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somsai

(147 posts)
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:01 PM May 2025

What can we do to win back the male voter?

The good news is that there are a lot more women voters 54% to 46% men. The bad news is that how men and women vote has widened to a 13 point gap, in 2020 it was only an 8 point gap. The votes of both men and women have shifted rightwards in all demographics except white women, and with white women we've made gains so small as to register as 0. This according to the recently released Catalist numbers as reported in the liberal patriot.

https://www.liberalpatriot.com/p/do-democrats-know-how-to-win-back

One of the top quandaries for the Democratic Party following the 2024 election is how to bounce back with male voters. Some of the largest rightward shifts last year came from men—specifically, young and minority men. New data from the Democratic firm Catalist showed that while the party’s vote share among men overall fell by five points compared to 2020, the erosion of support was larger among Asian (six points), black (eight points), and Hispanic (twelve points) men.

This followed more than a decade of sustained rightward movement among all three non-white groups of male voters.


All this is not a surprise. Anyone who has watched the losses year over year could see this coming. This election we lost Hispanic men. In 2012 we had Asian men by 40 points, this year we had them by 10 points. Black men shifted 34 points. Small demographics I understand, HIspanic men are only 4% of voters, Black men are another 4%, Asians 2%, but we have lost ground with women also, though not as pronounced. The decrease is steady, every single year less.

Time to make a bigger tent. I disagree with some on issues, and I don't like every candidate, but if they vote Democratic, we can pass legislation to my liking.

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What can we do to win back the male voter? (Original Post) somsai May 2025 OP
Run a white, middle-aged, protestant, straight man. I don't like it, but we need to face Scrivener7 May 2025 #1
I agree. Haggard Celine May 2025 #4
The percent of white male vote hasn't shifted as dramatically somsai May 2025 #7
Doesn't matter. A white, male, protestant, middle-aged, straight man will bring them back. Scrivener7 May 2025 #8
Yup SheltieLover Aug 9 #27
Chris Murphy, our Dem Senator from CT, fits the bill! CTyankee May 2025 #14
I totally agree Scrivener7 Jun 2025 #18
IMO, he is handsome/nice as opposed to what we have now. But that is not the question. CTyankee Jun 2025 #19
Needs to be a Governor. Executive. Beshear or Newsome. underpants Aug 9 #28
Sad but true. I wish it wasn't but for now... yourout Aug 9 #26
I think that US culture values and promotes markodochartaigh May 2025 #2
I think you're on to something there somsai May 2025 #13
Show them a different boogie man, perhaps Raven123 May 2025 #3
Dems have been accused of lacking marking moxie. Gum Logger May 2025 #16
I struggled to understand the campaign Raven123 May 2025 #17
We shudda known, but we (or really I shudda) the moment Biden had his "moment" in the debate where he went off track. CTyankee Jun 2025 #21
Stop treating young black men as all gangsters. Stop shooting them in the streets. Simple little things. marble falls May 2025 #5
um Skittles Aug 8 #24
With the Media that seems to paste a dark reality, whenever the Democrats are in front and center.... chouchou May 2025 #6
How about male and female voters? Ponietz May 2025 #9
There's a lot of polling showing non voters favored Trump somsai May 2025 #11
Cites please Ponietz May 2025 #12
https://www.natesilver.net/p/turnout-didnt-cost-kamala-harris somsai May 2025 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author usonian May 2025 #10
Well, I produced one... CTyankee Jun 2025 #20
Well, we could wait until djt orders ICE to round them up and take them to pick allegorical oracle Aug 6 #22
run... myohmy2 Aug 7 #23
Campaign on policies and laws that will refill their wallets. GoodRaisin Aug 9 #25
Heard Tuesday JustAnotherGen Aug 14 #33
Someone who looks like he came from their community or at least someone no_hypocrisy Aug 9 #29
Be dumber than Trump so it would seem. Turbineguy Aug 9 #30
Free pot, booze or steak for life, pick one? Brainfodder Aug 11 #31
Have you thought to ask Black Men? JustAnotherGen Aug 14 #32
Sounds Republicanish.... LeftInTX Aug 18 #34
The fastest growing population JustAnotherGen Aug 18 #35

Scrivener7

(57,020 posts)
1. Run a white, middle-aged, protestant, straight man. I don't like it, but we need to face
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:08 PM
May 2025

the fact that a lot of the sexism and bigotry are coming from inside the house.

