and most MJ stores are helpful.

She was using medical marijuana, but we are in a state now where it is not available. We had hoped to have a better quality of life here, but she has trouble doing anything. I'm working on trying to find a good time for a trip to the coast so we can get there and she can rest before trying some light activities.

I was surprised to learn it is being used along with chemo in some trials for triple negative breast cancer. It is only in trials and not fda approved. It has shone promise in inhibiting cancer cell growth.
I would talk to her oncologist in regards to this and not take her aunts word that it works.
Cancer sucks my son has been fighting acc cancer since 2016. He just had his third recurrence and was told there are no treatments available. Unfortunately chemo has no effect on his type of cancer.
Sending positive vibes your way.

follow any of the diet suggestions.

The best one we have come up with is to eat healthy lol. Protein, veggies and fruits. He trys to stay away from processed food and surgar. His cancer travels along his nerves, is microscopic and slow growing. That is why it is so difficult to treat. Many with acc survive 10 to 15 years after being diagnosed.
I would ask your wife's oncologist about those trials. Stay supportive for her but take her docs advice.

but do NOT take medical advice from anyone but medical professionals

Do a quick Google search for "IP-6 and breast cancer". Then discuss with your wife's physician.

a cult status around it and as far and I can tell there are people who will claim it can cure damn near anything (I have one as a patient).

I did a quick search and found the clinical trials but couldn't post the link. So many are dealing with different types of cancer that do not respond to chemo or radiation and are desperate for treatment that promise to relieve their pain. Unfortunately many are just quacks looking to make a buck.
I want to thank you for the laugh in regards to your disclaimer.

Check for trials of immuneunotherapy. Check to see if blood coagulates properly. It's a shame that the port was such a problem. Do the best to maintain proper weight. If you can find a good homeopathic doctor, they can help with supplements. NO IVERMECTINE.
ATTITUDE is important and daily breathing and physical exercise if it is possible. Wishing you the best from the bottom of my heart. I've been close to this before. It's tough but try to keep to the sunnyside, as it's been said. AVOID SUGAR.

related to the cancer not other causes. Now I'm trying to get in the game and keep her active and trying to help her control the lymphedema. I just bought her a new exercise machine, and an AC unit for the sunroom to give her exercise and more space in the house. If I had the money now, my goal is to recreate our yard like a mini botanical garden. I'm only about 100k short at the moment.

It is not about a $100K fancy garden.

It is about your devotion, love, support, time, active involvement in her health and treatment.
Connecting with her, spending quality time together. Helping her fight and heal if possible.

Asking questions for her, talking to medical providers, exploring options for her.
Small but important things like turning the sunroom into a healing and exercise spot for her.

She has descended into the severe illness nine circles of hell and needs as much help, support,
love that you can muster, and she needs to know you have her back and are in her corner.

qualify for FMLA, it would be a real financial burden if they start docking my pay. Even though I have to work extra hours anyway, they will claim it is my fault for not completing documentation during the day, even though I have to see 2-3 patients at a time as a Physical Therapist and their EMR is crappy and slow.
The garden is to give her a peaceful place and I keep trying to find small things to make her smile and enjoy life. I do give her all the time I can.