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George McGovern

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Thu May 22, 2025, 01:45 AM May 2025

". . .when we realize that aging is real. . ." Excerpt From A Firing Offense George Pelecanos

“Somewhere along the line I became a salesman, worked on commission as I put myself through college, cut my hair, was promoted into management, got married and divorced, and generally lost the notion that life was a series of adventures and opportunities waiting to happen. One day a stockboy in one of the stores called me “sir,” and I was alarmed by that panicky, universal moment when we realize that aging is real and for all of us, not just for watery-eyed relatives and quiet old men on the bus.”

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". . .when we realize that aging is real. . ." Excerpt From A Firing Offense George Pelecanos (Original Post) George McGovern May 2025 OP
I was called MA'AM when I was 21 and a sergeant in the Air Force, by new airmen Skittles May 2025 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author George McGovern May 2025 #2
My wife's 73. She still doesn't like to be called MA'AM. Don't people realize how they can affect our senses of being? George McGovern May 2025 #3
When one goes from being called "Miss" to being called "Ma'am", we women check our LoisB May 2025 #5
At first reading of your reply Lois I thought you meant "we women check out" of the scene and walk away. I was wrong. George McGovern May 2025 #6
We do that too. LoisB May 2025 #16
I haven't been called that lately as a geezer Skittles May 2025 #8
Another context for geezer: "An elderly person, especially one with a long-standing presence or experience." George McGovern May 2025 #18
I do find my concept as ELDERLY has very much changed Skittles May 2025 #19
I once told my favorite barista, who is Latino, Demobrat May 2025 #4
Of course his tips went up, silly boy. Good you set him right! Thanks Demobrat (love your user name)! -- Allan George McGovern May 2025 #7
Yep. BurnDoubt May 2025 #9
No Shit Indeed BurnDoubt! Thanks! George McGovern May 2025 #12
Yeah Figarosmom May 2025 #10
Agreed Figarosmom! Thanks! -- Allan George McGovern May 2025 #13
Without old people there wold be no young people. multigraincracker May 2025 #11
Profound statement multigraincracker. Thank You! -- Allan George McGovern May 2025 #14
Boomer Proud, and I got to see all of great bands live. multigraincracker May 2025 #15
That's a great motto "Boomer Proud"! There were lotsa great bands for sure! Thanks multigraincracker! George McGovern May 2025 #17

Skittles

(166,798 posts)
1. I was called MA'AM when I was 21 and a sergeant in the Air Force, by new airmen
Thu May 22, 2025, 02:22 AM
May 2025

it always startled me

Response to Skittles (Reply #1)

George McGovern

(8,899 posts)
3. My wife's 73. She still doesn't like to be called MA'AM. Don't people realize how they can affect our senses of being?
Thu May 22, 2025, 02:41 AM
May 2025

Thanks Skittles

LoisB

(11,431 posts)
5. When one goes from being called "Miss" to being called "Ma'am", we women check our
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:01 AM
May 2025

gray hair and wrinkles.

George McGovern

(8,899 posts)
6. At first reading of your reply Lois I thought you meant "we women check out" of the scene and walk away. I was wrong.
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:08 AM
May 2025

Skittles

(166,798 posts)
8. I haven't been called that lately as a geezer
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:42 AM
May 2025

I wouldn't care for it but I wouldn't bite their head off

George McGovern

(8,899 posts)
18. Another context for geezer: "An elderly person, especially one with a long-standing presence or experience."
Thu May 22, 2025, 12:50 PM
May 2025

Thank You Skittles!

Skittles

(166,798 posts)
19. I do find my concept as ELDERLY has very much changed
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:21 PM
May 2025

I know it is a cliche but it really isn't about the number, and more about the health and welfare of a person.....I still swim across lakes for fun; I embrace my geezer status!

Demobrat

(10,196 posts)
4. I once told my favorite barista, who is Latino,
Thu May 22, 2025, 02:56 AM
May 2025

not to call me, or any female customer, ma’am, because it makes us feel old. I told him to say miss instead. He later told me his tips went up.

George McGovern

(8,899 posts)
7. Of course his tips went up, silly boy. Good you set him right! Thanks Demobrat (love your user name)! -- Allan
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:10 AM
May 2025

BurnDoubt

(961 posts)
9. Yep.
Thu May 22, 2025, 03:42 AM
May 2025

From runnin' with the big dogs to watchin' 'em from the porch.
Enjoy your body while it still works.
No Shit!

George McGovern

(8,899 posts)
17. That's a great motto "Boomer Proud"! There were lotsa great bands for sure! Thanks multigraincracker!
Thu May 22, 2025, 10:42 AM
May 2025
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