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DFW

(59,063 posts)
Tue Oct 7, 2025, 05:22 AM 12 hrs ago

Ah so desu ka! So, my 5 year old granddaughter is learning to become a Samurai.......

My daughter and her S.O. decided to do something "different" for their fall (state of Hessia) school break. They went to Japan. They took his three boys from his first marriage and their two girls (our granddaughters). From the looks of things, they seem to be getting into their setting. At five years old, she's already someone you don't want to mess with. If she is now getting into Japanese culture after ten days in Japan (wouldn't surprise me, knowing her), she has certainly learned to dress the part.

It's funny, I don't remember just taking off and running over to Japan during my fall breaks from school. Crossed the 14th Street bridge a few times, but somehow, it doesn't quite pack the same impact.

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Ah so desu ka! So, my 5 year old granddaughter is learning to become a Samurai....... (Original Post) DFW 12 hrs ago OP
Japan is a magical place for children. Irish_Dem 10 hrs ago #1
Lucky her! DFW 9 hrs ago #4
I think it depends upon how early and frequent the exposure. Irish_Dem 2 hrs ago #8
Pretty little girl. Emile 10 hrs ago #2
As IrishDem said DFW 9 hrs ago #5
Yes, she has her grandmother's good looks. Emile 8 hrs ago #6
I know the feeling... Shipwack 9 hrs ago #3
Yes, my wife and I are thrilled for them. DFW 8 hrs ago #7

Irish_Dem

(75,817 posts)
1. Japan is a magical place for children.
Tue Oct 7, 2025, 06:36 AM
10 hrs ago

I lived there as a military kid for a while.
Everything is so exotic and different.
And beautiful, the kimonos, food, tea, art, etc.

Beautiful granddaughter, looks like their grandma!

DFW

(59,063 posts)
4. Lucky her!
Tue Oct 7, 2025, 08:19 AM
9 hrs ago

It would have been highly unfortunate if she had turned out to look like me!

I'm curious if she and her sister end up wanting to return again and again to Japan. Our own daughters acquired that same longing to always return to Cape Cod, which they had known from birth, and now, forty years later, still try to get back to every year.

Irish_Dem

(75,817 posts)
8. I think it depends upon how early and frequent the exposure.
Tue Oct 7, 2025, 03:21 PM
2 hrs ago

I was in the Asian culture for over four years as a child.
I still love everything Asian.

Shipwack

(2,874 posts)
3. I know the feeling...
Tue Oct 7, 2025, 07:26 AM
9 hrs ago
It's funny, I don't remember just taking off and running over to Japan during my fall breaks from school. Crossed the 14th Street bridge a few times, but somehow, it doesn't quite pack the same impact.


My granddaughter at age 5 has been to more countries than I have at age 57…

Of course, I am very happy that my son and his husband are able to give her such opportunities, as I’m sure you are. 🙂

DFW

(59,063 posts)
7. Yes, my wife and I are thrilled for them.
Tue Oct 7, 2025, 08:37 AM
8 hrs ago

From day one, we tried to expose them to as much outside culture as we could. We didn't have the time to take them on two week jaunts to Japan, but we went for more accessible places. Fortunately, Germany is a country with other lands close by. We regularly took them to the Netherlands, Belgium, and Switzerland. There were occasional visits to Spain and Denmark, and my younger daughter spent a semester of college in France, as well as a stay in Sierra Leone with the U.N. War Crimes Tribunal. That last was hardly a vacation, but it was certainly part of her education. They have also been to the Maldives and Israel, places I have not seen.

Growing up in Europe, especially with parents from two different countries and languages, gives children the chance (no guarantees!) that they will grow up aware and tolerant of other cultures, and that was certainly our goal. Whether the grandchildren actually develop an affinity with and for Japan is really secondary, as long as they retain a latent knowledge that there ARE such places out there, and that the vast majority of people on this earth are not like they are.

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