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debm55

(55,753 posts) Mon Dec 29, 2025, 12:28 PM Dec 29

I missed you folks. Got some rest from the tension that was around me. Love you all. Deb.

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I missed you folks. Got some rest from the tension that was around me. Love you all. Deb. (Original Post) debm55 Dec 29 OP

❤️ underpants Dec 29 #1

Thank you very much, underpants. Between my husband's cancer and the constant continual crap from my family. I needed debm55 Dec 29 #3

Welcome back. You are always a great addition to this forum. Walleye Dec 29 #2

Thank you very much, Walleye. debm55 Dec 29 #4

Deb you have such a sweet way of making mucifer Dec 29 #5

Thank you very much. mucifer. debm55 Dec 29 #6

Welcome back, debm55! MIButterfly Dec 29 #7

Thank you very much. MIButterfly. Missed you too. debm55 Dec 29 #10

Great to have you back, debm55. It's just not the same here without you. Borogove Dec 29 #8

Thank you very much my friend.Borogove. debm55 Dec 29 #11

Everybody needs down time.. Permanut Dec 29 #9

Thank you very much, Permanut. I am glad to be back. debm55 Dec 29 #12

I am so glad you took some time for yourself Grim Chieftain Dec 29 #13

Thank you very much, Grim Chieftain. for your kind words. debm55 Dec 29 #15

Good to have you back. boonecreek Dec 29 #14

Thank you boonecreek. I am glad to be back --refreshed. debm55 Dec 29 #16

I'll just simply say..... chowder66 Dec 29 #17

Thank you very much, chowder66. I'm glad to be back with you DUers. debm55 Dec 29 #18

Glad You're Back ProfessorGAC Dec 29 #19

Thank you so much, ProfessorGAC. I have learned a lesson that I am loved by my family at my house and here at DU, if not debm55 Dec 29 #20

Keep That Positive Thought ProfessorGAC Dec 29 #21

Please let us know how we could be of justaprogressive Dec 30 #22

underpants

(194,918 posts)

1. ❤️

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 12:28 PM

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debm55

(55,753 posts)

3. Thank you very much, underpants. Between my husband's cancer and the constant continual crap from my family. I needed

Reply to underpants (Reply #1)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 12:37 PM

Dec 29

some me time to get it together.Love you, underpants.

Walleye

(43,819 posts)

2. Welcome back. You are always a great addition to this forum.

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 12:29 PM

Dec 29

debm55

(55,753 posts)

4. Thank you very much, Walleye.

Reply to Walleye (Reply #2)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 12:38 PM

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mucifer

(25,526 posts)

5. Deb you have such a sweet way of making

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 12:56 PM

Dec 29

Everyone feel special 🥰

Take good care of yourself!

debm55

(55,753 posts)

6. Thank you very much. mucifer.

Reply to mucifer (Reply #5)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 12:58 PM

Dec 29

MIButterfly

(2,080 posts)

7. Welcome back, debm55!

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 01:09 PM

Dec 29

I hope you're feeling better. We missed you too! You're such a bright light here.

Love you right back,
MIButterfly

debm55

(55,753 posts)

10. Thank you very much. MIButterfly. Missed you too.

Reply to MIButterfly (Reply #7)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 01:43 PM

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Borogove

(525 posts)

8. Great to have you back, debm55. It's just not the same here without you.

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Mon Dec 29, 2025, 01:24 PM

Dec 29

debm55

(55,753 posts)

11. Thank you very much my friend.Borogove.

Reply to Borogove (Reply #8)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 01:44 PM

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Permanut

(7,993 posts)

9. Everybody needs down time..

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 01:39 PM

Dec 29

Welcome back!

debm55

(55,753 posts)

12. Thank you very much, Permanut. I am glad to be back.

Reply to Permanut (Reply #9)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 01:46 PM

Dec 29

Grim Chieftain

(1,244 posts)

13. I am so glad you took some time for yourself

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 03:48 PM

Dec 29

The holiday season can be quite challenging - trust me, I know.

Many hugs and warmest wishes to you, Deb. It's good to have you back.

debm55

(55,753 posts)

15. Thank you very much, Grim Chieftain. for your kind words.

Reply to Grim Chieftain (Reply #13)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 03:58 PM

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boonecreek

(1,390 posts)

14. Good to have you back.

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 03:55 PM

Dec 29

Sometimes you just need to unwind.

debm55

(55,753 posts)

16. Thank you boonecreek. I am glad to be back --refreshed.

Reply to boonecreek (Reply #14)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 04:00 PM

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chowder66

(11,852 posts)

17. I'll just simply say.....

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 07:04 PM

Dec 29

YAAAAYYYYY!!!!!

debm55

(55,753 posts)

18. Thank you very much, chowder66. I'm glad to be back with you DUers.

Reply to chowder66 (Reply #17)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 07:07 PM

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ProfessorGAC

(75,852 posts)

19. Glad You're Back

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 07:50 PM

Dec 29

Hope things get better.

debm55

(55,753 posts)

20. Thank you so much, ProfessorGAC. I have learned a lesson that I am loved by my family at my house and here at DU, if not

Reply to ProfessorGAC (Reply #19)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 08:37 PM

Dec 29

not by my mother and siblings. My mother stated that she never loved me. I felt bad but after 70 years of looking for her love. I can forget about it. It was never in the cards. And it was not my fault . It was never in the cards. But I have my husband and son that love me.

ProfessorGAC

(75,852 posts)

21. Keep That Positive Thought

Reply to debm55 (Reply #20)

Mon Dec 29, 2025, 09:38 PM

Dec 29

My parents have both been gone a long time, but I didn't have those issues.
My wife had issues with her dad, but not to a severe degree.
So, we can't empathize with folks that have had such life stresses, but we certainly sympathize.
Take care.

justaprogressive

(6,300 posts)

22. Please let us know how we could be of

Reply to debm55 (Original post)

Tue Dec 30, 2025, 11:09 AM

Dec 30

support/assistance in your ongoing struggle...

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