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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsFifty years on the job! Thank goodness they didn't give me a gold watch.
I don 't wear a watch. I have sensitive skin, and any watchband, even if made of a chemically neutral substance such as gold, will have me scratching my wrist and looking for anti-itch medication within three hours.
But my immediate co-superiors, who are the two top guys in my outfit, did put on a little dinner. There were only about 16 of us. It was comprised of old friends from the beginning days and some newer ones, some of whom hadn't even been born when I started. But these were people who had earned (for better or for worse!) my friendship and respect over the years, and I was happy to have them there. Out of the about 16 people, we had natives of the USA, Canada, Brazil, Belgium, the Netherlands, England and one Ukrainian. My friend from the Netherlands even came all the way here (Oklahoma, as fate would have it) just for the occasion, a humbling gesture of friendship that I'd be at a loss to repay.
When I was recruited, I was 23, just a year out of my university, with a diploma that I soon realized was nice wall decoration, but not paying the rent on its own. My parents were after me to go to graduate school and learn how to really "make it" in the world. They offered to foot the bill (not as financially destructive in 1975 as it would have been now). But I just wanted out of academia for a while. I was offered a post based in New England, and I loved the area. Even my parents agreed that a year or two of practical experience out there in the "real world" wouldn't be the worst thing I could do. For my part, I was so bold as to ask--before I even started--for a lot of extra vacation time, because I had met this fabulous girlfriend in Germany. She had not completed her studies, and could not just move to North America on a whim. My top guy, a very forward-thinking individual, told me that if I could "make myself useful over there," I could take all the time I wanted. He knew that I already spoke German, French, Russian, Spanish, Swedish, Catalan and Italian. So, I did my level best to make myself useful, and indeed got to spend enough time with my German girlfriend to keep the connection alive. We have now been together for over 51 years.
When I joined, the "company," for lack of a better term, consisted of about twelve "20-somethings," in some cases just barely! Add in a receptionist, accountant, and some other support staff, and we were close to 20 people, to me an immense responsibility for a guy my age to be running. I was glad I wasn't the one to be running it. Things went well for a while, but then came the Reagan recession.
Interest rates went up over 15%, and businesses were failing all over the USA. That kind of interest rate made the US Dollar the darling currency worldwide, and the value of the US dollar nearly doubled against most major currencies. Great if you were planning a European vacation, but fatal to US companies who sold things overseas, since the price to the overseas customers had just doubled. Being not the only ones in dire peril, my top guy talked frequently with our biggest rival, who was in Dallas. A desperate survival measure, a merger, was suggested, studied, and then implemented. Taxes, costs, and location all favored Texas over Boston, and so the new HQ became Dallas, and all of us "Boston" people moved to Texas. This was 1982, and we had barely turned thirty. For me, it was mostly a paper move, anyway, as I was already spending most of my time in Europe, finally (after 8 years!) marrying my German girlfriend.
The risk of the merger turned out to be the right one. What was left of the two outfits, after Reagan's high interest rates had practically devastated us, merged very well, and we began to grow again. There were some dips along the way, Cheney's 2008 disaster being bad, but nowhere nearly as bad as Reagan's 1980s struggle. We were in a strong enough position that the top people, myself included, were in a position to take a yearly salary of $1 for as long as it took to weather the storm so that our lower income employees, who stuck with us at remarkably high percentage rate, could be retained without reducing their salaries. We did work our asses off, and grew and grew. Now, the barely twenty somethings are seventy-somethings. Most of us are still here. Survival battles forge strong ties. My top guy and I were each other's best man at our weddings, and the twelve twenty-somethings are now a thousand people worldwide.
The concept of forging strong friendships did not die out with our generation, and some people there last night, including the woman who is now the boss of our major East Coast office, are barely over thirty, as is my colleague from Kyiv, who is not part of our outfit, but works closely with both me and our NL office near Utrecht, and is a valued friend. The several Americans there were from Seattle, Mississippi, New York, and points in between. Attained positions, accumulated wealth (or lack thereof!), time spent on the job, these were all minor differences of little significance last night. Though it was ostensibly to celebrate our (my) fifty years on the job, it was also a gathering of very diverse equals, people with great mutual respect and no one greater than any other, except for the age listed on our IDs. There were no speeches or trinkets--just conversations and memories. That's the way, uh-huh, uh-huh, I like it.

