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Xipe Totec

(44,378 posts)
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 09:54 PM 20 hrs ago

August 22nd is the day I quit smoking

So long ago that I can't remember for certain the exact year, but I can reconstruct it.

It was the year my first wife became pregnant with my first born son. He was born in 1986, so it must have been 1985.

So it was 40 years ago.

I remember thinking I needed to do something to make sure I would be alive to see my grandchildren.

I had tried quitting so many times before but always caved in to the habit after a few months.

This time was different. I put a full unopened carton of cigarettes on the kitchen counter. I told myself I could have a cigarette any time I wanted. All I had to do was break open the carton, take out a pack pull a cigarette from it.

Every day for the next year I would walk into the kitchen, see the carton, and decide I could wait one more day.

Days became weeks, weeks became months, and one year later I took the full carton and dropped it in the trash unopened.

A lot has happened since then. I now have one grandchild and a second one on the way. Along the way, I adopted a Russian boy who is now married and has two children of his own. I've remarried and my second wife has six grandchildren who call me grandpa.

I have annual checkups and each time a shadow shows up in one of my lungs; damage from my younger smoking days. A touch of emphysema that is stable and not growing.

I'll die someday but it looks like lung cancer is not in the cards for me.

Best decision I ever made.

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August 22nd is the day I quit smoking (Original Post) Xipe Totec 20 hrs ago OP
Congratulations on your anniversary, Xipe Totec! MIButterfly 20 hrs ago #1
There's one cigarette in a sealed glass jar, out in my garage. chouchou 19 hrs ago #2
Congratulations! My mom had to quit after she got asthma when I was a bit after 5 yrs old.... electric_blue68 19 hrs ago #3
Similar to me - womanofthehills 6 hrs ago #15
Woah, that was scary! Interesting on the nicotine patches and electric_blue68 5 hrs ago #16
Congrats Lithos 19 hrs ago #4
Great! Now you can worry about all the other cancers! Grins 18 hrs ago #5
wow, just love accounts like this... brilliant! thank you for sharing. bluboid 18 hrs ago #6
Nicely done! 19 years here, and never going back. Permanut 18 hrs ago #7
25 years ago mountain grammy 17 hrs ago #8
May 13th 2003. A heart attack ended my bad romance with nicotine WheelWalker 17 hrs ago #9
So happy for you and your family! Continued good health to you, congratulations for quitting. HeartsCanHope 17 hrs ago #10
Xipe Totec True Dough 11 hrs ago #11
Twenty five years ago for me. It's a hard habit to quit. Emile 11 hrs ago #12
April 29, 1976 Floyd R. Turbo 10 hrs ago #13
A story about my friend. OldBaldy1701E 9 hrs ago #14
March 24, 2018 liberaltrucker 3 min ago #17

MIButterfly

(1,100 posts)
1. Congratulations on your anniversary, Xipe Totec!
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 10:12 PM
20 hrs ago

I quit smoking for good in 1980. I moved back to Michigan from Tennessee to live with my grandmother, who didn't allow smoking in her house and I didn't want to sit outside in below-freezing weather just to smoke, so I quit. Unfortunately, I gained quite a bit of weight and it's been a battle ever since!

For about 20-25 years after I quit, I would occasionally dream that I started smoking again, but I was hiding it from everyone and right before I woke up, I would think "I can't believe I went back to smoking after all these years!" It would take me a few minutes after I woke up to realize that it was just a dream and I hadn't gone back to smoking. I haven't had that dream in a long time.

My mother quit smoking after over 50 years. She used that patch. She only used it once because she didn't want to pay $60.00 for another one. But she did stick with it and was cigarette-free for the last 16 years of her life.

