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one month of no cigarettes (Original Post) debm55 Yesterday OP
Right on!!! Rver Yesterday #1
Thank you Rver. debm55 Yesterday #47
Yay! You can do it. Anyone can do. You will do it. Smartest move ever. Ends up in much better quality of life. . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #2
Thank you very much , Bernardo de La Paz. debm55 Yesterday #48
My mother smoked for over 25 years before she quit in middle age Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #57
Thank you very much, Bernardo de La Paz. Bless your mom and you. debm55 Yesterday #67
Well, once you get through the withdrawal. OldBaldy1701E 11 hrs ago #117
Great going, Deb! SheltieLover Yesterday #3
Thank you very much SheltieLover. debm55 Yesterday #49
I knew that, if you put your mind to it, EYESORE 9001 Yesterday #4
Thank you EYESORE 9001 debm55 Yesterday #50
Good for you, deb! True Dough Yesterday #5
Thank you True Dough. It is pretty much what I was prepared for and sometimes easier. debm55 Yesterday #53
Great job! JBTaurus83 Yesterday #6
Thank you very much , JBTaurus 83. I am now looking for the two month point. debm55 Yesterday #69
Fantastic! It definitely gets easier, at least it did for me. There came a time when I could smell cigarette smoke MLAA Yesterday #7
Thank you MLAA and I understand. debm55 Yesterday #70
Stupidest thing i ever did was start smoking. Smartest thing was quitting. Midnight Writer Yesterday #8
Thank you very much, Midnight Writer. I hope so. debm55 Yesterday #71
Yeeehaaaa good for you!!!!! a kennedy Yesterday #9
Thank you very much , a kennedy. debm55 Yesterday #72
Congratulations underpants Yesterday #10
Thank you underpants. debm55 Yesterday #73
Yippee 😁 💙💙💙 TommieMommy Yesterday #11
Thank you very much TommieMommy. debm55 Yesterday #74
My suggestion is quit counting and decide if you are a non-smoker or not. nonaa Yesterday #12
This might work for some but not all DaBronx Yesterday #16
Good advice. I don't even remember how long it has been. louis-t Yesterday #18
I never counted, either. murielm99 Yesterday #96
Congrats - hang tough!! walkingman Yesterday #13
One month at a time and before you know it, it'll be a year! Keep at it girl! Fla Dem Yesterday #14
You are a rock star! DaBronx Yesterday #15
I know how hard it is. Promise yourself you will log on online applegrove Yesterday #17
Congratulations SARose Yesterday #19
Good for you. OLDMDDEM Yesterday #20
Stick it out. We all wish you the best. NNadir Yesterday #21
DebM dlilafae Yesterday #22
Yeah, debm55!!!! some_of_us_are_sane Yesterday #23
After one month... Behind the Aegis Yesterday #24
Great job! Hope22 Yesterday #25
Yay! Lulu KC Yesterday #26
Good going, deb... MiHale Yesterday #27
From one 40+ years smoker to another JMCKUSICK Yesterday #28
Good on you, deb. LoisB Yesterday #29
You are doing great! pandr32 Yesterday #30
Congratulations!!!! I Stopped Smoking About 17 Years Ago... MayReasonRule Yesterday #31
Fantastic!! catchnrelease Yesterday #32
So proud of you debm55!!! I quit in 2008. BComplex Yesterday #33
Good for you! 70sEraVet Yesterday #34
They say 25 yrs after stopping it is as if you never smoked. Asbestos is different Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #40
I've also heard that smoking causes your lungs to lose their elasticity. 70sEraVet Yesterday #55
Don't know about that specific, but given half a chance the body is very resilient Bernardo de La Paz Yesterday #60
Well done! ... littlemissmartypants Yesterday #35
Congratulations!! n/t livetohike Yesterday #36
Wow-hoo! enid602 Yesterday #37
Fifty-seven years no ciggie butts Beowulf42 Yesterday #38
Oh my! Congrats! wolfie001 Yesterday #39
Good job WmChris Yesterday #41
Good for you! DownriverDem Yesterday #42
