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As a kid, what was your dream job going to be? Mine was to be a nurse. (Original Post) debm55 Sep 24 OP
Dream job vishnura Sep 24 #1
I found that being a nurse was not for me. I became a teacher and taught El Ed for 42 years. Loved it. Thank you,vishura debm55 Sep 24 #2
All I ever wanted to be was an artist because I wasn't good at anything else. Diamond_Dog Sep 24 #3
Thank you very much Diamond_Dog. It's a shame the computer industry took over the career that you were so talented in. debm55 Sep 24 #10
Ah, we *might* have had a quik convo sometime here w a few others re ?graphic design, p/u & m.... electric_blue68 Sep 24 #71
Yes! It was a job I enjoyed Diamond_Dog Sep 24 #86
Ah, yeah, your comnercial printing work sounds familiar. 👍 electric_blue68 Sep 24 #90
Oh yeah! We had an arc light camera. Diamond_Dog Sep 24 #99
Wow That arc light stuff definitely "Science Fictiony"! 😄 electric_blue68 Sep 24 #101
True! Diamond_Dog Sep 24 #102
Forester Onthefly Sep 24 #4
Thank you very much, You are an angel for the work you have done for others. Bless you.Onthefly. debm55 Sep 24 #7
Appreciated. So many great people providing assistance and legal support for people with disabilities. Onthefly Sep 24 #43
TY to you, and others! electric_blue68 Sep 24 #72
Play 2nd base for the White Sox CanonRay Sep 24 #5
Hahahaha. Thank you CanonRay. What did you do instead? debm55 Sep 24 #6
Federal law enforcement CanonRay Sep 24 #55
Thank you, CanonRay. debm55 Sep 24 #56
Was an amateur magician as a kid ..... anciano Sep 24 #8
Thank you very much, anciano. You had talent as a magician. I am happy you found marriage and the service and your debm55 Sep 24 #12
That's great! After I left the Commercial Art world, some of my office work wa sooo boring.... Luckily, I... electric_blue68 Sep 24 #73
Ballet dancer oberle Sep 24 #9
HAHAHHHAH. thank you very much, oberle. That is funny. debm55 Sep 24 #13
I was going to be one of the Supremes. Or the Beatles or the Monkees. ms liberty Sep 24 #11
HAHHAHA. Weren't we all. Thank you very much, ms liberty. debm55 Sep 24 #14
I didn't realize until a few years ago what my dream job... 3catwoman3 Sep 24 #15
Thank you very much, 3catwoman3. You did have a great dream job as a nurse. The pet toy designer sounds wonderful. but debm55 Sep 24 #16
Getting into the NP role saved the nursing profession for me. I really did not like my first nursing job, so much so... 3catwoman3 Sep 24 #20
Thank you very much, 3catwoman3. My husband had the same problem, but he couldn't get higher then a C in Genetics. He debm55 Sep 24 #26
What a fantastic dream job that would have been. So you were an ?independent nurse, loke a private visiting nurse?.... electric_blue68 Sep 24 #75
No - I worked in various outpatient pediatric settings both in the Air Force... 3catwoman3 Sep 24 #106
Got it! Interesting, way more independence. And extra conferring, if needed. electric_blue68 Sep 24 #108
One thing that I always wanted my physician colleagues to check with me... 3catwoman3 Sep 24 #110
Wow! Superpower hearing! Good on you, and for the double check. 👍 electric_blue68 Sep 24 #111
This message was self-deleted by its author electric_blue68 Sep 24 #76
Veterinarian ballet dancer BlueWaveNeverEnd Sep 24 #17
Thank you BlueWaveNeverEnd. That sounds like a really wonderful dream job. debm55 Sep 24 #18
A national forest ranger who lived in a fire lookout tower. defacto7 Sep 24 #19
Thank you very much , defacto7. What a wonderful dream job. debm55 Sep 24 #22
There's a DU member, whose name I can't recall at the moment, PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 27 #154
I remember his post but I can;t remember his name. debm55 Sep 27 #156
I wanted to be a dancer on Broadway!! Nittersing Sep 24 #21
What great two dream jobs to pick from. I loved Modern Dance, But teaching horseback riding lessons would be wonderful. debm55 Sep 24 #36
Astronaut Deep State Witch Sep 24 #23
Thank you very much, Deep State Witch. You would have made an excellent astronaut. debm55 Sep 24 #37
Probably Not Deep State Witch Sep 24 #47
"Fear of heights"! Uh,oh! electric_blue68 Sep 24 #85
