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JMCKUSICK

(6,492 posts)
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 07:13 PM 21 hrs ago

This is so hugely important for me to say.



AT NO POINT THAT I CAN REMEMBER HAS A SINGLE DU MEMBER SAID ANYTHING MEAN, DISPIRITING, ACUSATORY, OR IN ANY OTHER WAY DEMEANED WHAT I'VE GONE THROUGH THESE LAST ALMOST 3 YEARS.

THAT IS THE GREATEST MIRACLE OF THEM ALL, BECAUSE IT'S STILL ONGOING.

YOU'VE TOUCHED ME A THOUSAND TIMES AND THEN SOME, AND TODAY, I FEEL YOU ALL TOUCH ME AT THE SAME TIME. MY GOD, HOW COULD I HAVE BEEN SO BLESSED, BECAUSE I CERTAINLY DIDN'T DESERVE THAT.

AS I REFLECT AND ANSWER SO MANY KIND WORDS YOU'VE SENT RECENTLY, PLEASE KNOW I'M SITTING HERE CRYING YET AGAIN AS IT DAWNS ON ME THAT I'VE RECEIVED A LIFETIMES WORTH OF GRACE IN THESE LAST TWO YEARS WITHOUT A SINGLE NEGATIVE WORD.

FOR THE UMPTEENTH TIME LATELY I AM MOVED TO THE CORE OF MY BEING.

THANK YOU

LOVE, JOHN MCKUSICK
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This is so hugely important for me to say. (Original Post) JMCKUSICK 21 hrs ago OP
We love you, John UpInArms 21 hrs ago #1
Thank you UpInArms, JMCKUSICK 17 hrs ago #19
🌼🌼🌼 blm 21 hrs ago #2
I'm so happy that you're now in a safe space. I'm sure the last three years have been utter hell. Lonestarblue 21 hrs ago #3
We all do it for each other. I've been lifted up by DU to a degree I will never be able to repay. We are greater ... marble falls 21 hrs ago #4
I agree Grim Chieftain 20 hrs ago #7
There was a point during my bladder cancer adventure I had no idea if I was going to live or die ... marble falls 18 hrs ago #18
Love you, John! Scrivener7 21 hrs ago #5
Back at ya Scrivener7 JMCKUSICK 16 hrs ago #20
Think chocolate gravy, John. calimary 21 hrs ago #6
Lol, that sounds too yummy Calimary, JMCKUSICK 16 hrs ago #21
We are with you, John Grim Chieftain 20 hrs ago #8
Yep some_of_us_are_sane 20 hrs ago #9
Lots of smooches every day for all three, JMCKUSICK 16 hrs ago #22
Congrats John jfz9580m 20 hrs ago #10
It's definitely a great group, thank God. JMCKUSICK 16 hrs ago #23
more hugs coming your way MackinacBridge 20 hrs ago #11
Thank you MackinacBridge, JMCKUSICK 16 hrs ago #24
This is who we/you all are - we love justcheckinin 19 hrs ago #12
it's a privilege mokeyz 19 hrs ago #13
Well, JM, it's only because we 💙 you! ColoringFool 19 hrs ago #14
That's one of the great things about this place. WinstonSmith4740 18 hrs ago #15
Oh my, now you have me crying PatSeg 18 hrs ago #16
And what an absolutely great commentary about this place John. You remind us all of why we are here, and why KPN 18 hrs ago #17
Love ya', John! Your posts are a gift of light and love. This incredible DU Family has strong arms to hold us and caring KitFox 14 hrs ago #25
You are part of the fabric of this community, JMCKUSICK.. Permanut 14 hrs ago #26
We all love you , John. Have a very safe trip.❤️ debm55 8 hrs ago #27
I'm truly happy it finally worked out for you!!! CaptainTruth 7 hrs ago #28
Please don't say you don't deserve it because you do! MIButterfly 5 hrs ago #29
🥰 seta1950 4 hrs ago #30
Love shouldn't have to be deserved bleedingulcers 2 hrs ago #31
John, we are here together because we share very positive values, in an age of "bash each other to hell". usonian 1 hr ago #32
How could anyone say something mean? cate94 7 min ago #33

JMCKUSICK

(6,492 posts)
19. Thank you UpInArms,
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 11:39 PM
17 hrs ago

I think what really dawned on me was how often you all did for me what I desire to do for others, make a moment count, make a moment special, as in meaningful. And hopefully, make it matter to another.

Lonestarblue

(13,551 posts)
3. I'm so happy that you're now in a safe space. I'm sure the last three years have been utter hell.
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 07:21 PM
21 hrs ago

marble falls

(72,422 posts)
4. We all do it for each other. I've been lifted up by DU to a degree I will never be able to repay. We are greater ...
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 07:24 PM
21 hrs ago

... than the sum of our parts and you are us, too.

Grim Chieftain

(1,936 posts)
7. I agree
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 08:11 PM
20 hrs ago

I don't know how I could have made it through the dark times without DU. Great people here.

marble falls

(72,422 posts)
18. There was a point during my bladder cancer adventure I had no idea if I was going to live or die ...
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 10:30 PM
18 hrs ago

... I considered quitting reading or learning new things because I didn't think it would have meaning if I was one foot on the platform, one foot on the train. I was afraid to ask the question, not because I was afraid of dying but because I would become irrelevant and a piece of trivia: just a vague distant memory.