Awesome! You GOT this! GO DEB!!!! beaglelover Yesterday #43
Woohoo! LuvLoogie Yesterday #44
Good for you surfered Yesterday #45
😊 Dorothy V Yesterday #46
Every day is a "win!" colorado_ufo Yesterday #51
One of the hardest things I ever did, almost 20 years ago. Permanut Yesterday #52
WAY TO GO! MuseRider Yesterday #54
Proud of you, debm55! calimary Yesterday #56
Great job. Srkdqltr Yesterday #58
Good on you, debm55! Mountain Mule Yesterday #59
Congrats to the many on this thread DaBronx Yesterday #61
Smoking ms.pamela Yesterday #62
Smoking ms.pamela Yesterday #63
Keep going! orangecrush Yesterday #64
Awesome! Way to Go! Diamond_Dog Yesterday #65
🥳 Luciferous Yesterday #66
Thank you Luciferous. debm55 Yesterday #76
🎉 W0000t! Stay Strong! 👍 electric_blue68 Yesterday #68
Thank you so very much electric_blue68 debm55 Yesterday #75
BRAVISSIMA !!! Stay courageous! fierywoman Yesterday #77
I will . Never want to do this again. Hate being on the Oxygen machine.Thank you fierywoman. debm55 Yesterday #83
congratulations WhiteTara Yesterday #78
Think of the savings!!! roamer65 Yesterday #79
The first month is the hardest. comradebillyboy Yesterday #80
Excellent! Half-step Yesterday #81
Thank you very much Half-step. debm55 Yesterday #89
OMG debm55! That is so awesome! So proud of you! Keep up the good work! Clouds Passing Yesterday #82
Thank you Clouds Passing. I will continue.. debm55 Yesterday #85
Way to go! Tree Lady Yesterday #84
You can do it Tree Lady. I know you can. debm55 Yesterday #86
Most excellent! Basso8vb Yesterday #87
Congratulations! mountain grammy Yesterday #88
I am doing my best to try month by month. Thank you very much, mountain grammy. debm55 Yesterday #90
Yea, you will now be recovering IbogaProject Yesterday #91
Kudos! Alice Kramden Yesterday #92
Thank you very much, Alice Kramden. debm55 Yesterday #94
Awesome, you've gotten through the hardest part! FakeNoose Yesterday #93
Thank you very much FakeNoose. debm55 Yesterday #95
Congratulations! AltairIV Yesterday #97
Congratulations! That's WONDERFUL Laurelin Yesterday #98
Congrats! I know first hand how hard it is to quit. Laffy Kat Yesterday #99
Way to go! I'm at 7 years now MiniMe Yesterday #100
Congratulations, debm55! You go, girl! MIButterfly Yesterday #101
Congratulations! DelMar dem Yesterday #102
The start of a whole new you! marble falls Yesterday #103
That is fantastic news. Congratulations! n/t Alpeduez21 Yesterday #104
You rock! nt Dear_Prudence 23 hrs ago #105
Hang in there Deb. boonecreek 21 hrs ago #106
The longer you go the easier it is to quit and lose the desire. kimbutgar 21 hrs ago #107
debm55 CentralBlueTexan 20 hrs ago #108
My mom went cold turkey after 45+ years and never smoked again. Buddyzbuddy 20 hrs ago #109
Good for you!!! FoxNewsSucks 20 hrs ago #110
Congratulations! ClaudetteCC 19 hrs ago #111
good for you! RainCaster 18 hrs ago #112
I knew you could do it Figarosmom 18 hrs ago #113
Hardest thing to quit Picaro 17 hrs ago #114
Good for you - now start drinking some carrot juice on a regular basis and it will make you feel even better. waterwatcher123 17 hrs ago #115
Hooray! That first month is a tough tough climb and you did it!! KitFox 15 hrs ago #116
Congratulations! Americanme 10 hrs ago #118
cigarettes???? onethatcares 9 hrs ago #119
Yayyyyyyyy! justaprogressive 9 hrs ago #120
Bank the savings highnooner 8 hrs ago #121
I quit smoking Camel straights... GiqueCee 8 hrs ago #122
Amazing accomplishment given our current stress levels! mdbl 8 hrs ago #123
I haven't had one for 20 years. mac56 7 hrs ago #124
Be vigilent! Be The Light 6 hrs ago #125
there is the weight gain Be The Light 6 hrs ago #126
Congratulations! Groundhawg 6 hrs ago #127
Congrats and know that the hard part - making it past the physical cravings is not it - comes in waves... Moostache 5 hrs ago #128