Ohhh, boy. Same thing happened to a friend in Texas .. electric_blue68 Sep 24 #80
School teacher. LoisB Sep 24 #24
Thank you very much, LoisB for sharing with us. debm55 Sep 24 #31
I always wanted to be being a teacher. MIButterfly Sep 24 #25
Wow, what a great post.I congratulate you on going back to school to become a paralegal. Thank you, MIButterfly. debm55 Sep 24 #28
Good on you for changing electric_blue68 Sep 24 #88
A pirate. Ocelot II Sep 24 #27
HAHHAHAHAHHAHA. Thank you very much, Ocelot II. That's funny. debm55 Sep 24 #29
I wanted to play professional basketball. I ended up an accountant for 50 years. OLDMDDEM Sep 24 #30
Thank you very much, OLDMDDEM for sharing with us. I hope you continued to play basketball in your spare time. debm55 Sep 24 #39
I did until I found out about heart issues. OLDMDDEM Sep 24 #41
A cowboy. FuzzyRabbit Sep 24 #32
Thank you very much FuzzyRabbit. One can dream, my friend. debm55 Sep 24 #40
I wanted to be a nurse, too! pandr32 Sep 24 #33
Thank you pandr32. I made it through a year at college in Nursing and realized that I couldn't do it. So I became a debm55 Sep 24 #42
Lots of body fluids... 3catwoman3 Sep 24 #107
As a girl I knew I was squeamish and so had to change my goal. pandr32 Sep 25 #125
Thank you, pandr32. I am squeamish too. Had no relatives that went to college, so I found out the hard way. debm55 Sep 25 #126
Happy. DUU Sep 24 #34
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom, DUU. debm55 Sep 24 #44
Sounds like you had enough varied interests to be able to switch up electric_blue68 Sep 24 #91
scientist DBoon Sep 24 #35
Thank you so much for sharing with us, DBoon. debm55 Sep 24 #45
Lawyer then marine biologists who did research. lark Sep 24 #38
Thank you for sharing, lark. It is best to consider your health. debm55 Sep 24 #46
Good on you for being able to switch electric_blue68 Sep 24 #87
Star Pilot ✈ justaprogressive Sep 24 #48
Thank you very much, justaprogressive. debm55 Sep 24 #51
Oceanographer like Jacques Cousteau or an astronomer. Phoenix61 Sep 24 #49
Thank you, Phoenix61, two wonderful dream jobs. debm55 Sep 24 #50
Staff photographer for a daily newspaper Walleye Sep 24 #52
GREAT!!!!!!!, Thank you very much, Walleye. debm55 Sep 24 #57
Dream job MoonlightHillFarm Sep 24 #53
Thank you , MoonlightHillFarm. But it was a wonderful dream, wasn't it? debm55 Sep 24 #58
Thinking about becoming a dictator... 3825-87867 Sep 24 #54
HAHHHAHAHAHHAHh, you are funny but truthful. Thank you 3825-87867 debm55 Sep 24 #59
I was obsessed with radios and computers as a kid so everyone just assumed I'd be an engineer... hunter Sep 24 #60
Congratulations to you hunter and to your wife. You did reach your dream job. Just not in the order you thought you debm55 Sep 24 #67
Wanted To Be A Scientist Starting In 4th Grade ProfessorGAC Sep 24 #61
Congratulations. ProfessorGAC. You reached your dream. debm55 Sep 24 #68
Wanted to do lots of different jobs. multigraincracker Sep 24 #62
Thank you very much, multigraincracker.You lived your dreams. debm55 Sep 24 #65
An illustrator.....unfortunately I only did it off & on in B&W... electric_blue68 Sep 24 #63
Thank you , electric_blue68, Yes, the best art is the art you do at home --without deadlines and free to do as you debm55 Sep 24 #64
Thanks. Ah, those deadlines! electric_blue68 Sep 24 #66
Good luck on your paintings. It's a great way to relax. I know that you will do beautiful work. debm55 Sep 24 #69
TY. Hopefully over time I'll get pretty good. Then I'll show you. Also renewing my b&w drawing. It'll be a while, tho electric_blue68 Sep 24 #70
You CAN do it. I know you can. debm55 Sep 24 #78
TY electric_blue68 Sep 24 #84
My parents were artists with day jobs. hunter Sep 24 #93
Oh, I hear that about those kind of students! How wonderful to have 2 artist parents... electric_blue68 Sep 24 #100
That wood block technique is interesting. hunter Sep 24 #104
Thank you very much, That is sound advice from your parents. debm55 Sep 26 #151
I was going to be a vet malaise Sep 24 #74
Same here, malaise. I wanted to go into a job that would help the sick, poor, animals and children. A nurse was always debm55 Sep 24 #77
