mail a few days later. Timing is interesting. Also reminded husband government agencies don't call they send letters.
Lovie777
(24,741 posts)xuplate
(275 posts)Also, its takes 5 years for the counties to auction off your propertyso no immediate danger, only exposure to penalties and interest which are hefty.
AverageOldGuy
(4,432 posts)I live in Virginia. We moved from VA to Bay St. Louis, Mississippi, and were wiped out by Hurricane Katrina. Moved to Tennessee then to VA. My cell phone is a southern MS area code, I never changed to TN or VA.
Over the past six months I have received via text or email:
From Mississippi:
-- Unpaid toll notice, my driver's license will be suspended and I will be arrested. Got 3 of these
-- Past due property tax on property we sold after leaving.
From Tennessee:
-- Unpaid toll notice, my driver's license will be suspended and I will be arrested. Got 2 of these.
-- Unpaid toll notice for my mother, her driver's license will be suspended and she will be arrested. Got 1 of these. She died in 2007, I cancelled her DL, voter registration, etc. within a week of her death.
-- Unpaid toll notice for my father, his driver's license will be suspended and he will be arrested. Got 1 of these. He died in 2005, I cancelled his DL, voter registration, etc. within a week of his death.
From Virginia:
-- Unpaid toll notice, my driver's license will be suspended and I will be arrested. Got 4 of these.
-- Unpaid property taxes. Good friend of mine is the county tax administrator, these things are driving him and his staff nuts from answering questions.
-- Four offers to refinance the house I sold two years ago.
And this does not count the daily emails "Your photos, files, and all you saved in your Cloud account will be deleted at midnight tonight unless you pay your past due fee."
AZ8theist
(7,826 posts)MerryBlooms
(12,666 posts)I'm required to clock in and out, location tracked. Yanno. Plus, those of us who pay bills through our phone, that's done through phone number verification and account number. Pharmacy, phone number verification, then rx.
These scamming houses will track down any number. I've had 3 numbers since moving from IL. I had 2 "Obama" phones, until I got semi on my feet. Work required me to get a new phone, or basically be out of work. Yeah, working for Medicaid.... My taxes pay for me to work lol. And yes, I'm paying taxes.
Plus cost of new phone to work, state didn't reimburse for that Android lol.
So, here we are. Caring full time for my 80s d2 sis, 13hrs a week out of house for a "consumer", yeah, that's what they call our clients now, consumers. I have to work a little bit to cover my moving expenses that I'm still paying off after 8 years to take care of my sister.
I can't afford a new phone number every time these scamming pos hit my phone. I don't enjoy that sorta privilege. Pain in the neck, that us victims shouldn't have to deal with.
MerryBlooms
(12,666 posts)Haven't lived in IL in about 8yrs now, and my IPAS was auto pay. lol yep, going to suspend my Oregon license, etc... One was I need to send payment immediately, or face immediate court action!
I've blocked and all that, but they keep coming. It's been about 2 months since the last threat. Lately it's been SS scam stuff, but through paper mail. Pink inserts! lol
Man, this bs is running hot and deep on anyone considered a senior. There's got to be a way Congress can get these scams off our backs. Plus, the fraudulent advantage bs. Supplemental rip-off and having to constantly reevaluate.
We're caregivers and now expected to be insurance experts, lawyers, etc...
Give us a break! Pass some damn legislation that helps us take care of elderly who are taking care of older elderly! Ugh. So, frustrating
erronis
(25,223 posts)But then, the phone companies and many other groups are making money off all this traffic.
MerryBlooms
(12,666 posts)Phone company doesn't care if it's a scam line.
Randomthought
(1,098 posts)But we have a CA area code and we live in MN so we get a bunch also husband still has LinkedIn profile from before his retirement another source for scammers
Martin68
(28,427 posts)is "package undeliverable, click on link." Others were unpaid tolls, and various "banks" reporting fraud or overdue funds.
some_of_us_are_sane
(3,962 posts)I immediately report them on SpyDialer online. I file a report on that number there so others can see if it was reported before. Then I IMMEDIATELY block that number on my cell phone.
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU GET A CALL FROM AN INKNOWN NUMBER:
1.- Never speak. Say NOTHING for 3 seconds.
2.- When they say "Hello?" or ask for you by name, you answer: "Who's calling please?"
3. If they give you a name of any kind, you ask: "And what is this regarding?" That's all!
4.- Say "Thank you very much. I'LL CALL YOU BACK ON THE OFFICIAL LINE I HAVE FOR THAT."
That's it. The calls have been less and less since I started following this.
Joinfortmill
(22,058 posts)Exp
(1,094 posts)serioulsy in debt to them.
Sun-Moon
(260 posts)calimary
(91,719 posts)SWBTATTReg
(26,582 posts)mail etc. I'm trying to figure out how are they intercepting our private emails (I'm assuming so) to grab change of address notices, etc. Perhaps there is some sort of 'new neighbors' websites or the like that trigger this sort of crap.
Hopefully, you're doing okay now.
When we moved here about 10+ years ago, we didn't have near the crap you are all putting up w/. Wow.
erronis
(25,223 posts)I wonder if there isn't some reciprocal agreement with the DeJoy-tainted PO and scammers. Money is money, after all.
live love laugh
(16,593 posts)and individually notified any that needed to know of my new address. COA records are sold to companies who of course sell your data.