Bernardo de La Paz

(53,869 posts)
2. Yay! You can do it. Anyone can do. You will do it. Smartest move ever. Ends up in much better quality of life. . . nt
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 10:59 AM
Yesterday

Bernardo de La Paz

(53,869 posts)
57. My mother smoked for over 25 years before she quit in middle age
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:07 PM
Yesterday

She lived almost 50 years more and enjoyed life more.

OldBaldy1701E

(7,545 posts)
117. Well, once you get through the withdrawal.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 06:07 AM
11 hrs ago

One of my favorite stories about this is when a friend came over one day to visit. We were sitting around talking and one of us lit up a ciggie. Someone asked my friend if he wanted one, and my fried replied that he had been quit from them for just over five years. Everyone congratulated him. Then, another dude asked him if he ever wanted one. My friend suddenly gripped the table, looked the dude right in the eye and said in a low growl:

"Every. Fucking. Day!"

I quit them over 20 years ago. I can say that I don't want one. So, even if you find yourself like my friend, it will still pass and you are better for it.

Stay the course!

True Dough

(22,509 posts)
5. Good for you, deb!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:03 AM
Yesterday

How's the cravings been? How's your mood? Has it been easier than you expected, more difficult or pretty much what you were prepared for?

debm55

(43,871 posts)
53. Thank you True Dough. It is pretty much what I was prepared for and sometimes easier.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:04 PM
Yesterday

JBTaurus83

(194 posts)
6. Great job!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:04 AM
Yesterday

I can't speak for everyone, but for me it got really easy after about the two month range. The thought of even smelling a cigarette makes me want to vomit now.

MLAA

(19,050 posts)
7. Fantastic! It definitely gets easier, at least it did for me. There came a time when I could smell cigarette smoke
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:05 AM
Yesterday

and not want one and just enjoy the smell then the next phase was smelling cigarette smoke and thinking it stunk.

Midnight Writer

(23,612 posts)
8. Stupidest thing i ever did was start smoking. Smartest thing was quitting.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:07 AM
Yesterday

Sincerely, I feel so much better after kicking my 50-year habit. I hope you will, too.

a kennedy

(33,174 posts)
9. Yeeehaaaa good for you!!!!!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:08 AM
Yesterday

and I know what you’re going through. Quitting was the hardest thing I ever did, but soooooooooo happy I did. Now, keep up the good work. So proud of you, AND your body is too, which is on the road to healing. Good luck.

nonaa

(17 posts)
12. My suggestion is quit counting and decide if you are a non-smoker or not.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:18 AM
Yesterday

If you don't smoke and are a non-smoker then quit thinking and talking about quitting and don't play mental games which are going to eventually lead to finding a big enough excuse to light up again.

If it is over then move on and simply become a non-smoker, which means there is nothing to go back to, because you don't smoke, you aren't giving up something, you aren't quitting, you aren't resisting, you aren't overcoming, you don't smoke so there it is.

DaBronx

(671 posts)
16. This might work for some but not all
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:27 AM
Yesterday

It can also be motivating to measure success along the way.
I look forward to hearing about her future success!

louis-t

(24,128 posts)
18. Good advice. I don't even remember how long it has been.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:32 AM
Yesterday

I think about 10 years, but I never counted.

murielm99

(31,803 posts)
96. I never counted, either.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 02:41 PM
Yesterday

One day, I decided that I had just had enough. It might be closing in on four years.

applegrove

(125,400 posts)
17. I know how hard it is. Promise yourself you will log on online
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:31 AM
Yesterday

when you get a crave. Chat for 5 minutes. There - your crave has passed.

I quit 17 years ago and love my quit. I never want a cigarette. You have done it!!!