Hey, that's understandable! electric_blue68 Sep 24 #92
Loved animals all my life malaise Sep 24 #95
Loved animals all my life malaise Sep 24 #96
Loved animals all my life malaise Sep 24 #97
My mother told me that at 3 I wanted to be a cow. Not a cowboy, a cow. rsdsharp Sep 24 #79
LOL! 3catwoman3 Sep 24 #109
HAHAHHA. Thank you rsdsharp. debm55 Sep 25 #122
I loved working on the fish farm. bullimiami Sep 24 #81
Thank you very much, bullimiami. You made a huge leap from fish farm to recording studio. debm55 Sep 25 #121
Foreign correspondent - intrigue, excitement, men. 😇 Polly Hennessey Sep 24 #82
HAHAHAHAHHAHA. That's funny. Thank you very much, Polly Hennessey. debm55 Sep 25 #120
Entomologist markie Sep 24 #83
Great dream job, Thank you very much for sharing, markie. debm55 Sep 25 #119
Hermit Easterncedar Sep 24 #89
HAHAHAHHAHAH. Thank you very much, Easterncedar. debm55 Sep 25 #118
I am getting closer to realizing my dream all the time Easterncedar Sep 25 #123
I know what you mean. debm55 Sep 25 #124
I wanted to be an airline stewardess. MiKenMi33 Sep 24 #94
Wow. Thank you very much, MiKenMi33. You had many dream jobs. debm55 Sep 25 #117
Lighthouse keeper, or the guy in the caboose. Harker Sep 24 #98
Thank you very much, Harker, My grandfather was the guy in the caboose. You and your wife enjoy yourselves today, debm55 Sep 25 #116
WHen I as about 5 or 6, I wanted to be LogDog75 Sep 24 #103
What an interesting dream job, Thank you LogDog75. debm55 Sep 25 #115
Large animal veterinarian. sinkingfeeling Sep 24 #105
Thank you very much, sinkingfeeling. What an interesting dream job. debm55 Sep 25 #114
Astronaut LudwigPastorius Sep 24 #112
Thank you very much, LudwigPastorius. That would have been a terrific dream job. debm55 Sep 25 #113
I wanted to care for animals in some way. TommieMommy Sep 25 #127
Me too, TommieMommie. I wanted to be a vet. But did't think I had the courage for it. I did volunteer work at an no kill debm55 Sep 25 #128
A teacher because of summers off, but then I realized I didn't like kids all that much. catbyte Sep 25 #129
HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAH. That's funny. Thank you cabyte. PS, Did you write you salary in also? debm55 Sep 25 #131
To win a big lottery jackpot and not have to work WestMichRad Sep 25 #130
Thank you so much, WestMichRad. I am so glad everything worked out for you. debm55 Sep 25 #132
Newspaper reporter like Lois Lane in Superman Wicked Blue Sep 25 #133
Great!!!!!, Thank you very much for sharing with us. Should we call you Lois Lane?????? debm55 Sep 25 #134
An elevator operator PikaBlue Sep 25 #135
I remember the elevator operators. I too was in awe of their job as a child. Thank you PikaBlue. debm55 Sep 25 #136
Author and artist. Rizen Sep 25 #137
Congratulations, Rizen, I wish you all good vibes debm55 Sep 25 #139
Thanks, you too! Rizen Sep 26 #149
A teacher MustLoveBeagles Sep 25 #138
Thank you very much MustLoveBeagles, Did you reach your dream job? debm55 Sep 25 #140
No MustLoveBeagles Sep 26 #145
For a while I wanted to be a meteorologist. Then I think I wanted to be a pilot. FireUpChips10 Sep 25 #141
Thank you very much, FireUpChips10 debm55 Sep 26 #143
Dream Job?? retread Sep 26 #142
Yes,, work, career , job debm55 Sep 26 #144
Movie star. CTyankee Sep 26 #146
Beautiful and talented actresses. Thank you CTyankee. debm55 Sep 26 #147
As a small child, I wanted to be a policeman. OldBaldy1701E Sep 26 #148
Great, I am happy for you, OldBaldy1701E, Thank you. debm55 Sep 26 #150
Either astronaut or the next Mel Blanc Pinback Sep 26 #152
Great choices, Pinback, but your back choice was the choices you made on your journey in life. debm55 Sep 27 #161
Professional Hobo The Madcap Sep 26 #153
HAHAHAHAHHAHA, Thank you very much, The Madcap. debm55 Sep 27 #160
Airline stewardess. Which is a clue as to my age, PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 27 #155
HAHAHAHAHa, Thank you very much, PoindexterOglethorpe. I know what your mean. debm55 Sep 27 #159
I had 2: a book editor or a prosecutor. Luciferous Sep 27 #157
Thank you very much, Luciferous, Both great choices. debm55 Sep 27 #158