DU came to my rescue. Seven years later, here I am. No small part of it because DU answered when I reached out. Bless you on your journey, too, brother! You know how to get in touch with me.

JMCKUSICK

(6,492 posts)
21. Lol, that sounds too yummy Calimary,
Fri May 1, 2026, 12:24 AM
16 hrs ago

You guys should, you're the heroes in this story.

Grim Chieftain

(1,936 posts)
8. We are with you, John
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 08:15 PM
20 hrs ago

I am so very, very glad things are working out for you,

Hugs to you friend.



some_of_us_are_sane

(3,447 posts)
9. Yep
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 08:50 PM
20 hrs ago
The 'sun also rises' my friend.............. turn your happy leaves toward the brightness. Glad to know ya, my friend (And give those kitties a smooch for me.)

jfz9580m

(17,600 posts)
10. Congrats John
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 08:50 PM
20 hrs ago

I didn’t really follow your path though I was keeping an eye out for a few other DUers who said they were facing economic hardship or other problems and don’t seem to post anymore: MLF (who I hope is not homeless), wandering harper, TSexile (she was about my age and seemed to have some similar issues) and Dennis Donovan.
Many others I think are just on at different hours.

DU has helped me psychologically. I was at the peak of my misanthropy 6 years ago when I came back and now I am, for me, back to the usual level

No..people here are nice. Good crowd..and nice and quarrelsome rather than those creepy, fawning bots .
There is something chilling about them. They remind me of this more than Gebru’s stochastic parrots:
https://intranet.royalholloway.ac.uk/english/documents/pdf/centrevictorianstudies/guildeaetext.pdf

I hope you have a decent time ahead.

MackinacBridge

(36 posts)
11. more hugs coming your way
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 08:54 PM
20 hrs ago


This place rocks, and what you regularly give of yourself is one of the reasons why. So very glad you are here, Friend.




justcheckinin

(18 posts)
12. This is who we/you all are - we love
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 09:02 PM
19 hrs ago

Democratic Underground is the soul of America; the people in this space care about one another. They share their gut feelings, their anger, their compassion and always make others feel welcome and unafraid to just be.
I have been coming here over 20 years. I post very little, but read all of you everyday. And so many days, I have needed this space to know I wasn't alone.
This is where the good Americans live. Thank you for the decades . Laura

mokeyz

(114 posts)
13. it's a privilege
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 09:35 PM
19 hrs ago

to help each other - love is the only reason we are on this planet - great good luck to you John.💙💛

WinstonSmith4740

(3,455 posts)
15. That's one of the great things about this place.
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 10:13 PM
18 hrs ago

We ALWAYS have each other's back. When I lost my husband 16 years ago, everyone was there for me. The caring and support here is unparalled, and it's a feeling that stays with you.

KPN

(17,475 posts)
17. And what an absolutely great commentary about this place John. You remind us all of why we are here, and why
Thu Apr 30, 2026, 10:18 PM
18 hrs ago

we are Democrats.

KitFox

(592 posts)
25. Love ya', John! Your posts are a gift of light and love. This incredible DU Family has strong arms to hold us and caring
Fri May 1, 2026, 02:10 AM
14 hrs ago

hearts to tend us. 🩷 Where would we be without this incredible bunch to help us understand and deal with what the hell is going on!!! We are so dang lucky. Every time I spot your name, John, it makes me so happy knowing that after such struggle and adversity, there really was light at the end of that tunnel for you. Your tender gratefulness is a blessing on all of us! 🩷😊

Permanut

(8,502 posts)
26. You are part of the fabric of this community, JMCKUSICK..
Fri May 1, 2026, 02:19 AM
14 hrs ago

Part of what makes DU what it is. Thanks for being here and sharing your journey.

MIButterfly

(3,029 posts)
29. Please don't say you don't deserve it because you do!
Fri May 1, 2026, 11:27 AM
5 hrs ago

You're an important part of our DU family. Don't ever forget that. Your kindness comes back to you, which is as it should be. We're all in this together.

usonian

(26,217 posts)
32. John, we are here together because we share very positive values, in an age of "bash each other to hell".
Fri May 1, 2026, 04:01 PM
1 hr ago

I posted back in May 2023:
Why I am a Democrat.
https://www.democraticunderground.com/100217954571

short version.

Because Democrats have compassion for others.

corrollaries:

• When every person

a. is guaranteed rights, opportunity, and equity,
b. can make a good living,
c. is respected,
then all benefit and the nation benefits.

• Government invests in its citizens.
• Labor and innovation create wealth.
• Productivity gains are shared with those who are less blessed than others.
• Government is by the people and for the people.
• The legal system protects rights, especially of minorities.

In short: equality, honor and fairness.

You can find the "other side of the coin" at the link, but we know them all too well, and let's move this country and world forward.

NOW GO FIX YOUR BROKEN KEYBOARD!
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