SARose

(1,293 posts)
19. Congratulations
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:34 AM
Yesterday

Treat yourself to something for this first mile stone. I bought myself some Cinnabar by Estee Lauder. Used Febreeze for years to cover the cig stink. Now I smell like cinnamon. 👍

Keep up the good work 💕

Behind the Aegis

(55,211 posts)
24. After one month...
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:05 PM
Yesterday

After a month of not smoking
In just one short month, you can experience many health changes related to stopping smoking. One is feeling a sense of heightened overall energy.

You may also notice that many smoking-related symptoms have decreased, such as sinus congestion and shortness of breath with exercise.

In addition to these benefits, fibers in the lungs that help keep the lungs healthy are growing back. These fibers can help reduce excess mucus buildup and protect against bacterial infections.

Finally, those who make it for one month without smoking are 5 times more likely to quit for good.

MiHale

(11,439 posts)
27. Good going, deb...
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:14 PM
Yesterday

Quit 10 years ago, hardest addiction to overcome…best thing I ever did for myself.

Keep quitting everyday

JMCKUSICK

(1,723 posts)
28. From one 40+ years smoker to another
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:14 PM
Yesterday

I am so very proud of you Debbie. You will be amazed how quickly your lungs begin to make life easier on you. Keep up the great job and please call if you are on the verge of having one, no matter the time. Please.
I love you

MayReasonRule

(2,888 posts)
31. Congratulations!!!! I Stopped Smoking About 17 Years Ago...
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:19 PM
Yesterday

When I decided to attempt to stop I was up to a 5 pack a day average.

I quit by switching to Nat Sherman Browns... Then mini cigars...
Then spicy South American Cigars...

At the end I was just holding the cigar in my mouth for a second or two at a time...

My last cigar is still in my old smoke place if I ever want it... LOL...

I never will!!!

catchnrelease

(2,062 posts)
32. Fantastic!!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:23 PM
Yesterday

I've seen how hard it is to quit. My husband started smoking when he was 14 and quit at 72. It means so much to him that yesterday, April 1st, he reminded me that it's been 2 years since he quit. Keep going!!!

BComplex

(9,337 posts)
33. So proud of you debm55!!! I quit in 2008.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:25 PM
Yesterday

Use all the tools in your quit smoking tool box to keep up the good work! You've got this!!

70sEraVet

(4,416 posts)
34. Good for you!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:26 PM
Yesterday

37 years after I quit smoking, I learned that I had scarring on the walls of my lungs from asbestos exposure. But my lungs are still functioning well. There's no telling what kind of shape I would be in today, if I hadn't quit smoking when I did (or even if I would still BE!).
My point is, whatever reason you had for quitting, there may be more reasons that you aren't even aware of yet!

Bernardo de La Paz

(53,869 posts)
40. They say 25 yrs after stopping it is as if you never smoked. Asbestos is different
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:44 PM
Yesterday

Asbestos particles are hard for the body to remove, being essentially hard crystals very difficult to dissolve.

Tarry chemicals from smoke and carbonaceous particles are much smaller and also inherently easier for the body to remove and repair.

70sEraVet

(4,416 posts)
55. I've also heard that smoking causes your lungs to lose their elasticity.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:05 PM
Yesterday

Combining that with the scarring from the asbestos, and it seems like it would make for some serious problems.

Bernardo de La Paz

(53,869 posts)
60. Don't know about that specific, but given half a chance the body is very resilient
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:11 PM
Yesterday

I take the "25 years is as if you never smoked" to mean most or all effects including loss of elasticity are substantially remediated.

Re asbestos: fortunately the contaminant load in the body is a much smaller quantity that tobacco smoke contaminants, usually, I think.

But I'm not medically trained in any way.

littlemissmartypants

(27,068 posts)
35. Well done! ...
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:28 PM
Yesterday

I've heard if you can make it to twenty one days you will be well and truly done. Where I heard that and what it means, I really have no idea.

Fantastic job!! Keep the faith, Deb.