debm55

(51,521 posts)
2. I found that being a nurse was not for me. I became a teacher and taught El Ed for 42 years. Loved it. Thank you,vishura
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 09:43 AM
Sep 24

Diamond_Dog

(38,681 posts)
3. All I ever wanted to be was an artist because I wasn't good at anything else.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 09:52 AM
Sep 24

I did work as a graphic artist for about a decade so I really enjoyed that. It was before everything got computerized. We did everything by hand back in those days. Now any savvy 12 year old can create on the computer what we artists used to do.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
10. Thank you very much Diamond_Dog. It's a shame the computer industry took over the career that you were so talented in.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:37 AM
Sep 24

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
71. Ah, we *might* have had a quik convo sometime here w a few others re ?graphic design, p/u & m....
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 07:30 PM
Sep 24

I did do old fashion p/u & m from ?late '75, definitely 76 - part '80. Extrenely rare on & offs after that.

And a one week stint in '86 filling in for the Art Department of a small Cataloge House w it's own in-house photography studio. I did jewelry set ups from the designs the art department sent back to us.

They knew I had a background in it; so when the Art Director went on vacation...guess who got dragged up the big hallway to the physical front part of the company (photography was in the big 2 story high room in the back) to do the p/u & m's. Ugh! 🙄 😑 😄
Actually I think I designed one small several page "catalouge". 🤔 Other stuff might have been semi-prepped by the AD before he took off.

Diamond_Dog

(38,681 posts)
86. Yes! It was a job I enjoyed
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 08:34 PM
Sep 24

I worked as the artist at a commercial printer and not only did some logo design, page layout, illustration and pasteup, I learned commercial camera operations, stripping,proofing, even some plate making. I became a journeyman after 4 years.

It was a fun place to work, out of about 12 employees in my dept. only two of us were women and since it was union, we made the same money as the guys.

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
90. Ah, yeah, your comnercial printing work sounds familiar. 👍
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 08:56 PM
Sep 24

Cool - you learned just about all the jobs involved. AND got paid the same as thecguys. Union, yes!

🤔 I think i might have mentioned in Art College I took a course in photo lithograph commercial printing. We went from our college down to one of the then printing houses areas, not too far away. Great teacher, part, or full owner of the company!

In Art College ('70-'74) doing some graphic design, or photo silk screen stuff I'd get the Kodalith, and sometimes strip in with the transparent red tape various items. Then tilt the Big air vacuumed frame up vertically, adjust the vertical rods on either side in front of the frame, walk away and turn on the Arc Lights! BRIGHT!!!

Diamond_Dog

(38,681 posts)
99. Oh yeah! We had an arc light camera.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 09:50 PM
Sep 24

It was replaced not long after I started there. Made you feel like you were in Dr. Frankenstein’s lab!

I did one silk screen project in college.

Fun times!

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
101. Wow That arc light stuff definitely "Science Fictiony"! 😄
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:03 PM
Sep 24

Lots of people would have no idea what we were talking about! 😄

debm55

(51,521 posts)
7. Thank you very much, You are an angel for the work you have done for others. Bless you.Onthefly.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:31 AM
Sep 24

Onthefly

(1,064 posts)
43. Appreciated. So many great people providing assistance and legal support for people with disabilities.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:41 PM
Sep 24

I hope my work aided many people and communities. Many good lawyers and advocates provide important services everyday to reduce discrimination and barriers disabled individuals and families.

anciano

(1,971 posts)
8. Was an amateur magician as a kid .....
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:36 AM
Sep 24

and wanted to turn professional when I graduated from high school, but along came military duty and marriage. After my Air Force days, I spent most of working career as an office worker and thoroughly enjoyed it.


debm55

(51,521 posts)
12. Thank you very much, anciano. You had talent as a magician. I am happy you found marriage and the service and your
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:41 AM
Sep 24

office job to enjoy.

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
73. That's great! After I left the Commercial Art world, some of my office work wa sooo boring.... Luckily, I...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 07:40 PM
Sep 24

usually had very nice co-workers, and bosses!

3catwoman3

(27,864 posts)
15. I didn't realize until a few years ago what my dream job...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:45 AM
Sep 24

...would have been, had I realized that such a job exists. What a blast it would be to design toys for kittens and puppies, and then watch them play to see which ones they like. I can't imagine ever having a bad day at work if that were your job.

Born in 1951, when the usual choices for girls were nurse, teacher, and secretary. My mother and her mother were both nurses. I always liked science and animals, and started college as a biology major thinking I might like to study animal behavior. Switched to nursing, and had a largely happy career as a pediatric nurse practitioner from 1976-2021. Didn't care for in-hospital bedside nursing - not enough independence.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
16. Thank you very much, 3catwoman3. You did have a great dream job as a nurse. The pet toy designer sounds wonderful. but
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:50 AM
Sep 24

like you , I didn't have a whole lot of choices.

3catwoman3

(27,864 posts)
20. Getting into the NP role saved the nursing profession for me. I really did not like my first nursing job, so much so...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:11 AM
Sep 24

...that I feared I had made a career mistake. While I was in nursing school, it was pretty obvious that the med students were held in high regard for their intelligence, much more so than we were, so I decided I would finish the nursing degree and then apply to med school. I made the mistake of taking 2 semesters of organic chemistry in summer school right after graduation and only got a C. Back in the early 1970s, organic was the "make-or-break" class - if you didn't get an A, no school would even look at you. It scared me off.

My first nursing job didn't seem to care much about what I knew, just how fast I could move. How many bed baths and bed changes could you get done on the morning shift before the breakfast trays came up from the dietary department? Not much of an intellectual challenge.