Anyway, good for you!



chouchou

(2,254 posts)
2. There's one cigarette in a sealed glass jar, out in my garage.
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 10:49 PM
19 hrs ago

It's been there since Bill Clinton was president. My desire for a smoke is long, long gone but, it's there for me to
light up if I'm weak enough to go back. Not going to happen. ...and you won't either.

electric_blue68

(23,354 posts)
3. Congratulations! My mom had to quit after she got asthma when I was a bit after 5 yrs old....
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 11:01 PM
19 hrs ago

she was ? 31.

My sister thank goodness quit in her early 20s.
I never started bc I hated the smell! The girls' bathroom in the HS cafeteria was hell! #cough,gak,cough#

womanofthehills

(10,262 posts)
15. Similar to me -
Sat Aug 23, 2025, 11:44 AM
6 hrs ago

One day In my 20’s I lit a cigarette. I inhaled but could not breathe for a few seconds. Never had another cigarette.

Now -lots of people are using nicotine patches not to stop smoking but to feel better - ups your dopamine. Lots of long covid people on forums feeling better with patches.

I researched this and also found
out we have nicotinic acetylcholine receptors and nicotine can improve how these receptors work.

So it’s the smoke, pesticides, chemicals going into your lungs that are bad but many on social media long Covid forums feel the nicotine patches have improved their lives. Who knows - I don’t have long covid but I bought some patches !

electric_blue68

(23,354 posts)
16. Woah, that was scary! Interesting on the nicotine patches and
Sat Aug 23, 2025, 12:47 PM
5 hrs ago

dopamine.
If it helps people w long covid effects - good!

You'll get this.
My uncle took me to a event for Hubert Humphrey some Dems convincing other Dems to vote for him. I was 15.

Anyway, there was sooo much smoking going on; woah, did I leave with a headache!

Lithos

(26,563 posts)
4. Congrats
Fri Aug 22, 2025, 11:13 PM
19 hrs ago

Best of luck here. I have two wishes for you!

1) You remain cigarette free!
2) You remain cancer free!

This is going to be a downer. My own father gave up cigarettes after my mom passed from complications of lung cancer (cigarettes). However, he developed lung cancer 9 years later. The damage was too great. He passed a little over 20 years ago.

Please, this is from the bottom of my heart. I am grateful you are stopping. It's the best decision for your life.

L-

Grins

(8,751 posts)
5. Great! Now you can worry about all the other cancers!
Sat Aug 23, 2025, 12:03 AM
18 hrs ago

I never smoked, even though it was EVERYWHERE when I was growing up. I once stopped dating a terrific woman because she was so addicted to smoking.

And not just me; my brother and 2 sisters never smoked, either.

All four of us have had serious bouts with cancer. So you never know.

Every year, see your doctor - and get checked.

HeartsCanHope

(1,229 posts)
10. So happy for you and your family! Continued good health to you, congratulations for quitting.
Sat Aug 23, 2025, 12:49 AM
17 hrs ago

Emile

(36,867 posts)
12. Twenty five years ago for me. It's a hard habit to quit.
Sat Aug 23, 2025, 07:06 AM
11 hrs ago

I did it by chewing Copenhagen and eventually gave that up by chewing spearmint gum.

OldBaldy1701E

(8,757 posts)
14. A story about my friend.
Sat Aug 23, 2025, 09:29 AM
9 hrs ago

Now, I quit smoking tobacco about twenty-five years ago. (With the rare lapse for a really good cigar.)

Back in 1992, I was sitting with a few friends at my place. We were talking about doing another of our comedy recordings (what we did for fun), and one of them mentioned that he wanted to step outside for a smoke first. There were a few others, (myself included) who said they would join him. That friend then turned to my very good friend (who we will call Ben), and asked about his quitting smoking. Ben replied that it had been six years since he had stopped. We all applauded his resolve and his success. Then, another friend asked him if he ever wanted one.

Ben grabbed the table edges, stood up and leaned into my other friend and said through clenched teeth, "EVERY FUCKING DAY."

For some, it is very tough to stop. I am glad I only went through about a year of that.

Of course, as I said, I only quit tobacco.

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