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Jilly_in_VA

(11,694 posts)
Sat Oct 22, 2022, 11:55 AM Oct 2022

Just buried our Vicky girl

We found a place for her down by the holly tree where she used to hang out, taking her ease and possibly lying in wait for the errant rodent. I placed her so that she will face the rising sun and put a toy and a tiny cross in with her, and asked the Creator to accept Her servant Vicky, a shy, gentle friend and good mouser, into Her keeping until I see her again at Rainbow Bridge. Now I'm crying again, dammit.

I'd always thought that Winnie, with her tortietude and loud mouth, was the "boss cat" of our two, but it seems not so. it must have been a big sister-little sister dynamic, besides the fact that Vicky, in the dark, was apparently Winnie's seeing-eye cat, running a few steps ahead of her, then waiting for her to catch up while they walked shoulder to shoulder for a bit. Now Winnie has melted into the woods back of the house and I only catch glimpses of her on the back door cam. How am I supposed to lure her into the house at night when she does this? She doesn't even come around for evening feeds any more.

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Just buried our Vicky girl (Original Post) Jilly_in_VA Oct 2022 OP
So sorry for your loss. I believe animals grieve as well as people. It takes time for them, as well Frustratedlady Oct 2022 #1
+1 CountAllVotes Oct 2022 #3
Of course they do. SheltieLover Oct 2022 #6
Maybe some new blankets will help CountAllVotes Oct 2022 #2
So sorry to hear this, Jilly Bayard Oct 2022 #4
This is being complicated Jilly_in_VA Oct 2022 #5
One of our semi-ferals, a grey tabby tomcat, absolutely hates the new male SlimJimmy Oct 2022 #11
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Oct 2022 #7
I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Oct 2022 #8
Sorry about your sweet kitty, losing them is such a heartbreak. Wingus Dingus Oct 2022 #9
She's in a happy place.... Karadeniz Oct 2022 #10

Frustratedlady

(16,254 posts)
1. So sorry for your loss. I believe animals grieve as well as people. It takes time for them, as well
Sat Oct 22, 2022, 12:01 PM
Oct 2022

CountAllVotes

(21,445 posts)
2. Maybe some new blankets will help
Sat Oct 22, 2022, 12:01 PM
Oct 2022

See my thread that I just posted entitled "Lonely kitty".

It sounds like what I've been going through for 5+ long months since my husband died.

If you'd like to know who I got these from, let me know!

Maybe you could pick up a few of them and place them in areas where Vicky used to go?

I'm so sad to read this and my condolences on your special kitty!

Take care Jilly!



Bayard

(24,444 posts)
4. So sorry to hear this, Jilly
Sat Oct 22, 2022, 12:03 PM
Oct 2022

Losing our fur kids is so hard.

Keep working on Winnie. She's no doubt confused that her friend is not there.

Jilly_in_VA

(11,694 posts)
5. This is being complicated
Sat Oct 22, 2022, 12:08 PM
Oct 2022

by the fact that there is a black and white cat trying to muscle in on our territory. Winnie absolutely HATES him and they've had words in the driveway previously. (Pretty sure it's a him, about 70% of tuxie cats are boys.) He comes around and eats her food and just generally squats in the area, but I've been unable to catch him to run him off.

SlimJimmy

(3,251 posts)
11. One of our semi-ferals, a grey tabby tomcat, absolutely hates the new male
Sat Oct 22, 2022, 05:41 PM
Oct 2022

tuxedo that's trying to claim some of his territory. They fight and howl at all hours sometimes. Bottom line, though, grey tabby declared the winner and tuxedo has taken the number two spot. I'm hoping that's what happens with Winnie and your intruding tux.

And of course, I am sorry for your loss. Our fur babies are family and it always takes a while to process the grief. I'm sure it's the same with Winnie.

SheltieLover

(64,202 posts)
7. Deepest condolences
Sat Oct 22, 2022, 12:11 PM
Oct 2022

Please keep trying with Winnie. She is likely grieving and sometimes other species like to go off on their own for a while, perhaps to process things.

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