The NP role offered me the independence and problem solving opportunities that my brain craved.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
26. Thank you very much, 3catwoman3. My husband had the same problem, but he couldn't get higher then a C in Genetics. He
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:56 AM
Sep 24

needed an A to get into Medical School. He also took it twice--same grade. He ended up getting a PhD in Chemical Engineering. But he still wishes he was able to get into Medical School.

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
75. What a fantastic dream job that would have been. So you were an ?independent nurse, loke a private visiting nurse?....
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 07:47 PM
Sep 24

One of my sister's longtime friend is. She's retiring a few years.
Glad it went rmostly well for you.👍

Idk if it would make you sad...but maybe you should design some toys now for your own fun.

3catwoman3

(27,864 posts)
106. No - I worked in various outpatient pediatric settings both in the Air Force...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:31 PM
Sep 24

...and civilian private practices doing well child care and sick visits. What I meant by independence was I was the one to see the patients without any involvement of my physician colleagues - take the history, do the exam, order labs if needed, make the diagnosis and choose the treatment. There was always one of my doctor colleagues in the office seeing their own patients, and available to me if either I or a parent felt the need for a quick second opinion if something peculiar was found.

I liked being the one to basically do the detective work of figuring out what was wrong and what to do about it without having to wait for a doctor's orders telling me what to do.

3catwoman3

(27,864 posts)
110. One thing that I always wanted my physician colleagues to check with me...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:04 PM
Sep 24

...were new heart murmurs that no one had previously documented. I never had any extensive cardiology training, so I didn't feel comfortable being the one to decide on the level of seriousness of a murmur. I have excellent hearing, so I was really good at hearing murmurs, some of which were so faint that my colleagues often referred to them as "Martha murmurs" because they were so faint they might not have noticed them.

"Bad" murmurs usually sound bad, and with the very faint ones I was usually 99% confident that they were not serious, but there is no good way to say "heart murmur" to a parent, without seeing a look of terror appear on their faces. I thought parents appreciated having the additional reassurance of one of my docs also listen.

Response to 3catwoman3 (Reply #15)

defacto7

(14,144 posts)
19. A national forest ranger who lived in a fire lookout tower.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:10 AM
Sep 24

But I would have to have had a piano in the tower so I could practice. I figured that would be a problem so I let it go. But it was a nice dream.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,116 posts)
154. There's a DU member, whose name I can't recall at the moment,
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 01:07 AM
Sep 27

who has done the fire lookout tower things for a decade or so now.

Nittersing

(7,701 posts)
21. I wanted to be a dancer on Broadway!!
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:30 AM
Sep 24

I took six years of Modern Dance and my instructor (who studied under Martha Graham) thought I had potential. But one year I thought horseback riding lessons would be cool and the folks said "pick one."

In retrospect, I think I was too naive for Broadway... and would likely have been taken advantage of.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
36. What great two dream jobs to pick from. I loved Modern Dance, But teaching horseback riding lessons would be wonderful.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:26 PM
Sep 24

Thank you for sharing with us. Nittersing.

Deep State Witch

(12,293 posts)
23. Astronaut
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:38 AM
Sep 24

One of my first memories is of watching the last Moon landing on TV in first grade. I told my teacher that I wanted to be an astronaut when I grew up. She told me that I couldn't, because I was a girl. (Hey, it was like 1971.) I've always been interested in space and science fiction.

Deep State Witch

(12,293 posts)
47. Probably Not
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 01:26 PM
Sep 24

There's this little "fear of heights" thing that would have disqualified me. I always wanted to work at NASA. But, I went and worked at the organization with one less "A" in the name.

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
85. "Fear of heights"! Uh,oh!
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 08:31 PM
Sep 24

"But, I went and worked at the organization with one less "A" in the name"
😄 👍

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
80. Ohhh, boy. Same thing happened to a friend in Texas ..
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 07:58 PM
Sep 24

We're the same age - 72. So like in 6th grade or so she expressed that desire ..

The response? :
"Silly, girls can't be astronauts.".
😬 For her, and you!

MIButterfly

(1,447 posts)
25. I always wanted to be being a teacher.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:51 AM
Sep 24

Instead, I ended up in the restaurant business, waiting tables, tending bar, etc. for 24 years. I decided to go back to college and pursue my lifelong dream of being a teacher but after a few classes, for some reason, I just lost the spark for it. I became more interested in the law and thought being a paralegal would be interesting. I signed up for the first introductory class to see if I had an aptitude for it and I was hooked. I sailed through all the other classes until I got my degree. I couldn't get enough of it. So after 26 years of being a legal assistant, I retired. If I had to do it all over again, knowing what I know now, I would've gone to law school and become an attorney. That never even entered my mind when I was a kid!

