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In reply to the discussion: Since Charlie Kirk was murdered are we supposed to pretend [View all]ShazzieB
(21,630 posts)109. I agree with this, 100%.
Especially this:
Don't ask trauma victims to have empathy for the person/s inflicting trauma or police how people should process their trauma.
To that, I would add: Don't try to tell anyone how they "should" feel, about anything, ever.
This is something I feel VERY strongly about. Nothing pisses me off more than someone telling me or anyone else that we're not feeling the "right" feels. No one has tried to tell me how I "should" feel about Kirk's death, at least not yet, but the first person who tries will get an earful from me -- or maybe I should say a screenful!

I barely knew who Charlie Kirk was when he was alive. I'd heard the name and read a few vile sounding quotes from him here at DU, but that's the extent of it. I've been learning a little more since the shooting, but none of it makes him any less of a complete stranger to me. There's no way I'm going to "mourn his loss," because his death is not a personal loss to me.
Lastly (and this may be a bit more controversial to some), while I don't approve of murder in principle, i don't necessarily feel exactly the same way about every individual death. Different people have different impacts on those around them and on the world at large, and to me it seems reasonable to react to someone's death in accordance with the kind of impact they had during their lifetime. I will leave it to the reader to draw their own conclusions about Kirk's impact and feel whatever way they feel about things, and ask others to return the favor. That is all.
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How about you pull up those quotes and then post the equivalent comments you found here?
58Sunliner
Sep 11
#80
I will repeat what I said in other threads. I wish a better world for his kids than he wished for them.
tulipsandroses
Sep 10
#8
Wrong site. The people you refer to are Republicons. You can't find a single one here on DU.
Bernardo de La Paz
Sep 10
#9
Yeah, but there's a shitload of "We Must Be NICE Democrats" scolding going on, here.
Paladin
Sep 11
#93
You got me to look it up (not hard). Killed by his own party member angry he was kicked out. . . . . nt
Bernardo de La Paz
Sep 10
#64
... and "Patriotism is the first refuge of the scoundrel" -- Ambrose Bierce correcting Johnson or was it Boswell. . . nt
Bernardo de La Paz
Sep 10
#66
I hope that the pearl-clutchers are ready for the world-shaking celebrations when Trump finally dies
Orrex
Sep 10
#24
Longdog75...We will try to express your concerns when you meet your demise by their hands.
3rdGenAntifa
Sep 10
#27
And when Democrats, Progressives or kids are murdered in cold blood it gets a muted "meh" from the GOP.
hadEnuf
Sep 11
#88
Been on DU a while, I don't recall giving much space to ASSHOLES that die and this turd isn't RUSH reach level?
Brainfodder
Sep 11
#89