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DFW

(58,774 posts)
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 06:45 AM Thursday

Fifty years on the job! Thank goodness they didn't give me a gold watch.

I don 't wear a watch. I have sensitive skin, and any watchband, even if made of a chemically neutral substance such as gold, will have me scratching my wrist and looking for anti-itch medication within three hours.

But my immediate co-superiors, who are the two top guys in my outfit, did put on a little dinner. There were only about 16 of us. It was comprised of old friends from the beginning days and some newer ones, some of whom hadn't even been born when I started. But these were people who had earned (for better or for worse!) my friendship and respect over the years, and I was happy to have them there. Out of the about 16 people, we had natives of the USA, Canada, Brazil, Belgium, the Netherlands, England and one Ukrainian. My friend from the Netherlands even came all the way here (Oklahoma, as fate would have it) just for the occasion, a humbling gesture of friendship that I'd be at a loss to repay.

When I was recruited, I was 23, just a year out of my university, with a diploma that I soon realized was nice wall decoration, but not paying the rent on its own. My parents were after me to go to graduate school and learn how to really "make it" in the world. They offered to foot the bill (not as financially destructive in 1975 as it would have been now). But I just wanted out of academia for a while. I was offered a post based in New England, and I loved the area. Even my parents agreed that a year or two of practical experience out there in the "real world" wouldn't be the worst thing I could do. For my part, I was so bold as to ask--before I even started--for a lot of extra vacation time, because I had met this fabulous girlfriend in Germany. She had not completed her studies, and could not just move to North America on a whim. My top guy, a very forward-thinking individual, told me that if I could "make myself useful over there," I could take all the time I wanted. He knew that I already spoke German, French, Russian, Spanish, Swedish, Catalan and Italian. So, I did my level best to make myself useful, and indeed got to spend enough time with my German girlfriend to keep the connection alive. We have now been together for over 51 years.

When I joined, the "company," for lack of a better term, consisted of about twelve "20-somethings," in some cases just barely! Add in a receptionist, accountant, and some other support staff, and we were close to 20 people, to me an immense responsibility for a guy my age to be running. I was glad I wasn't the one to be running it. Things went well for a while, but then came the Reagan recession.

Interest rates went up over 15%, and businesses were failing all over the USA. That kind of interest rate made the US Dollar the darling currency worldwide, and the value of the US dollar nearly doubled against most major currencies. Great if you were planning a European vacation, but fatal to US companies who sold things overseas, since the price to the overseas customers had just doubled. Being not the only ones in dire peril, my top guy talked frequently with our biggest rival, who was in Dallas. A desperate survival measure, a merger, was suggested, studied, and then implemented. Taxes, costs, and location all favored Texas over Boston, and so the new HQ became Dallas, and all of us "Boston" people moved to Texas. This was 1982, and we had barely turned thirty. For me, it was mostly a paper move, anyway, as I was already spending most of my time in Europe, finally (after 8 years!) marrying my German girlfriend.

The risk of the merger turned out to be the right one. What was left of the two outfits, after Reagan's high interest rates had practically devastated us, merged very well, and we began to grow again. There were some dips along the way, Cheney's 2008 disaster being bad, but nowhere nearly as bad as Reagan's 1980s struggle. We were in a strong enough position that the top people, myself included, were in a position to take a yearly salary of $1 for as long as it took to weather the storm so that our lower income employees, who stuck with us at remarkably high percentage rate, could be retained without reducing their salaries. We did work our asses off, and grew and grew. Now, the barely twenty somethings are seventy-somethings. Most of us are still here. Survival battles forge strong ties. My top guy and I were each other's best man at our weddings, and the twelve twenty-somethings are now a thousand people worldwide.

The concept of forging strong friendships did not die out with our generation, and some people there last night, including the woman who is now the boss of our major East Coast office, are barely over thirty, as is my colleague from Kyiv, who is not part of our outfit, but works closely with both me and our NL office near Utrecht, and is a valued friend. The several Americans there were from Seattle, Mississippi, New York, and points in between. Attained positions, accumulated wealth (or lack thereof!), time spent on the job, these were all minor differences of little significance last night. Though it was ostensibly to celebrate our (my) fifty years on the job, it was also a gathering of very diverse equals, people with great mutual respect and no one greater than any other, except for the age listed on our IDs. There were no speeches or trinkets--just conversations and memories. That's the way, uh-huh, uh-huh, I like it.