I still have the utmost respect for teachers.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
28. Wow, what a great post.I congratulate you on going back to school to become a paralegal. Thank you, MIButterfly.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:59 AM
Sep 24

debm55

(51,521 posts)
39. Thank you very much, OLDMDDEM for sharing with us. I hope you continued to play basketball in your spare time.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:31 PM
Sep 24

FuzzyRabbit

(2,194 posts)
32. A cowboy.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:15 PM
Sep 24

I still would like to be a cowboy, but I'm a little old to start learning how to ride a horse.

pandr32

(13,481 posts)
33. I wanted to be a nurse, too!
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:19 PM
Sep 24

At least until my aunt, my nurse idol, talked to me about it. She told me there was more to it than caring for people. She explained that the career included long hours and body fluids. That kind of put me off.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
42. Thank you pandr32. I made it through a year at college in Nursing and realized that I couldn't do it. So I became a
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:34 PM
Sep 24

teacher.

3catwoman3

(27,864 posts)
107. Lots of body fluids...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:43 PM
Sep 24

...and other substances that gross most people out.

Health care careers are not for the faint of heart.

pandr32

(13,481 posts)
125. As a girl I knew I was squeamish and so had to change my goal.
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 12:15 PM
Sep 25

As kids we romanticize things, and I loved and admired my aunt. She knew I wasn't looking at the career honestly and so hit me with some truth.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
126. Thank you, pandr32. I am squeamish too. Had no relatives that went to college, so I found out the hard way.
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 12:18 PM
Sep 25

DUU

(66 posts)
34. Happy.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:23 PM
Sep 24

Switched job categories when the job wasn’t fun anymore. Best decision I ever made.

Engineer.
Teacher.
Tech SME / Consultant.

Most gratifying jobs were the lowest paying:
Youth counselor.
Rural home repair/ rebuild.
State technology director.
National technical service.

Saw too many work jobs they hated but developed a lifestyle they couldn’t afford. Many ended up with dis-functional livers, OD’d or basket cases.

lark

(25,524 posts)
38. Lawyer then marine biologists who did research.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:29 PM
Sep 24

Went to college for marine biology but dropped out when overtime grew too great at work and I was too tired all the time.

Phoenix61

(18,574 posts)
49. Oceanographer like Jacques Cousteau or an astronomer.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 01:45 PM
Sep 24

Sea mammals fascinate me and studying the universe…. just wow!

Walleye

(42,727 posts)
52. Staff photographer for a daily newspaper
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 02:43 PM
Sep 24

And I was lucky enough to be able to do that job for 20 years

3825-87867

(1,624 posts)
54. Thinking about becoming a dictator...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 02:48 PM
Sep 24

but my wife says Democrats aren't allowed to be one!
Dang!

hunter

(40,023 posts)
60. I was obsessed with radios and computers as a kid so everyone just assumed I'd be an engineer...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 04:16 PM
Sep 24

... like my grandfather. I assumed that too.

In college I decided I really didn't like hanging out with engineering students, nearly all men, so I changed my major to evolutionary biology which really wasn't a practical career move. I later got a job as a science teacher, which is how I met my wife, so it did work out well.

Teaching was the hardest job I've ever had. I had a lot of trouble "reading" the kids so I had to be really strict and I didn't like it. I wanted to run an easy-going classroom like some of the teachers I remembered fondly, and as my wife did, but that takes a lot of skills I don't have. I couldn't discern what minor mischief could be laughed off as opposed to misbehavior that would cause a class to spiral out of control so I had to be heavy handed about ALL mischief, which is not my nature. It didn't help that the school was underfunded, overcrowded, and a lot of the kids did not have much security at home, a few of them even homeless.

Later my wife was accepted to the graduate program of her dreams in another state and I followed her. After that, besides being the stay at home dad, I've had work reflecting my technical skills, which is sort of like being an engineer I suppose.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
67. Congratulations to you hunter and to your wife. You did reach your dream job. Just not in the order you thought you
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 05:48 PM
Sep 24

would.

ProfessorGAC

(74,707 posts)
61. Wanted To Be A Scientist Starting In 4th Grade
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 04:21 PM
Sep 24

In college, thought about switching to dentistry. Even took the DAT. Got a 29, with no section below 26.
Did one interview at Loyola (the school I ended up at for graduate school in chemistry).
The interviewer really turned me off. He made the biggest deal about a B+ in Literature, keeping my GPA below 3.95.
I was so turned off, I purged the idea and went back to what I had planned.

multigraincracker

(36,417 posts)
62. Wanted to do lots of different jobs.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 04:40 PM
Sep 24

Lived my dream. Did have a job at a big corporation that included lots of different things. I put my ADHD to work and always had other side side jobs. Real Estate sales person, store owner, college student, and in sales.
Retired from that main job 23 years ago and still doing a lot of stuff, some things that pay too.
No regrets.

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
63. An illustrator.....unfortunately I only did it off & on in B&W...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 05:08 PM
Sep 24

For an Arts organizatipn for ?2 yrs or so bc my sis vworked there, and liked my stuff. Did the designs, illustrations, and paste up & mechanicals, and also a neighborhood non-profit 4 page arts newsletter for which I did all of the above as well for a year.

