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hunter

(40,180 posts)
10. All this cheerful advice about mortgages, credit card debt, and car loans...
Sun Nov 9, 2025, 12:26 PM
Sunday

... crumbles under mountains of medical bills and fights with health insurance companies.

One of the scariest times in my life was when my wife's COBRA plan timed out in the midst of her chemo. We were both otherwise uninsurable, I was self employed, my wife's pharmacy bills were over a thousand dollars a week, and we were days from foreclosure. Needless to say, I wasn't paying the bills on our maxed out credit cards and the interest rates shot up to 30% plus. (Read the fine print.)

At the last possible minute my wife was accepted to our state's "high risk" insurance pool so she didn't have to interrupt her treatment and we begged enough money from family to bring our mortgage current, money they couldn't comfortably spare. Immediately our mortgage was sold at a discount to some vulture company that bets against the success of people in our circumstances, friendly on the surface, making money selling the homes of people who don't make it for a profit.

My wife recovered and we've not suffered any medical crisis so severe since, but that's when I stopped giving a shit about credit or credit ratings. Most of the financial wreckage from that time has been cleaned up but I never want to borrow money again.

This experience has also made me a hardcore socialist. In a truly civilized society everyone has a secure comfortable home, healthy food to eat, clean water, educational opportunities, and good health care regardless of their circumstances.

We are not a civilized society.

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true, Valon Mtg has a calculator showing how you save and how much shorter the loan is Shellback Squid Sunday #1
Most people never pay off a mortgage. MineralMan Sunday #2
At my age 70 crud Sunday #9
Unless the whole system goes to crap...... Hope22 Sunday #13
I agree. It's not easy, though, for working folks MineralMan Sunday #15
Sounds good! Sweat equity is definitely the key. Hope22 Sunday #20
Always do the math. MineralMan Sunday #27
I got a 30 year loan dsc Sunday #21
You probably won't keep that house. MineralMan Sunday #23
May well be the case dsc Sunday #30
I hate moving, too. It's a lot of work. MineralMan Monday #31
Excellent Points ProfessorGAC Sunday #24
Yes. You Have to Do the Math. MineralMan Sunday #26
This is a good reminder! Nittersing Sunday #3
i took an abatement during covid. mopinko Sunday #4
Extra payments Timewas Sunday #5
any little windfall, part of it shd b put to the mortgage. mopinko Sunday #6
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Sunday #12
it gives u more leeway to get an equity loan. mopinko Sunday #14
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Sunday #16
refi- no, it's not a non-factor. it's a direct factor. mopinko Sunday #18
Rule of thumb - one extra payment per year turns a 30-year mortgage into a 23-year mortgage hatrack Sunday #7
I did that as much as I could on my first house... haele Sunday #8
All this cheerful advice about mortgages, credit card debt, and car loans... hunter Sunday #10
+1 leftstreet Sunday #17
So for the first payment a week early and send $50. Extra to be applied to the principal questionseverything Sunday #11
Another interesting fact airplaneman Sunday #19
yup. i remember that being a thing a while back. mopinko Sunday #22
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Sunday #25
yeah, 2%. hardly worth it. mopinko Sunday #28
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You must tell the lender it needs to be put towards the principle usedtobedemgurl Monday #32
my payment had a box for extra principal. mopinko Monday #33
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