❤️

WmChris

(276 posts)
41. Good job
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:47 PM
Yesterday

Stay focused it takes a while for the habit to give up and actually set you free. You're definitely headed in a positive direction. GOOD LUCK

DownriverDem

(6,789 posts)
42. Good for you!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 12:48 PM
Yesterday

Stay away from smokers too. You don't want to take even one hit of the cig. I quit 33 years ago. It took me 3 tries. I know women in their 60s & 70s who still smoke. They keep telling me they want to quit, but by being around each other they give in. One has had a heart attack and a stent too. I can't even hang out with them because then I have to wash all my clothes and myself. So the only way I can interact with them is in a restaurant or when outside. So I lost friends because of cigs.
Best of luck to you!

Permanut

(6,921 posts)
52. One of the hardest things I ever did, almost 20 years ago.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:03 PM
Yesterday

I have walked a mile in those shoes, the same as the other ex smokers here.

Congratulations on a month, Deb, that is a HUGE milestone!

👏👏👏

MuseRider

(34,540 posts)
54. WAY TO GO!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:05 PM
Yesterday

Breaking that darned habit made me feel like I was going to die from time to time. I don't even remember how long it took me to really make it stick. It was so worth it. Have a good cheering partner even for after. My husband continued to let me have it for the stinky smell and how I put him at risk. It took me a longer time than it should have because...you need support.

ms.pamela

(35 posts)
62. Smoking
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:13 PM
Yesterday

Good for you, that is a real accomplishment as nicotine is one of the most addictive substances in the world.

ms.pamela

(35 posts)
63. Smoking
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:14 PM
Yesterday

Good for you, that is a real accomplishment as nicotine is one of the most addictive substances in the world.

debm55

(43,871 posts)
83. I will . Never want to do this again. Hate being on the Oxygen machine.Thank you fierywoman.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:46 PM
Yesterday

WhiteTara

(30,639 posts)
78. congratulations
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:43 PM
Yesterday

your taste buds will return and your lungs will start turning pink.

My big deal is 2 months of being cannabis free. I've been a 50 year lover of the lady, but I have decided it no longer serves me and I quit.

Clouds Passing

(4,239 posts)
82. OMG debm55! That is so awesome! So proud of you! Keep up the good work!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:46 PM
Yesterday


I quit 22 years ago! I do not regret that for 1 nanosecond!

Tree Lady

(12,322 posts)
84. Way to go!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:48 PM
Yesterday

I want to do a month without sugar, did few years ago and now I can only go hours...

Wish you the best!

IbogaProject

(4,195 posts)
91. Yea, you will now be recovering
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:54 PM
Yesterday

The first 30 are tough as your breathing gets worse with out the nicotine. Now you will begin to recover around day 60 you will recover back to where you were when you quit and will keep improving. Best wishes for increased comfort.

Alice Kramden

(2,558 posts)
92. Kudos!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:54 PM
Yesterday

You will feel physically younger - enjoy your new vitality! I quit 35 years ago and was amazed at how my energy improved. Good for you!

FakeNoose

(37,053 posts)
93. Awesome, you've gotten through the hardest part!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 01:57 PM
Yesterday

It gets easier as time passes.

I quit smoking so many years ago ... I started as a teenager. My parents always smoked and I married a smoker so I was always around the smell of cigarettes. After I quit in my late 20's - and I was also divorced by then - I noticed that my home smelled so much nicer when nobody smoked. I realized that my own clothes and hair, even my skin, lost the smell of cigarettes, and I began to HATE the smell.

Once I'd reached that point it was easy to quit, even though I was around friends and relatives who smoked. Nowadays it's even easier because restaurants, stores, shopping malls, even offices no longer allow smoking indoors. You don't have to be tempted by other people smoking in front of you.

Best of luck Debm!

AltairIV

(812 posts)
97. Congratulations!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 02:45 PM
Yesterday

As an ex smoker (27 years ago) I know how difficult this can be. One day at a time, if it helps what you should do is put the money you would have spent in jar every day, and at the end of your next month go reward yourself to a really nice meal.. Your taste buds will be well along the road to healing also and you will be amazed at how great food tastes!

Laffy Kat

(16,585 posts)
99. Congrats! I know first hand how hard it is to quit.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 03:13 PM
Yesterday

Do something really nice for yourself.

