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BumRushDaShow

(169,714 posts)
Wed Apr 1, 2026, 02:57 AM 2 hrs ago

Kristi Noem 'blindsided' by cross-dressing husband who put her at risk for blackmail

Source: The Independent

Tuesday 31 March 2026 15:00 EDT


Ousted Homeland Security Secretary Kristi Noem was “blindsided” by a report alleging that her husband has been posting photos of himself cross-dressing online.

National security experts said that Bryon Noem’s alleged activities could have put his wife at risk while she served in President Donald Trump’s cabinet, according to a bombshell Daily Mail report published Tuesday.

Kristi Noem, who was fired earlier this month by Trump, is said to be “devastated” by the report, which detailed how the alleged actions of her husband of more than 30 years left her “vulnerable to blackmail,” according to the Mail.

The newspaper obtained compromising photographs of Kristi Noem’s insurance mogul husband, allegedly shared online with strangers while she served as Homeland Security chief, where she carried out Trump’s sweeping anti-immigration operation. “The family was blindsided by this, and they ask for privacy and prayers at the time,” Kristi Noem’s representatives reacted in a statement to The New York Post.

Read more: https://www.the-independent.com/news/world/americas/us-politics/kristi-noem-husband-blackmail-national-security-b2949463.html

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Kristi Noem 'blindsided' by cross-dressing husband who put her at risk for blackmail (Original Post) BumRushDaShow 2 hrs ago OP
Why does this bring the Palin family to mind? mwb970 2 hrs ago #1
I'm pretty sure that both Kristi and her husband knew a lot about what was going on with the other. Intractable 2 hrs ago #2
I don't buy the blindsided/surprise/ignorance aspect at all. RockRaven 2 hrs ago #3
They're both right wing nut jobs and hypocrites. Fuck them. SunSeeker 1 hr ago #4
Hide your puppies! n/t BaronChocula 30 min ago #5

Intractable

(2,101 posts)
2. I'm pretty sure that both Kristi and her husband knew a lot about what was going on with the other.
Wed Apr 1, 2026, 03:37 AM
2 hrs ago

The affair between Noem and Lewandowski has been the subject of speculation in the media for many years. How could hubby not have heard about it?

RockRaven

(19,365 posts)
3. I don't buy the blindsided/surprise/ignorance aspect at all.
Wed Apr 1, 2026, 03:41 AM
2 hrs ago

It isn't impossible of course, but there is zero credibility to be found given the source and it is the most convenient thing to say. So, very dubious.

SunSeeker

(58,278 posts)
4. They're both right wing nut jobs and hypocrites. Fuck them.
Wed Apr 1, 2026, 04:22 AM
1 hr ago

Like so many closeted evangelicals who shame gay and trans people, this guy was aligned with a bigoted cabinet member who serves in an administration that has done everything it can to hurt men who don't dress like society expects men to dress.


They are both hypocrites and right wing nut jobs and deserve zero sympathy.

The above picture is from this NY Post story: https://nypost.com/2026/03/31/us-news/kristi-noem-weighs-in-on-report-husband-bryon-lives-cross-dressing-double-life/

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