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XanaDUer2

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Good God. Stay far away from her emotionally and otherwise. She sounds uber-toxic CousinIT Jan 2025 #1

I don't do threats XanaDUer2 Jan 2025 #2

Karma caught her? CousinIT Jan 2025 #3

Maybe karma... XanaDUer2 Jan 2025 #4

You absolutely should. No contact. Cut her off. CousinIT Jan 2025 #5

Im the dipshit who shared some hurt XanaDUer2 Jan 2025 #6

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Spaminess! marble falls Jan 2025 #8

What was that?! XanaDUer2 Jan 2025 #9

I forget. Something from Asia, I think. Gambling? Sorry! marble falls Jan 2025 #11

Lol ok XanaDUer2 Jan 2025 #12

Now shes poking me on fb XanaDUer2 Jan 2025 #10

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CousinIT

(12,753 posts)

1. Good God. Stay far away from her emotionally and otherwise. She sounds uber-toxic

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Thu Jan 2, 2025, 01:43 PM

Jan 2025

Seriously. She's dangerous to you. Consider her poison ivy or a poisonous snake and stay away.

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XanaDUer2

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2. I don't do threats

Reply to CousinIT (Reply #1)

Thu Jan 2, 2025, 01:50 PM

Jan 2025

She said shed send me my posts directed at her and my cousin.. I've been surrounded by insanity so long it was becoming normalized.

Her super expensive suv suddenly caught on fire on the highway and all her "good jewelry" happened to burn up. Auto was a total loss. Right

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CousinIT

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3. Karma caught her?

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Thu Jan 2, 2025, 02:33 PM

Jan 2025

Good enough. I hope you can find healthier friends and "sisters" than she is.

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XanaDUer2

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4. Maybe karma...

Reply to CousinIT (Reply #3)

Thu Jan 2, 2025, 02:38 PM

Jan 2025

When she subtly threatened me with the screenshots, i decided for 2025 its time to end the abuse.

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CousinIT

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5. You absolutely should. No contact. Cut her off.

Reply to XanaDUer2 (Reply #4)

Thu Jan 2, 2025, 02:58 PM

Jan 2025

In every way.

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XanaDUer2

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6. Im the dipshit who shared some hurt

Reply to CousinIT (Reply #5)

Thu Jan 2, 2025, 03:06 PM

Jan 2025

FAIK, she's already said something since my relationship w my cousin is now strained. Evil bitch.

She doesn't know I know she has two financial judgements against her. One for ripping off tuition and the other for not paying rent.

I call this criminal mentality.

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marble falls

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8. Spaminess!

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XanaDUer2

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9. What was that?!

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marble falls

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11. I forget. Something from Asia, I think. Gambling? Sorry!

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Fri Jan 3, 2025, 05:14 PM

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XanaDUer2

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12. Lol ok

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XanaDUer2

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10. Now shes poking me on fb

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Fri Jan 3, 2025, 01:06 PM

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GP6971

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16. Welcome to DU.

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Fri Aug 15, 2025, 11:42 PM

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XanaDUer2

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18. This post keeps attracting

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Sat Aug 16, 2025, 08:15 AM

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Ppl who keep getting messages removed. WTF?

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