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UpInArms
(53,143 posts)that will not allow anyone near him
he comes and eats at my she-shed
I have put up several feral houses for him
all I can really do is to keep him from being food insecure
debm55
(48,528 posts)
malaise
(286,825 posts)Love them all
Ocelot II
(126,099 posts)He's been around for almost four years. I put food out for him every morning, which he expects and waits for, usually sleeping on a cushioned porch chair that has a heating pad for cold days. I also got him a little house that's heated, but he hangs out in there only when it's extremely cold, like below zero - otherwise he prefers the chair, where he can watch what's going on. The porch has a roof, so even in the summer he has a place to go when it's raining. When the weather is really bad he'll spend the whole day on the porch; otherwise, after he eats he washes up and then goes off to do cat stuff. Usually he's gone all day, but sometimes he'll nap on a chair on the deck at the back of the house, and if I'm outside gardening he'll come up to me and meow for food (there's another food dish on the deck, which he'll wait patiently near while I go inside for more food). I can get close to him but I can't pet him - he swats at me (without using claws) if I try. Last summer he disappeared for about a month and I was afraid something had happened to him, but one day he came back and returned to his old routine with no explanation. I don't know whether I'll ever tame him but he's welcome to live on my porch on his terms.
question everything
(50,651 posts)Ocelot II
(126,099 posts)Wish I had a more imaginative name for him, but that's what I still call him.
Tree Lady
(12,548 posts)My kitty Raggedy Annie (ragdoll) she is 15 1/2 now use to be very friendly and after we moved several times, I guess she hated that is frightened easy. She is very spoiled by us indoor kitty, so moving is all I can think of why the change. Now she mostly only goes to my husband and rarely me.
We did get a dog 8 yrs ago a golden retriever that loves her, feeling not mutual. That could be it also, but she is allowed on furniture dog isn't. Both are allowed on beds. Took years but now they can sleep near each other on bed.
I guess we disrupted her peace.
flashman13
(1,407 posts)through my cat door. Now he owns the place. Cats are like that.