There's no need for this hand wringing over policies, though a populist platform would be nice. But it wouldn't bring back the Biden voters who refused to vote for Harris.

A white, middle-aged, protestant, straight man would do that.

Haggard Celine

(17,437 posts)
4. I agree.
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:20 PM
May 2025

I'm already thinking about Tim Walz. He's one that checks all the boxes. Don't forget that he's a former coach as well. That'll be good enough for some.

somsai

(147 posts)
7. The percent of white male vote hasn't shifted as dramatically
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:30 PM
May 2025

7 points down this time, and only 5 points since Obama, very little compared to Black men 16 points this time and 34 points since Obama. Many say that race is no longer a determinant as much as class.

I think my Australian Shepherd could beat Trump. I also think Harris did a lot better than many of our white male candidates would have done. Working class Hispanics are 7% of the voting population, same with the Black working class. Small but steady shifts by minorities over a long period of time are disconcerting .

Scrivener7

(57,020 posts)
8. Doesn't matter. A white, male, protestant, middle-aged, straight man will bring them back.
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:35 PM
May 2025

CTyankee

(66,969 posts)
14. Chris Murphy, our Dem Senator from CT, fits the bill!
Sat May 31, 2025, 07:23 AM
May 2025

He's a WASP, but not a Yalie! I think he'd be great.

CTyankee

(66,969 posts)
19. IMO, he is handsome/nice as opposed to what we have now. But that is not the question.
Sun Jun 1, 2025, 09:16 AM
Jun 2025

The question is Can he Win? Up against a photo of, say, Vance, Murphy is a nice poster contrast. It becomes "nice white guy" compared to "kinda yucky white guy." The repukes will have to go with: "who's the meanest SOB to deal with the bad guys," as defined by race mostly.

I am in a kind of despair as I write this post...

underpants

(192,643 posts)
28. Needs to be a Governor. Executive. Beshear or Newsome.
Sat Aug 9, 2025, 06:01 PM
Aug 9

The last two Senators elected as POTUS were Obama…..and JFK.

Biden had most recently been VP.

markodochartaigh

(3,799 posts)
2. I think that US culture values and promotes
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:16 PM
May 2025

toxic masculinity instead of nurturing masculinity. Nurturing masculinity may need a society in which men who want to nurture their family have a reasonable expectation to succeed. It may be very difficult to promote the ideal of the family man in a culture which is already cut-throat and rapidly imploding.

Maybe Democratic leadership could develop a zeitgeist opposed to the Republican rugged individual, winner take all zeitgeist. Show that Democratic presidents have presided over far more job creation. Show that Democratic states help men to take care of their families.

somsai

(147 posts)
13. I think you're on to something there
Fri May 30, 2025, 08:22 PM
May 2025

Studies show that a father in the house leads to much better outcomes for kids. A big part of being a man is providing for your family. Men will take jobs that cause early death if it means a secure life for their family. Think coal mines, drill rigs, logging, fishing, etc. Since covid job growth for the native born has been flat according to the St Louis Fed. Jobs don't pay enough to support a family.

I just read on Next Door that we've a new business opening up in town that should bring 100 jobs. Fast food. If the people working there worked 40 hours every week they'd make between $27K and $52K. Of course in fast food they cut your hours so you aren't full time, so it really pays $20K or best case $40K. None of those jobs can support a family. Can't buy a house, can't pay the doctor, not middle class at all.