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Fifty years on the job! Thank goodness they didn't give me a gold watch. (Original Post) DFW Thursday OP
Wonderful!! Sun-Moon Thursday #1
The nice part was their willingness to let me bring in so many diverse friends DFW Thursday #10
Congratulations! Trueblue Texan Thursday #2
And I wouldn't have worn it anyway. DFW Thursday #11
Great reflection. Telling the story again will fix cachukis Thursday #3
It was, very perceptive of you. DFW Thursday #13
Congratulations DFW! An amazing milestone. n/t livetohike Thursday #4
One day at a time, and suddenly it has been 50 years. DFW Thursday #14
Congrats on a job well done Alice Kramden Thursday #5
Thanks for that! DFW Thursday #15
Congratulations! sinkingfeeling Thursday #6
Thank you! DFW Thursday #16
Congrats! SheltieLover Thursday #7
Thanks! n/t DFW Thursday #17
Congratulations on 50 Years !!!! Fla Dem Thursday #8
Thanks! DFW Thursday #19
❤️🥰🎉🥳 Congrats. (A genuine Black Forest cuckoo clock would make a nice 50 year gift.) Oopsie Daisy Thursday #9
A Black Forest Cuckoo clock DFW Thursday #20
What a great ride it must've been DFW. JMCKUSICK Thursday #12
Thanks for that. DFW Thursday #22
Congrats. irisblue Thursday #18
Thanks, Iris! n/t DFW Thursday #24
Congratulations DFW gademocrat7 Thursday #21
Thanks! DFW Thursday #25
Thank you for sharing a piece of your life. tavernier Thursday #23
We could have put the long version in a book DFW Thursday #26
Congratulations 🎈🍾 underpants Thursday #27
Those are the memories that make you a wealthy soul. NBachers Thursday #28
Boy did this take me down a rabbit hole.. yorkster Thursday #34
And a ship . . . A Black Freighter . . . Runs a flag up its masthead . . . Shootin' guns from the bow. . . NBachers Thursday #36
Right, from The Threepenny Opera. yorkster Thursday #38
Congratulations! rubbersole Thursday #29
I would have only given it away. DFW Yesterday #48
If you should wreck your German car... rubbersole Yesterday #50
No offense taken. I have never owned a Mercedes in my life. DFW Yesterday #52
Very well written. Retirement is wonderful. JohnnyRingo Thursday #30
I've heard that about retirement from several people. DFW Thursday #41
I started at GM when I was 19 years old. JohnnyRingo Yesterday #49
That's a world I can only try to imagine. DFW Yesterday #51
Oh how I enjoyed reading your summation of your incredible working journey and milestone celebration!How wonderful that KitFox Thursday #31
Thanks, but this wasn't to celebrate retirement. DFW Yesterday #47
Ah, wow! Fifty years! Major congrats, my dear DFW! CaliforniaPeggy Thursday #32
Agree on his literary streak - very inspiring Alice Kramden Thursday #33
I took a stab at a trial run a little over ten years ago. DFW Thursday #42
My dear DFW! Yes, your book is still available on Amazon! The link is below: CaliforniaPeggy Thursday #43
I third the motion. Lionel Mandrake Thursday #37
What a great saga. You always take us with yorkster Thursday #35
If I ever find myself with a few months and nothing else to do...... DFW Yesterday #46
Your have had an amazing career Lionel Mandrake Thursday #39
A German colleague gave me fair warning. DFW Thursday #40
I have the same problem with wristwatches... malthaussen Thursday #44
You are quite correct. I thoroughly lack imagination. DFW Thursday #45
Man after my own heart. malthaussen Yesterday #53
Congratulations on a well-deserved retirement! WestMichRad Yesterday #54
Thanks! But you're a little bit premature. DFW Yesterday #55
Ok, then... WestMichRad Yesterday #56
Now you're speaking my language! DFW Yesterday #57

Sun-Moon

(209 posts)
1. Wonderful!!
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 07:42 AM
Thursday

Congratulations on 50 years and how wonderful for your company to celebrate you.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
10. The nice part was their willingness to let me bring in so many diverse friends
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:41 AM
Thursday

That made it special for me.

Trueblue Texan

(3,618 posts)
2. Congratulations!
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 07:44 AM
Thursday

How blessed to experience authentic success that no gold watch could compare with!

cachukis

(3,396 posts)
3. Great reflection. Telling the story again will fix
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:11 AM
Thursday

the memories better.
Luck and hard work. Must have been a pleasant evening.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
13. It was, very perceptive of you.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:43 AM
Thursday

No better proof of the strength there is in diversity.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
14. One day at a time, and suddenly it has been 50 years.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:45 AM
Thursday

We look at old photos of us 45 years ago, and it's like looking at an album from our Kindergarten days.

