I've also been slow to put things in order, in part because of procrastination and in part because I thought if I didin't then maybe the worst wouldn't happen.

Eventually I realized I had to get it together. But I will go easier knowing I'm not leaving a legal mess for my family to pick through.

face us, I think we'll all feel better if a portion of things have been put into place, perhaps the more mundane and less personal elements.

It is a difficult task to take on all at once.

You are a good person in wanting to leave things less chaotic for your family, not an easy task for sure.