Never in the glorious color I wanted to do. Took around a thin ink (Rapidiographs) outlines w watercolors portfolio. O bites. Actually, there may have been a colored pencils, and water color one first. Then got inspired by someone, and heavy pressed colored pencils onto colored papers using that a background color depending on subject matter. That didn't work out either.

I still get quite sad about it on rare occasions, then mildly sad relatively more often.
But never gave my art up at home
So I guess that's something postive to be said about my creativity that way.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
64. Thank you , electric_blue68, Yes, the best art is the art you do at home --without deadlines and free to do as you
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 05:20 PM
Sep 24

please,

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
66. Thanks. Ah, those deadlines!
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 05:44 PM
Sep 24

I did do some good stuff for work. So I should give myself some credit.

I plan to try some painting in acrylic after I buy a few more colors, and some vetter brushes. I'll have to be very patient with myself (ha!), though as to the results.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
69. Good luck on your paintings. It's a great way to relax. I know that you will do beautiful work.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 05:52 PM
Sep 24

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
70. TY. Hopefully over time I'll get pretty good. Then I'll show you. Also renewing my b&w drawing. It'll be a while, tho
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 07:09 PM
Sep 24

practice...Practice...Practice!!!
patience...Patience...PATIENCE!!!

Ohhh, boy. 🙄
I don't know ow how "relaxing" it'll be as I'm still more critical than I should be, but less critical than I was waaay earlier on.

One "artistic foot" in front if the other. Hopefully determination, and some fun along the way to improvement will keep me going however off & on it is.👍

hunter

(40,023 posts)
93. My parents were artists with day jobs.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 09:17 PM
Sep 24

Me and my siblings grew up in a house full of art and artists.

My parents never advocated a profession or trade that would might prove especially lucrative, only those that left time and energy and enough spare change to pursue one's own art and interests.

In college I remember all the students in engineering or pre-med biology classes whose families were putting tremendous pressure on them to be engineers and doctors. I think that would have killed me.

electric_blue68

(24,146 posts)
100. Oh, I hear that about those kind of students! How wonderful to have 2 artist parents...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 09:58 PM
Sep 24

And how interesting how they approached the "day job dilemma". Lucky for you! 👍

Some of my aunts, and uncles appreciated the visual, and other arts! Several of my cousins had various art, art related, or photography jobs.

Warning: waxing poetic. 😄
One aunt was an incredible wood printmaker in B&W, and multi-colored prints. She did the ?reduction method" for multi-colored prints.
Instead of multiple wood blocks she'd print the color w the biggest area first, then carve away for the next one etc.
She was so fantastic! Did etchings, several small run children's books for various ages. Later even collaborated w one of her kids. 🤔 I think she did the line drawings, and he added color on the computer. She also did some wonderful paper cut outs. Multi-talented!

She invited me to make art for 3 werks, and paid for the trip to her and my uncle's beautiful house in a small West Switzerland village by the Jura Mountains. She had a gigantic art studio! 🥰 It was anazing! I still have all the art I did.
Bc she had parkisans, my uncle stated doing the cooking some years back. He became quite good! One my favorite things was him bringing local, and even just over the French border village cheeses! Love cheese!

And she took me, and one of her grand kids to Paris for 4 days - bc I asked if I could take a day trip by train to Paris! She'd/they'd been there a fair amount.
This was my first (probably only, and that's ok) trip to Europe.

The Lourve, Museum Or'say and a museum dedicated to some Monet's biggest Watelillies paintings! The Musée de l'Orangerie. Omg, was besides myself w amazement, and joy!

Almost 10 years ago. What an adventure!!!

hunter

(40,023 posts)
104. That wood block technique is interesting.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:18 PM
Sep 24

You must decide how many prints you are going to make before you start the second carving.

Yeah, that's what I want, an art studio in Switzerland! Just as there may be somebody in Switzerland who wants an art studio in California. ( Well maybe not until Trump is gone... )

I enjoyed your waxing poetic. Thanks for your reply.

malaise

(289,860 posts)
74. I was going to be a vet
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 07:41 PM
Sep 24

and then one of our dogs got hit and died and I couldn’t handle it.
I was 10.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
77. Same here, malaise. I wanted to go into a job that would help the sick, poor, animals and children. A nurse was always
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 07:53 PM
Sep 24

number one. I wanted to be a pediatrics nurse. Then I found out I had to an amount of time in different parts of the hospital, I just could not do it, Thank you my friend for sharing with us.

rsdsharp

(11,395 posts)
79. My mother told me that at 3 I wanted to be a cow. Not a cowboy, a cow.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 07:58 PM
Sep 24

The scale tells me I may have made it.

bullimiami

(14,066 posts)
81. I loved working on the fish farm.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 08:01 PM
Sep 24

As a career, not promising, for a 14-16 yo kid, pretty great.