The mine in the Iron Range in MN that just had a lay off paid $100K with overtime.

We've seen some drastic shocks to our economy of late. Huge tariffs, big layoffs in government. Call me a socialist but I think it's time to triple the min wage, not gradually but incrementally a dollar every two weeks. I used to have a payroll, I signed the front of the check. With computers it's extremely easy to change the numbers.

Raven123

(6,989 posts)
3. Show them a different boogie man, perhaps
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:19 PM
May 2025

The GOP has succeeded in branding so many people as boogie men that male voters have their pick. Think women, immigrants, POC, LGBT etc..

Come up with a common boogie man that many can easily understand and harp on it relentlessly. Obviously, I think that is what Bernie Sanders has done so well - the large corporations.

Dems might need to make the issue more granular to specific communities to show how they have been affected. For example, big agriculture has decimated family farms. Take the message to those areas and hammer it home.

Just my 2 cents.


Gum Logger

(212 posts)
16. Dems have been accused of lacking marking moxie.
Sat May 31, 2025, 10:33 AM
May 2025

The Harris Campaign spent a billion and a half dollars. I am waiting for the audit to revel the effectiveness of that spending

Raven123

(6,989 posts)
17. I struggled to understand the campaign
Sat May 31, 2025, 12:15 PM
May 2025

I figured the managers knew something I didn’t. Not Harris’ fault. She had to ramp up quickly and tapped into Obama’s campaign manager with the legitimate argument that his experience and success would benefit her. The similarities between Obama’s campaign and Harris’ campaign seemed obvious to me, but political climate is drastically different.

CTyankee

(66,969 posts)
21. We shudda known, but we (or really I shudda) the moment Biden had his "moment" in the debate where he went off track.
Sat Jun 7, 2025, 09:13 AM
Jun 2025

I was stunned. I couldn't believe it. I still don't know how this could have happened.

marble falls

(67,980 posts)
5. Stop treating young black men as all gangsters. Stop shooting them in the streets. Simple little things.
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:26 PM
May 2025

chouchou

(2,293 posts)
6. With the Media that seems to paste a dark reality, whenever the Democrats are in front and center....
Fri May 30, 2025, 05:26 PM
May 2025

..plus Fox News outright throws a tractor-trailer crammed full of bullshit and lies, I doubt much is going to change.
Face it. Our country is full of citizens that usually don't know What-the-hell is going on..most of the time.
Anybody that wants to argue, just say: :Who' is the President and who controls the House and the Senate?

The filthy rich are in control.

somsai

(147 posts)
11. There's a lot of polling showing non voters favored Trump
Fri May 30, 2025, 07:59 PM
May 2025

more than voters, and that they would have boosted Trump's percent to over 5. I don't want to even think if it might have caused some congressional seats to go south. We do pretty well in low turnout elections, midterms and special elections. Women, white, and wealthier, are all demographics that vote more reliably.

somsai

(147 posts)
15. https://www.natesilver.net/p/turnout-didnt-cost-kamala-harris
Sat May 31, 2025, 10:20 AM
May 2025

What we used to do, to tip the balance, is.....

We have a long history of mail in, even Republicans agitated when some looked to take it away, so we get a ton of mail ins. As a mail in is received that voter is listed as having sent a valid ballot. Ballots aren't opened and counted until election day, but,,, by knowing the registration and identity of people who did mail them in, we'd go knock on the doors of Democrats who hadn't yet voted. In my precinct we contacted every single Democratic voter, some multiple times.

Another problem is vote switchers. Reluctant voters switch more than others. Also more and more people are registering Independent to avoid the polarization.