Oopsie Daisy

(6,557 posts)
9. ❤️🥰🎉🥳 Congrats. (A genuine Black Forest cuckoo clock would make a nice 50 year gift.)
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:35 AM
Thursday

DFW

(58,774 posts)
20. A Black Forest Cuckoo clock
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:51 AM
Thursday

That might be one of the few things that might lead my wife to consider a divorce after all these years.

JMCKUSICK

(3,651 posts)
12. What a great ride it must've been DFW.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:42 AM
Thursday

Congrats on an amazing journey, especially the personal one.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
22. Thanks for that.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:53 AM
Thursday

The personal part remains the most important.

Without that, it's all just miles and numbers.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
25. Thanks!
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:55 AM
Thursday

It doesn't really feel like fifty years, but the white hair and the mileage don't lie.

tavernier

(13,875 posts)
23. Thank you for sharing a piece of your life.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:54 AM
Thursday

Fifty years in the blink of an eye, and told so warmly, I felt as if I was there. Congratulations.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
26. We could have put the long version in a book
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 08:58 AM
Thursday

Then we could really be accused of trying to bore people to death!

NBachers

(18,828 posts)
28. Those are the memories that make you a wealthy soul.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:14 AM
Thursday

And your writing is always one of my favorite things to find on Democratic Underground.

I think all of us are determined to be alive to celebrate the day our current political predicament comes to a close. What a revoltin' development this is!

&list=RD-F8YNrn-_es&start_radio=1

yorkster

(3,336 posts)
34. Boy did this take me down a rabbit hole..
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:07 AM
Thursday

I wondered if Dylan had ever heard Pirate Jenny when he wrote this song. According to a reddit submission quoting passages from Dylan's Chronicles, he heard Pirate Jenny in New York (1963, iirc) and it made a hell of an impression. (Sorry wish I could
link. I'm techlousy so to speak.) The quoted passages from "Chronicles" are superbly written. It's Dylan, after all.

Always loved "When the Ship Comes In".
It was written in 1963, so maybe a connection...thx for Arlo's version.

NBachers

(18,828 posts)
36. And a ship . . . A Black Freighter . . . Runs a flag up its masthead . . . Shootin' guns from the bow. . .
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 12:02 PM
Thursday

By memory - Judy Collins, of course . . .

yorkster

(3,336 posts)
38. Right, from The Threepenny Opera.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 12:18 PM
Thursday

Also loved Nina Simone version. First heard ithis song in a student production at MIT years ago.
Bertolt Brecht's play and Kurt Weill's music.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
48. I would have only given it away.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 08:53 AM
Yesterday

I have driven those things. They are way down low to the ground, and I found that driving them gives you a snail's eye view. Plus, it took me three minutes to even get into the thing. My wife and I do drive locally made (i.e. German) cars, since they are easier to fix if we have a problem. But our brand of choice is easier to get in and out of if your height exceeds three feet six inches.

rubbersole

(10,297 posts)
50. If you should wreck your German car...
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 11:36 AM
Yesterday

..you could take it to the repair shop and say "That's the way the Mercedes bends."

(Sorry. A 1962 Culver Military Academy talent show joke. I didn't win.)

DFW

(58,774 posts)
52. No offense taken. I have never owned a Mercedes in my life.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 12:29 PM
Yesterday

Talk about dodging a bullet!

JohnnyRingo

(20,106 posts)
30. Very well written. Retirement is wonderful.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:35 AM
Thursday

Quite a reflection on how you got there.
And thanx for not using the word "boss". It reeks of indentured servitude. Some of my best supervisors were those who made me feel like we were working together instead of working for them.

Good luck! See you at the senior buffet.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
41. I've heard that about retirement from several people.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 01:27 PM
Thursday

I suppose I will find out some day--preferably not posthumously!
When the guy you work for is your best friend and six months younger, I avoid the term "boss" like the plague!

What's in the buffet? I haven't had lunch yet!

JohnnyRingo

(20,106 posts)
49. I started at GM when I was 19 years old.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 09:18 AM
Yesterday

After 30 years I retired at 49 and the following 22 years have been the best of my life. So far.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
51. That's a world I can only try to imagine.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 12:27 PM
Yesterday

But I get off on the traveling, so I would miss that.