Sun-Moon
(209 posts)Congratulations on 50 years and how wonderful for your company to celebrate you.
DFW
(58,774 posts)That made it special for me.
Trueblue Texan
(3,618 posts)How blessed to experience authentic success that no gold watch could compare with!
DFW
(58,774 posts)Too itchy and too clunky.
cachukis
(3,396 posts)the memories better.
Luck and hard work. Must have been a pleasant evening.
DFW
(58,774 posts)No better proof of the strength there is in diversity.
livetohike
(23,604 posts)
DFW
(58,774 posts)We look at old photos of us 45 years ago, and it's like looking at an album from our Kindergarten days.
Alice Kramden
(2,748 posts)Your experiences are fascinating to read
DFW
(58,774 posts)I never know in advance if I'm boring people to tears or not.
sinkingfeeling
(56,185 posts)DFW
(58,774 posts)Except for the white hair and the creaky bones, it's hard to believe.
SheltieLover
(72,975 posts)
DFW
(58,774 posts)Fla Dem
(26,997 posts)
We forgot the confetti, so it's just as well you remembered.
Oopsie Daisy
(6,557 posts)
DFW
(58,774 posts)That might be one of the few things that might lead my wife to consider a divorce after all these years.
JMCKUSICK
(3,651 posts)Congrats on an amazing journey, especially the personal one.
DFW
(58,774 posts)The personal part remains the most important.
Without that, it's all just miles and numbers.
irisblue
(35,699 posts)DFW
(58,774 posts)gademocrat7
(11,620 posts)Well done!👏👏💙
It doesn't really feel like fifty years, but the white hair and the mileage don't lie.
tavernier
(13,875 posts)Fifty years in the blink of an eye, and told so warmly, I felt as if I was there. Congratulations.
DFW
(58,774 posts)Then we could really be accused of trying to bore people to death!
underpants
(192,298 posts)NBachers
(18,828 posts)And your writing is always one of my favorite things to find on Democratic Underground.
I think all of us are determined to be alive to celebrate the day our current political predicament comes to a close. What a revoltin' development this is!
yorkster
(3,336 posts)I wondered if Dylan had ever heard Pirate Jenny when he wrote this song. According to a reddit submission quoting passages from Dylan's Chronicles, he heard Pirate Jenny in New York (1963, iirc) and it made a hell of an impression. (Sorry wish I could
link. I'm techlousy so to speak.) The quoted passages from "Chronicles" are superbly written. It's Dylan, after all.
Always loved "When the Ship Comes In".
It was written in 1963, so maybe a connection...thx for Arlo's version.
NBachers
(18,828 posts)By memory - Judy Collins, of course . . .
yorkster
(3,336 posts)Also loved Nina Simone version. First heard ithis song in a student production at MIT years ago.
Bertolt Brecht's play and Kurt Weill's music.
rubbersole
(10,297 posts)They should have given you a Porsche!
DFW
(58,774 posts)I have driven those things. They are way down low to the ground, and I found that driving them gives you a snail's eye view. Plus, it took me three minutes to even get into the thing. My wife and I do drive locally made (i.e. German) cars, since they are easier to fix if we have a problem. But our brand of choice is easier to get in and out of if your height exceeds three feet six inches.
rubbersole
(10,297 posts)..you could take it to the repair shop and say "That's the way the Mercedes bends."
(Sorry. A 1962 Culver Military Academy talent show joke. I didn't win.)
DFW
(58,774 posts)Talk about dodging a bullet!
JohnnyRingo
(20,106 posts)Quite a reflection on how you got there.
And thanx for not using the word "boss". It reeks of indentured servitude. Some of my best supervisors were those who made me feel like we were working together instead of working for them.
Good luck! See you at the senior buffet.
DFW
(58,774 posts)I suppose I will find out some day--preferably not posthumously!