BigmanPigman
(55,853 posts)Last edited Sat Jul 11, 2026, 05:00 PM - Edit history (1)
My mother and I were almost screwed over with this BS.
The newest tool for scammers is to call a potential victim's number and when you speak into the phone it is recorded and then used to say (for example) "Hi, it's me. I'M in prison and need help to get out........".
madamesilverspurs
(16,584 posts)They also like to ask something like "We're calling Jane Doe. Are you Jane Doe?" You answer Yes and the line goes dead. They use your "yes" for all kinds of scams against you.
Having heard that, when I got a call that asked if I was Jane Doe I answered "sometimes". And the line went dead.
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BigmanPigman
(55,853 posts)They almost got me via a phony gmail message that my internet security needed a past due payment to McAfee.
I get as many as 4 scam calls a day. I've been screening my calls since 1988. My family and friends hated me for doing that. It was too inconvenient for them. He who laughs, last laughs first.
niyad
(135,855 posts)Nor do I respond to text mesages from unknown parties.
TBF
(37,818 posts)I know (even if it's my dog's photo for the Vet, etc).
If I see a photo on my phone I might grab the call. I let everything else go.
Soul_of_Wit
(224 posts)Modern smart phones have amazing settings available. Callers can leave a voice mail. I take a peek at my voicemails daily and I can see from the auto-transcript that it is a scam/sales pitch. Texts typically wind up in a folder labeled "Promotions". One setting allows time-sensitive texts (like two-factor authentication codes) to go through. My phone is no longer a constant annoyance.
Buddyzbuddy
(3,135 posts)Our Federal law enforcement has been told to stand down. Our foreign intelligence agencies have been redirected. The focus has been redirected from historically criminally inclined Countries all at the behest of Directors such as Patel, Bondi, Gabbard, etc. And then when the Rapist/Felon doesn't get the results he wants, he just replaces them. They are focused on finding election fraud that has been proven to be nonexistent. When criminals that have been tried and convicted, the Rapist/Felon Pardons them for what is suspected as monetary reasons.
Then we have Musk and his DOGE criminal enterprise accessing and copying our most confidential information for what purposes?
Bill Pulte is another accessing information from financial loan applications to find "criminal activity".
Everything can be directly traced back to the President of the United States whom has been given immunity by our criminally inclined Supreme Court.
My phone is on semi-permanent do not disturb except to people I know. I don't answer the door anymore because anybody that knows me, knows to call first including neighbors. I have a sign warning solicitors away and I have a history of threatening particularly aggressive sales people off my property.
Here's the kicker, I was a Realtor for many years so I had to make cold calls and knock on doors. But I knew most people were not interested in what I had to say but I didn't blame them and I was very apologetic for disturbing their tranquility.
When trying to sell me something or get information from me, I understand and tolerate them not taking no for an answer, once. Just, once. After that.....
My wife on the otherhand is a lamb to the wolves. Most recently via phone to somebody that gave her enough personal information about her credit that she believed they were a credit fraud dept. investigating suspicious activity. All while I was 30 minutes into driving us to a 1 week out of town getaway. From the conversation that my mostly deaf ears could hear I cautioned her profusely not to confirm or deny any information nor say the word "yes" to anything. Once this 40 minute conversation in which she confirmed and denied information, was done, oh, and the word yes was uttered a few times she agreed to them calling her back once they stated they would pursue this investigation further.
At this point, I now had whiplash from the vigorous shaking of my head back and forth. After the call I spoke with her calmly and asked her to make some quick calls to verify the veracity of the previous caller which confirmed it was all a con. She spent the next 3 days of our getaway ignoring their "follow-up" calls.
She based her confidence in the original call on the fact her phone showed a major credit card phone I.D. on the initial contact.
BTW, this happened last month.
C Moon
(13,873 posts)wolfie001
(8,311 posts)All sitting ducks from scammers. Always tell them to give you their phone number for a call back and hang up. Then look up the OFFICIAL contact info. Such a simple verify but many folks are defenseless to outside influences. Look at how many poors voted for the fat orange imbecile. Look at how "rich" he made all of them.
TBF
(37,818 posts)It may have been through a post here or elsewhere. It was someone who got a text and had to click on something. It had seemed legit to them, but it ended up being an identity theft.
It may have been a bank asking to authorize something - I don't remember. The point was you can always go to the actual website (and should) to see if there's an alert and then call the bank back to handle it. Never respond to someone calling or texting with something like that. That is pretty sophisticated, and I'm glad I read it because I'm not sure I would be as careful with texts, but now I will be.
Soul_of_Wit
(224 posts)Unless you have a valid reason to answer calls not in your contacts then simply do not answer them. That is what voicemail is for. Be sure to keep your contacts up to date. Learn how to use your phone, if necessary. That is what tech support relatives are for. You can add additional numbers to a contact. For example, one of my medical offices will call from a number ending in 00, 01 or 02. All three are on the same contact and come up as Dr. Medico. I have another contact that comes up as Various 2FA for two-factor authentication texts. Some folks don't realize that the number that texts come from can be a contact, too.
A simple rule for texts and emails is to never click on a link. It is convenient but risky. Navigate to the website yourself. Login if necessary but do it from a home page you got to without using a link.
Another tip for emails is to look at the header for the email (some email programs hide the header by default.) Did the email supposedly from Apple actually come from support@apple.com (the part after the @ sign is the important part) or did it come from a long domain name which includes the word apple. Those are not the same. I used to get fake emails from rando@hotmail.com (...and delete.)