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MineralMan

(150,263 posts)
15. I agree. It's not easy, though, for working folks
Sun Nov 9, 2025, 02:22 PM
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to manage paying off a house. It takes a long, long time, in most cases.

I bought my first house in California with a $20,000 loan from my father-in-law. That was in 1974, and it was the least expensive house in the town where I lived. Rundown, too, but I fixed it over the years. I stayed in that house for 30 years. My wife and I paid it off in just 10 years, even on our miniscule earnings. Finally, my next wife and I needed to move to Minnesota to help care for her aging parents. I got the house when I divorced, but had to give my ex-wife the $100,000 we had stashed away to balance things up. My second wife and I lived there for 17 years.

So, when my second wife and I sold that house, inflation in that market in California meant that it sold for $337K. A good part of that went to buy a fixer-upper in Minnesota. The thing is that I fix up my old houses myself. I have the skills, fortunately. A few years ago, we sold that house and bought another one as we downsized. So, that first house was the only house I had a mortgage on. The rest were bought with the increased value over time. But, I had to pay off the first one to make that happen.

So, time is the secret. Time and a plan.

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true, Valon Mtg has a calculator showing how you save and how much shorter the loan is Shellback Squid Sunday #1
Most people never pay off a mortgage. MineralMan Sunday #2
At my age 70 crud Sunday #9
Unless the whole system goes to crap...... Hope22 Sunday #13
I agree. It's not easy, though, for working folks MineralMan Sunday #15
Sounds good! Sweat equity is definitely the key. Hope22 Sunday #20
Always do the math. MineralMan Sunday #27
I got a 30 year loan dsc Sunday #21
You probably won't keep that house. MineralMan Sunday #23
May well be the case dsc Sunday #30
I hate moving, too. It's a lot of work. MineralMan Monday #31
Excellent Points ProfessorGAC Sunday #24
Yes. You Have to Do the Math. MineralMan Sunday #26
This is a good reminder! Nittersing Sunday #3
i took an abatement during covid. mopinko Sunday #4
Extra payments Timewas Sunday #5
any little windfall, part of it shd b put to the mortgage. mopinko Sunday #6
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Sunday #12
it gives u more leeway to get an equity loan. mopinko Sunday #14
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Sunday #16
refi- no, it's not a non-factor. it's a direct factor. mopinko Sunday #18
Rule of thumb - one extra payment per year turns a 30-year mortgage into a 23-year mortgage hatrack Sunday #7
I did that as much as I could on my first house... haele Sunday #8
All this cheerful advice about mortgages, credit card debt, and car loans... hunter Sunday #10
+1 leftstreet Sunday #17
So for the first payment a week early and send $50. Extra to be applied to the principal questionseverything Sunday #11
Another interesting fact airplaneman Sunday #19
yup. i remember that being a thing a while back. mopinko Sunday #22
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Sunday #25
yeah, 2%. hardly worth it. mopinko Sunday #28
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You must tell the lender it needs to be put towards the principle usedtobedemgurl Monday #32
my payment had a box for extra principal. mopinko Monday #33
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