KitFox

(364 posts)
31. Oh how I enjoyed reading your summation of your incredible working journey and milestone celebration!How wonderful that
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 09:58 AM
Thursday

your colleagues planned the perfect gathering. A testament to you that your work lives on globally! I was thinking about my sister who spent 42 years as a University librarian assistant. We had a family memorial but the library director wanted to have a separate memorial for her. She planned the entire event and I was overwhelmed with how many came. Some who had transferred elsewhere flew in for it from London, Boston, New York, Hawaii, and North Carolina. I knew she was well-liked at her job, but not to this extent. I wish she had retired before she died and had the experience of knowing the full extent of their appreciation. Enjoy every moment of your retirement adventure! 😊

DFW

(58,774 posts)
47. Thanks, but this wasn't to celebrate retirement.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 08:47 AM
Yesterday

I'm only 73. This was just to celebrate the first fifty years (gotta be optimistic, right?).

CaliforniaPeggy

(154,860 posts)
32. Ah, wow! Fifty years! Major congrats, my dear DFW!
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 10:47 AM
Thursday

You have a strong literary streak and this post really shows it off. Your stories are never boring; they pull us in and we're right there with you, seeing the world through your eyes.

Lionel and I are so lucky to know you and your beautiful wife personally.

Alice Kramden

(2,748 posts)
33. Agree on his literary streak - very inspiring
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:02 AM
Thursday

I hope DFW writes memoirs and much more in the future

DFW

(58,774 posts)
42. I took a stab at a trial run a little over ten years ago.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 01:29 PM
Thursday

I think my book is still on Amazon. I suppose I should look before guessing!

yorkster

(3,336 posts)
35. What a great saga. You always take us with
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 11:13 AM
Thursday

you. Congratulations.
You know, maybe you should write that book...

DFW

(58,774 posts)
46. If I ever find myself with a few months and nothing else to do......
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 08:44 AM
Yesterday

The last one took me over a year, and that was fiction! Much easier to play with, since I didn't have to remember conversations with Thomas Jefferson in order to write them down.

Lionel Mandrake

(4,175 posts)
39. Your have had an amazing career
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 12:32 PM
Thursday

and written an elegant story about it and about your life.

You only hinted at retirement. This leaves me wondering what you are up to now. Will your retirement be cold turkey or gradual? I doubt that anyone else could take over the job you have been doing over the last few decades.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
40. A German colleague gave me fair warning.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 01:24 PM
Thursday

He told me that retirement comes when the last nail is hammered in the coffin.

Hint to the unretired--never get a job that you have fun at. You might find it difficult to let go (first hand experience here).

malthaussen

(18,281 posts)
44. I have the same problem with wristwatches...
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 05:49 PM
Thursday

... so I carried a pocket watch for years. Now, of course, one doesn't need a watch, since one's phone will constantly tell what time it is, in fifty different cities around the world.

Fifty years in one job, and 51 years married to the same woman... your problem, my friend, is that you lack imagination!

-- Mal

DFW

(58,774 posts)
45. You are quite correct. I thoroughly lack imagination.
Thu Aug 21, 2025, 06:53 PM
Thursday

Not only that, I'm lazy. If I get introduced to some fascinating, insanely attractive woman, and she does not happen to be the one I am already married to, I won't chase her, and women never chase me (my wife is nearsighted, which explains her error so long ago--she didn't chase me, but nor did she tell me to get lost, which made her very much the exception to the rule).

Ergo, I am hopelessly stuck in a rut in which I will probably remain for the rest of my days. My motto is "boring is beautiful!"

malthaussen

(18,281 posts)
53. Man after my own heart.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 05:02 PM
Yesterday

I can eat the same thing five days in a row. Or multiple times daily. Hey, if I like it, I eat it.

-- Mal

WestMichRad

(2,527 posts)
54. Congratulations on a well-deserved retirement!
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 05:53 PM
Yesterday

Now be sure to make time for those fun things you and your wife haven’t had time for.

I snuck out without any celebration when I retired, just the way I wanted it. Love doing outdoor (conservation related) volunteer work now, to make up for all the years toiling in a lab and at a desk.

DFW

(58,774 posts)
55. Thanks! But you're a little bit premature.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 06:19 PM
Yesterday

We celebrated 50 years on the job, but nobody was retiring, least of all me. Check back with me in ten years or so. In case I should expire before then, consider it an involuntary premature retirement.

It's debatable as to whether having a job that is mostly fun is a boon or a curse, but so far, the perks far outweigh to negatives. In case all bad things I have heard about travel to Brazil turn out to be true, I reserve the right to modify that statement in three weeks.

WestMichRad

(2,527 posts)
56. Ok, then...
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 06:23 PM
Yesterday

Best wishes for your next ten years, and a long enjoyable retirement after that!

DFW

(58,774 posts)
57. Now you're speaking my language!
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 07:24 PM
Yesterday

I figure that after ten more years, if I never see another EU bureaucrat, it will be too soon.

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