When the guy you work for is your best friend and six months younger, I avoid the term "boss" like the plague!
What's in the buffet? I haven't had lunch yet!
JohnnyRingo
(20,106 posts)After 30 years I retired at 49 and the following 22 years have been the best of my life. So far.
DFW
(58,774 posts)But I get off on the traveling, so I would miss that.
KitFox
(364 posts)your colleagues planned the perfect gathering. A testament to you that your work lives on globally! I was thinking about my sister who spent 42 years as a University librarian assistant. We had a family memorial but the library director wanted to have a separate memorial for her. She planned the entire event and I was overwhelmed with how many came. Some who had transferred elsewhere flew in for it from London, Boston, New York, Hawaii, and North Carolina. I knew she was well-liked at her job, but not to this extent. I wish she had retired before she died and had the experience of knowing the full extent of their appreciation. Enjoy every moment of your retirement adventure! 😊
DFW
(58,774 posts)I'm only 73. This was just to celebrate the first fifty years (gotta be optimistic, right?).
CaliforniaPeggy
(154,860 posts)You have a strong literary streak and this post really shows it off. Your stories are never boring; they pull us in and we're right there with you, seeing the world through your eyes.
Lionel and I are so lucky to know you and your beautiful wife personally.
Alice Kramden
(2,748 posts)I hope DFW writes memoirs and much more in the future
DFW
(58,774 posts)I think my book is still on Amazon. I suppose I should look before guessing!
CaliforniaPeggy
(154,860 posts)Lionel Mandrake
(4,175 posts)We all hunger for well-told stories, and DFW's satisfies.
yorkster
(3,336 posts)you. Congratulations.
You know, maybe you should write that book...
DFW
(58,774 posts)The last one took me over a year, and that was fiction! Much easier to play with, since I didn't have to remember conversations with Thomas Jefferson in order to write them down.
Lionel Mandrake
(4,175 posts)and written an elegant story about it and about your life.
You only hinted at retirement. This leaves me wondering what you are up to now. Will your retirement be cold turkey or gradual? I doubt that anyone else could take over the job you have been doing over the last few decades.
DFW
(58,774 posts)He told me that retirement comes when the last nail is hammered in the coffin.
Hint to the unretired--never get a job that you have fun at. You might find it difficult to let go (first hand experience here).
malthaussen
(18,281 posts)... so I carried a pocket watch for years. Now, of course, one doesn't need a watch, since one's phone will constantly tell what time it is, in fifty different cities around the world.
Fifty years in one job, and 51 years married to the same woman... your problem, my friend, is that you lack imagination!
-- Mal
DFW
(58,774 posts)Not only that, I'm lazy. If I get introduced to some fascinating, insanely attractive woman, and she does not happen to be the one I am already married to, I won't chase her, and women never chase me (my wife is nearsighted, which explains her error so long ago--she didn't chase me, but nor did she tell me to get lost, which made her very much the exception to the rule).
Ergo, I am hopelessly stuck in a rut in which I will probably remain for the rest of my days. My motto is "boring is beautiful!"
malthaussen
(18,281 posts)I can eat the same thing five days in a row. Or multiple times daily. Hey, if I like it, I eat it.
-- Mal
WestMichRad
(2,527 posts)Now be sure to make time for those fun things you and your wife havent had time for.
I snuck out without any celebration when I retired, just the way I wanted it. Love doing outdoor (conservation related) volunteer work now, to make up for all the years toiling in a lab and at a desk.
DFW
(58,774 posts)We celebrated 50 years on the job, but nobody was retiring, least of all me. Check back with me in ten years or so. In case I should expire before then, consider it an involuntary premature retirement.
It's debatable as to whether having a job that is mostly fun is a boon or a curse, but so far, the perks far outweigh to negatives. In case all bad things I have heard about travel to Brazil turn out to be true, I reserve the right to modify that statement in three weeks.
WestMichRad
(2,527 posts)Best wishes for your next ten years, and a long enjoyable retirement after that!
DFW
(58,774 posts)I figure that after ten more years, if I never see another EU bureaucrat, it will be too soon.