And I worked in recording studios for 20 years. That was pretty good.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
121. Thank you very much, bullimiami. You made a huge leap from fish farm to recording studio.
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 09:55 AM
Sep 25

MiKenMi33

(231 posts)
94. I wanted to be an airline stewardess.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 09:32 PM
Sep 24

Instead I joined the Air Force where I met my hubby. I separated and became a stay at home mom until my youngest started 1st grade. Then I went back to college and became a logistics Coordinator. Now I’m happy retired.

Harker

(16,940 posts)
98. Lighthouse keeper, or the guy in the caboose.
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 09:41 PM
Sep 24

I saw a caboose today. Tomorrow my wifeand I are going to see some lighthouses.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
116. Thank you very much, Harker, My grandfather was the guy in the caboose. You and your wife enjoy yourselves today,
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 09:26 AM
Sep 25

LogDog75

(896 posts)
103. WHen I as about 5 or 6, I wanted to be
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 10:09 PM
Sep 24

the the machinery operator that filled railroad cars with grain. For some reason, positioning the chute the grain slides down into the railroad car and then filling it fascinated me.

LudwigPastorius

(13,535 posts)
112. Astronaut
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 11:41 PM
Sep 24

Of course, back then my assumption that we'd have a moon base and a Kubrickian space station by the time I grew up didn't seem so improbable.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
128. Me too, TommieMommie. I wanted to be a vet. But did't think I had the courage for it. I did volunteer work at an no kill
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 12:53 PM
Sep 25

animal shelter.

catbyte

(37,962 posts)
129. A teacher because of summers off, but then I realized I didn't like kids all that much.
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 01:16 PM
Sep 25

I ended up in education administration/grant writing, but on the college level. I wrote myself my job when I was a work/study student. Sweet!

debm55

(51,521 posts)
131. HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAH. That's funny. Thank you cabyte. PS, Did you write you salary in also?
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 02:33 PM
Sep 25

WestMichRad

(2,687 posts)
130. To win a big lottery jackpot and not have to work
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 01:21 PM
Sep 25

But then I took math and realized that wasn’t gonna happen.


So, second choice, a career in the sciences… and that worked out quite well. Lucky me!

Wicked Blue

(8,276 posts)
133. Newspaper reporter like Lois Lane in Superman
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 02:39 PM
Sep 25

I never met Superman, but I worked as a reporter for 25 years.

PikaBlue

(367 posts)
135. An elevator operator
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 04:51 PM
Sep 25

When I was slightly shy of my fourth birthday, we visited a family member who lived in Manhattan. I was awed by the elevator operators who had fancy uniforms, sat on a small fold down chair and set our destinations via this shiny brass device that looked like something Captain Nemo would have had on his ship. Unfortunately, that job disappeared and I had to downgrade my career aspirations. It pains me to think how many future telephone switchboard operators, milkmen, and newspaper type setters were driven into postgraduate degree programs and all we got were PowerPoint presentation capabilities. 😂

debm55

(51,521 posts)
136. I remember the elevator operators. I too was in awe of their job as a child. Thank you PikaBlue.
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 09:07 PM
Sep 25

Rizen

(960 posts)
137. Author and artist.
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 09:54 PM
Sep 25

Which is what I'm trying to set up right now. I've written 2 full books and am very close to publishing the first one.

OldBaldy1701E

(9,251 posts)
148. As a small child, I wanted to be a policeman.
Fri Sep 26, 2025, 08:51 PM
Sep 26

But, as I aged, I figured out that this was because of the automatic deference that people had for the profession. (Being someone who was not a natural leader, this was the way to get the respect that they did, so I reasoned.)

After I got to my tweens, I got more interested in the performing thing. Between music and acting, I decided that this was more in line with what I wanted. I still wanted to do my part, though. So, I joined the Civil Air Patrol. I did that from age fifteen until I hit eighteen. After an attempt to switch over to the USAF Reserves, I went for the performer thing full time.

Pinback

(13,417 posts)
152. Either astronaut or the next Mel Blanc
Fri Sep 26, 2025, 11:05 PM
Sep 26

I was obsessed with both the space program and animated cartoons. My life turned out to be considerably more mundane than either of those careers, but things turned out pretty well on the whole — I worked in journalism and later IT, and have done music and photography on the side.

debm55

(51,521 posts)
161. Great choices, Pinback, but your back choice was the choices you made on your journey in life.
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 12:19 PM
Sep 27

The Madcap

(1,499 posts)
153. Professional Hobo
Fri Sep 26, 2025, 11:26 PM
Sep 26

Was one for Halloween, complete with whiskey bottle.

When I finally retire, I can fulfill my life's calling....

PoindexterOglethorpe

(28,116 posts)
155. Airline stewardess. Which is a clue as to my age,
Sat Sep 27, 2025, 01:10 AM
Sep 27

as they've been flight attendants for over 50 years now.

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