MiniMe

(21,848 posts)
100. Way to go! I'm at 7 years now
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 03:13 PM
Yesterday

It's really tough. I came close lots of times, but I could never stay off of them. Bypass surgery and COPD has finally cured me of that.

MIButterfly

(186 posts)
101. Congratulations, debm55! You go, girl!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 03:44 PM
Yesterday

I myself quit for good in 1980. Unfortunately, I worked in the restaurant business for years afterward, before the smoking bans went into effect in Michigan, so I got a lot of second-hand smoke. In 1996, I left the restaurant business and have been completely smoke-free ever since.

Just a little bit of advice: don't start eating everything in sight like I did. And keep up the good work!

DelMar dem

(54 posts)
102. Congratulations!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 03:59 PM
Yesterday

21 years for me. I know it's hard for you to imagine right now, but the day will come when you don't even think about having a cigarette. When there are medical issues for quitting the choice becomes crystal clear. Good for you!

kimbutgar

(24,670 posts)
107. The longer you go the easier it is to quit and lose the desire.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 08:54 PM
21 hrs ago

I was an occasional smoker and quit and never have had the desire to smoke again.

Buddyzbuddy

(616 posts)
109. My mom went cold turkey after 45+ years and never smoked again.
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:13 PM
20 hrs ago

She was also an alcoholic and gave it up after 15 years.
Anything and everything is possible if you are determined.
Strokes to you debm55.

FoxNewsSucks

(11,049 posts)
110. Good for you!!!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 09:50 PM
20 hrs ago

I have several smokers at work. I wish I could get them to quit.

It's not easy, but it's worth it!

ClaudetteCC

(54 posts)
111. Congratulations!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 10:48 PM
19 hrs ago

Once you've hit 3 days you should be clear of all chemical addiction. Psychological addiction might take longer but that is the easier part!!!

RainCaster

(12,488 posts)
112. good for you!
Wed Apr 2, 2025, 11:33 PM
18 hrs ago

I quit so many times before it finally took. Harder for me than getting sober.

Picaro

(1,877 posts)
114. Hardest thing to quit
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:11 AM
17 hrs ago

I quit when I was 28 (very long ago). Made it for 3 years and cracked one night when I had too many Long Island Ice Teas.

But ultimately I was able to stay off them and never returned to my 2 1/2 packs a day.

Stick with it and you’ll be so much happier (still miss smoking but I have this attachment to breathing)

Stay strong and congratulations.

waterwatcher123

(339 posts)
115. Good for you - now start drinking some carrot juice on a regular basis and it will make you feel even better.
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:42 AM
17 hrs ago

KitFox

(267 posts)
116. Hooray! That first month is a tough tough climb and you did it!!
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 02:23 AM
15 hrs ago

Your lung function is already restoring itself and your resistance to infection is already stronger. So happy for you! Yay! You should set aside the money you aren’t spending on cigs and a few more months down the road, splurge on something just for yourself. Keep up the fight!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷

Americanme

(177 posts)
118. Congratulations!
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 07:13 AM
10 hrs ago

July 13 will mark 12 years since my last cigarette. I'm so glad I quit, after years of failed attempts. I do not miss it at all. Food tastes better, I breathe easier, I don't get sick as often, and I saved a lot of cash. I hope it will be all good news for you. Have a great day!

onethatcares

(16,751 posts)
119. cigarettes????
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 08:10 AM
9 hrs ago

you don't smoke no steeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenking cigarettes.

Keep that in mind everytime you feel the urge.

Congrats from one quitter to another. 40 years in/25 years out

highnooner

(397 posts)
121. Bank the savings
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:05 AM
8 hrs ago

Put aside the money you were spending on cigs. At the end of one year, you'll be able to pay for a nice trip as a reward.

