Bereavement
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(4,405 posts)Hugs to you and your family.
SoCalDavidS
(10,599 posts)brer cat
(27,226 posts)Take the time you need, and be good to yourself.
madaboutharry
(42,020 posts)May your brothers memory be a blessing.
littlemissmartypants
(30,897 posts)I hope you find comfort in the happy memories he left behind. Stay strong.
❤
redwitch
(15,212 posts)XanaDUer2
(15,769 posts)Ocelot II
(128,305 posts)lamp_shade
(15,321 posts)Maraya1969
(23,373 posts)JohnSJ
(98,883 posts)applegrove
(129,295 posts)LakeArenal
(29,949 posts)Atticus
(15,124 posts)UpInArms
(53,730 posts)And your heartache
GPV
(73,352 posts)lucca18
(1,431 posts)polmaven
(9,463 posts)and your entire family.
TygrBright
(21,261 posts)wendyb-NC
(4,528 posts)That's such a sad loss. My heart goes out to you and the circle of loved ones who grieve with you. My sincere condolences to you, Muriel.
Lonestarblue
(13,125 posts)Wishing peace for you and your family.
Omaha Steve
(107,799 posts)Dreampuff
(778 posts)Karadeniz
(24,678 posts)In crowds.
ancianita
(42,578 posts)KT2000
(21,823 posts)Don't know what i would do if I lost my brother so I am so sorry for your loss.
jmbar2
(7,453 posts)Your DU family will be here for you. Please take care of yourself.
pazzyanne
(6,735 posts)My heart goes out to you, and prayers are in the wind on thier way to you. Take care of you.
ybbor
(1,687 posts)barbtries
(30,978 posts)take all the time you need. If you want to share about him and your loss, there is a Bereavement topic in "support groups" - in case you didn't already know.
Gore1FL
(22,746 posts)Moebym
(1,033 posts)yardwork
(68,583 posts)Murphyb849
(612 posts)rebe303
(147 posts)Sorry for your loss.
rebe303
(147 posts)Sorry for your loss.
snowybirdie
(6,469 posts)We lost my sister last week. It hurts, I know. Peace!
Fla Dem
(27,302 posts)Paper Roses
(7,596 posts)They say things will get better. My thoughts: No they don't. Keep your good memories in your heart and remember the good times.
beveeheart
(1,509 posts)NNadir
(36,945 posts)irisblue
(36,557 posts)Piasladic
(1,171 posts)I am very sorry for your loss.
gademocrat7
(11,731 posts)on the loss of your brother. Take care.
louslobbs
(3,416 posts)Please take care of yourself ❤️
3catwoman3
(28,144 posts)...at 23 back in 1978 was that she found it comforting rather than distressing when people shared memories of him. It helped her some to know that he was not forgotten.
A hug from afar.
pnwmom
(110,151 posts)babylonsister
(172,484 posts)kairos12
(13,418 posts)MuseRider
(35,033 posts)Condolences to you. May your memories give you comfort, if not now then later. Get through this as best as you can then sort it out as you go along, just be easy on yourself and do what you can only when you can. Many warm hugs.
davsand
(13,441 posts)Deepest sympathies to you and your family in this time.
Laura
zeusdogmom
(1,116 posts)Brothers are special people.
peggysue2
(12,310 posts)Losing a sibling is very rough.
niyad
(128,542 posts)light. Here if you need us.
catbyte
(38,291 posts)c-rational
(3,110 posts)CaptainTruth
(8,000 posts)sinkingfeeling
(56,780 posts)turbinetree
(26,771 posts)DFW
(59,363 posts)I'm sorry the real world hit you with such a cruel reason for a leave of absence.
mzmolly
(52,544 posts)to you and your loved ones.
Pepsidog
(6,350 posts)nolabear
(43,838 posts)Hekate
(100,129 posts)rustysgurl
(1,093 posts)Please take the time to care for yourself during this difficult time.
mahina
(20,153 posts)Wishing you comfort. So sorry to read this.
lillypaddle
(9,606 posts)and that of your family. Take care of yourself.
ProudMNDemocrat
(20,391 posts)orleans
(36,538 posts)NurseJackie
(42,862 posts)FakeNoose
(39,495 posts)
May he rest in peace. May you find contentment in grieving with your loved ones.
SammyWinstonJack
(44,308 posts)Dave in VA
(2,242 posts)Hiawatha Pete
(2,068 posts)orangecrush
(27,582 posts)And hope to see you again when you are ready.
Sorry for your loss.
Moostache
(10,915 posts)These have been trying times for everyone and the loss of a loved one is a trauma all its own. May your grief be shortened by good memories long.
The Polack MSgt
(13,682 posts)eilen
(4,955 posts)My brother was the closest person who knew me the best, the longest of anyone that was alive-- which means I am the only one who carries the earliest memories of his life. He was my fellow traveler, the one who survived the 1970s and 1980s with me. We have a younger sister but she had a very different experience than we did. I love my sister, don't get me wrong but me and my brother... we were there before her. So him exiting without warning was very traumatic. I still am not over it. It helps in a way that he lived in a different state and I can imagine him still there but the not communicating is what makes me very sad still, years later. I help out his grandchild and that helps a little. So I get you.
SheltieLover
(75,075 posts)bdamomma
(69,110 posts)you and your family
Progressive Jones
(6,011 posts)sdfernando
(5,973 posts)Take all the time you need to grieve in time thoughts of your brother will bring a smile.
Alliepoo
(2,751 posts)Please accept my condolences. Its a very hard thing to lose your brother. Wishing you and your family peace.
BlueMTexpat
(15,645 posts)to you and your family!
MustLoveBeagles
(13,827 posts)Leith
(7,864 posts)cate94
(3,026 posts)susanr516
(1,495 posts)My condolences to his family and friends.
oasis
(53,198 posts)momta
(4,188 posts)betsuni
(28,547 posts)lunatica
(53,410 posts)Losing a sibling is one of the hardest ones! Its just not supposed to happen!
majdrfrtim
(340 posts)Every new grief has the ability to reawaken any/every old grief.
Grief is not a mental illness even though it sure as hell can *feel* like one (probably for the above reason).
Blessings upon you and your family.
LetMyPeopleVote
(172,660 posts)LastLiberal in PalmSprings
(13,281 posts)Laurelin
(750 posts)Take care of yourself.
Granny M
(1,398 posts)So sorry for your loss, Murielm
malaise
(291,128 posts)PCIntern
(27,804 posts)May his memory always be for a blessing.
George II
(67,782 posts)MiHale
(12,360 posts)True Blue American
(18,579 posts)Our thoughts are with you in your loss.
seta1950
(962 posts)sheshe2
(94,878 posts)Mr. Scorpio
(73,761 posts)mountain grammy
(28,443 posts)My heart goes out to you.
pandr32
(13,631 posts)We are here whenever you feel like some DU love.
wryter2000
(47,940 posts)I love my brother dearly. I can only imagine how you're feeling.
area51
(12,527 posts)Jilly_in_VA
(13,517 posts)Losing a sib has to be hard. Hugs and prayers.
Cha
(315,831 posts)it is.
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Unknown Beatle
(2,691 posts)All I can say is I'm so sorry.
No Vested Interest
(5,272 posts)Dark n Stormy Knight
(10,477 posts)May you find strength, healing, and eventually a return of joy.