Response to somsai (Original post)

CTyankee

(66,969 posts)
20. Well, I produced one...
Mon Jun 2, 2025, 02:44 PM
Jun 2025

He saw me radicalized by the Vietnam War starting when he was 3 years old. He says he remembers me going on marches and I had a few posters up on the walls. He's not a radical but he is a prosecutor with a good sense of what is right. And my two daughters were similarly raised and married two liberal guys.

allegorical oracle

(5,660 posts)
22. Well, we could wait until djt orders ICE to round them up and take them to pick
Wed Aug 6, 2025, 09:32 AM
Aug 6

crops and milk cows.

Seriously believe tsf would consider doing that.

myohmy2

(3,654 posts)
23. run...
Thu Aug 7, 2025, 05:24 PM
Aug 7

Last edited Thu Aug 7, 2025, 05:59 PM - Edit history (1)

...naked female candidates...

...don't give me a hide, it was a joke...

...I think that's part of it but we have to shake this 'Party of/for Minorities" image the pukes cultivate and make stick...

...we start by going back to FDR and rebuild the Party not on social groups but on Class Warfare...

...within our 'Class' there will be many social/ethnic groups but all will unite on economic issues...to that end, we need a modern-day philosophy of Socialism/Progressivism with programs that are understandable and will work in raising the living standards of the poor, working-class and middle-classes...

...we can't do that if we're constantly beholding to and in the pocket of capital...we must fund ourselves...

...most will agree, the wealthy have gotten too wealthy...it's now time for corrective measures and make capital pay to play...

...hang in there, our day is coming...

GoodRaisin

(10,479 posts)
25. Campaign on policies and laws that will refill their wallets.
Sat Aug 9, 2025, 05:42 PM
Aug 9

End tariffs day 1
Adopt real job creation policies
Reverse the ACA subsidy cuts
Reverse BBB Medicaid cuts
Provide tax cuts for poor and middle class
Rescind tax cuts for the rich
Bring back 70% tax brackets
Tax wealth
Strengthen Social Security and Medicare

JustAnotherGen

(36,879 posts)
33. Heard Tuesday
Thu Aug 14, 2025, 02:43 PM
Aug 14

Guns, Lowered Government Involvement in their Personal Business, Far Taxation.

They want guns in Northern and Central NJ. They want to be able to protect their families.

no_hypocrisy

(52,924 posts)
29. Someone who looks like he came from their community or at least someone
Sat Aug 9, 2025, 07:49 PM
Aug 9

who doesn't look like a country club WASP.

Sorry, but sexism exists for the time being in African-American communities despite many families are matriarchal.

I was thinking of another Obama or NYC democratic mayoral candidate Zohran Mamdani. The latter was born in Uganda to an Indian family (yet he's Muslim, not Hindu), and is young (34). He talks about how hard it is for non-white communities to have decent jobs, decent homes, decent food.

JustAnotherGen

(36,879 posts)
32. Have you thought to ask Black Men?
Thu Aug 14, 2025, 02:42 PM
Aug 14

Black Americans in general are ignored unless it's election time.
Like seriously - we are ignored.

Winning issues I see in NJ -
Gun Rights
Privacy - Government minding its own business.
Fair Taxation

I was at an NAACP meeting Tuesday evening in NJ - The non-members were very clear in their questions and concerns in NJ. They are extremely resentful of their tax dollars going out of state They want to protect their families.

JustAnotherGen

(36,879 posts)
35. The fastest growing population
Mon Aug 18, 2025, 05:45 PM
Aug 18

Of gun ownership is among Black Americans - been trending since 2020.

Money Going out of state - Yeah. We resent that Black Working Class New Jerseyans have to hand over our money to people who call us N-Bombs in Arkansas and West VA. They are just spending it on meth anyways.

Black Democratic members in Hunterdon County NJ are fed up with heroin addicts overdosing like it's something new.

Now that it's Opioids and white folks we have to Molly coddle them. Im 52. Im old enough to remember crack.and how when it was Black folks it was a character issue.

Privacy - Excuse me. When did my party start wanting the government in our bedrooms?

So tell me - what part is Republican? The part where working class Black folks in NJ see their state get the least back from Fed Gov?

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