GiqueCee

(2,052 posts)
122. I quit smoking Camel straights...
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:16 AM
8 hrs ago

... 35 years ago. Don't miss it A-tall. Congratulations! It's a bitchin' addiction to break.

mdbl

(6,037 posts)
123. Amazing accomplishment given our current stress levels!
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 09:30 AM
8 hrs ago

Hang in there- it gets better (former smoker)

Moostache

(10,410 posts)
128. Congrats and know that the hard part - making it past the physical cravings is not it - comes in waves...
Thu Apr 3, 2025, 12:26 PM
5 hrs ago

I am now celebrating an interesting milestone of sorts...smoke-free for 17 years today. I will offer this to you as encouragement - as long as you have a reason to NOT smoke that is powerful AND personal to you, then IT IS POSSIBLE to quit and never go back. So good job on the first hurdle and good luck with those to come. I am rooting for you to succeed!

I was a pack-a-day smoker from age 16 to 37. I received a diagnosis of renal cell carcinoma in 2008 - today (April 3rd). I went cold turkey off cigarettes that day, but needed nicotine gum and lozenges to ween my body off of the drug. The only thing that worked for me (and everyone is different, so your results may obviously vary!!) was a complete tear down and restructuring of my social life and daily habits. I had to reinvent myself to avoid the habit and the activities that drove my addiction.

I had to "retire" from playing competitive billiards in the (then) Bud Light leagues I played in. I also gave up drinking beer. I had formed very powerful neural pathways that associated a cigarette with playing pool or drinking beer, so strong that I found my enjoyment prety much eliminated by constant cravings for a cigarette. I stopped going to bars and night clubs (they still allowed indoor smoking in them at that time - though now that is a relic I understand kind of like my then 37 year old ass in the dance club was LOL!!!). I missed it, but I also knew that kicking the habit was for me all about changing the images in my brain as well as the chemistry in my blood. If I had not made life changes, the results were going to be predictable - I would resume smoking.

I wish I could say this was all a great success story and that I was able to apply this to other areas of my life with the same results - sadly that is not the case. I gained weight after quitting, a solid 65 pounds that I have never been able to shed to date. I detest working out; seriously, the very thought of it breaks me out in hives at times. My brain flat out revolts with images of discomfort, aches and pains and sore muscles, sweat and the feeling of wet clothing on your back sticking to the seats in the car... ALL very visceral, emoive things going on in my head. Its exhaustiing by itself. I also refuse to feel hungry or not be able to eat or sample some foods or dishes because "that's bad for your weight". I am in a mental war with my own brain over this as well... while I was easily able to convince myself that stopping smoking at 37 was 100% necessary and worthwhile (to raise my 5 children, to live my life with my wife of 29 years now, to do things in my career and personal life that I still wanted to do) Now? I find my subconscious wielding negative images with aplomb why bother with this if you are unlikely to stick with it? Why try to extend your life expectancy if the world around you is going to shit and your future reward is dementia and incapacitation in your 80s anyway? I find myself in dark places often as a result.

I know from experience HOW to make life changes for myself - very successful ones at that!; but, I also struggle now with the impact of father's dementia progression (age 82 but nearly incapacitated and a shell of what he was even 3 years ago) as well as my grandmother's struggle with the same thing (she was severely demented from age 83 to her death at age 96). These events and experiences have left some deep scars on me and sapped my desire to prolong my life into those ages because I am CONVINCED that would be my fate as well. I notice (and obsess over) times when I literally cannot recall something - a date, a name, an event... I can still 'see' it in my mind... but my ability to comprehend or communicate it is temporarily just...gone. Anywho... all of that sad story is just to say, weight control (and the lifestyle changes like dietary restrictions, exercise programs and the like) do not tickle my same survival instinct the way a cancer diagnosis at 37 did, so while I kicked cigarettes without ever again smoking, I am incapable of changing my life further to avoid excessive weight. Nicotine-released dopamine was overcome... mental and digestive and emotional dopamine from eating and not allowing for external imposition of limits? Sadly, I do not have the same will power or desires any longer.

In the end, I had cancer in my kidneys that was discovered at the absolute earliest possible moment (serendipiously at that - food poisoning and an ER visit with an abdominal CT found it only because an attentive X-Ray tech saw something and told me to get a second opinion right away) whether it was smoking related or not is debatable (though at the time I mentally attached the two together in a iron-clad relationship), but I do know most renal cell carcinomas are asymptomatic until they metastisize and spread to other locations, and when they are detected, it is usually because the patient is in deep trouble and stage 3 or later.

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