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In reply to the discussion: Why do so many more black men marry white women than vice versa? [View all]LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)111. +1000. A while back, someone showed me a Mark Twain quote:
Nearly all black and brown skins are beautiful, but a beautiful white skin is rare....Where dark complexions are massed, they make the whites look bleached-out, unwholesome, and sometimes frankly ghastly. I could notice this as a boy, down South in the slavery days before the war. The splendid black satin skin of the South African Zulus of Durban seemed to me to come very close to perfection....
The white man's complexion makes no concealments. It can't. It seemed to have been designed as a catch-all for everything that can damage it. Ladies have to paint it, and powder it, and cosmetic it, and diet it with arsenic, and enamel it, and be always enticing it, and persuading it, and pestering it, and fussing at it, to make it beautiful; and they do not succeed. But these efforts show what they think of the natural complexion, as distributed. As distributed it needs these helps. The complexion which they try to counterfeit is one which nature restricts to the few--to the very few. To ninety-nine persons she gives a bad complexion, to the hundredth a good one. The hundredth can keep it--how long? Ten years, perhaps.
The advantage is with the Zulu, I think. He starts with a beautiful complexion, and it will last him through. And as for the Indian brown--firm, smooth, blemishless, pleasant, and restful to the eye, afraid of no color, harmonizing with all colors and adding a grace to them all--I think there is no sort of chance for the average white complexion against that rich and perfect tint.
The white man's complexion makes no concealments. It can't. It seemed to have been designed as a catch-all for everything that can damage it. Ladies have to paint it, and powder it, and cosmetic it, and diet it with arsenic, and enamel it, and be always enticing it, and persuading it, and pestering it, and fussing at it, to make it beautiful; and they do not succeed. But these efforts show what they think of the natural complexion, as distributed. As distributed it needs these helps. The complexion which they try to counterfeit is one which nature restricts to the few--to the very few. To ninety-nine persons she gives a bad complexion, to the hundredth a good one. The hundredth can keep it--how long? Ten years, perhaps.
The advantage is with the Zulu, I think. He starts with a beautiful complexion, and it will last him through. And as for the Indian brown--firm, smooth, blemishless, pleasant, and restful to the eye, afraid of no color, harmonizing with all colors and adding a grace to them all--I think there is no sort of chance for the average white complexion against that rich and perfect tint.
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Why do so many more black men marry white women than vice versa? [View all]
Donald Ian Rankin
Feb 2015
OP
lol, no comment. I'm sure you have heard some things in life to answer this question though.
dissentient
Feb 2015
#2
I don't understand why your question was considered to be radioactive by many here.
politicaljunkie41910
Feb 2015
#108
No, but considering that you openly and loudly declared downthread that the "history and culture" of
Number23
Feb 2015
#192
And your cluelessness dripping with patronizing paternalism must make for excellent
Number23
Feb 2015
#195
"My guess is if both of us were randomly airdropped into Africa an hour later I would be selling
Number23
Feb 2015
#207
"That" is as superfluous to that sentence as your contribution has been to this topic.
Number23
Feb 2015
#210
well, the yahoo comments section probably gets a lot more eyeballs than here
shaayecanaan
Feb 2015
#213
Agreed. It certainly changed over time for me. After being raised by television...
arcane1
Feb 2015
#99
Not only is this such a bizarre question that I have no idea why it was posted, but I TRULY cannot
Number23
Feb 2015
#11
Because DU does not and never has done race issues well. And it probably never will
Number23
Feb 2015
#158
I guess I think that racial issues can be talked about, and even offensive stereotypes talked about,
Arugula Latte
Feb 2015
#190
Well, obviously we differ on that. Particularly as I find that alot of people doing the offensive
Number23
Feb 2015
#193
And right here, perhaps this is the reason behind this weird, out of the blue OP?
Number23
Feb 2015
#15
this is bs. for this to be true you would need to show that they are being rejected
JI7
Feb 2015
#52
Whatever. I'm white as they come and think there are many beautiful black women out there
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
Feb 2015
#128
There's always an undertone of disapproval to it. Like white women are "supposed" to be with white
nomorenomore08
Feb 2015
#176
I'm a black woman married to a white man too. My husband is the first white man I ever gave a second
Number23
Feb 2015
#28
Girl, love is love. I'm glad that I finally grew up and recognized that for myself.
Number23
Feb 2015
#49
I don't see anything wrong with this thread. I've thought about the same thing once in awhile.
BlueJazz
Feb 2015
#23
A good bit of this seems to be a historical coincidence than anything, TBH.
AverageJoe90
Feb 2015
#36
1 members have recommended this thread (displayed in chronological order): AverageJoe90
LeftyMom
Feb 2015
#61
I see a lot of people who are chomping at the bit to make offensive comments about race and gender.
LeftyMom
Feb 2015
#76
And I see a lot of people who aren't and are telling some great stories about their life....
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
Feb 2015
#130
Well that member was on two time outs, both happened because of his posts about African Americans
CreekDog
Feb 2015
#148
The white wife/ black husband thing is new because historically the dominant society didn't want to
craigmatic
Feb 2015
#70
The world of relationships is dynamic, not static. There are more multicultural/ interracial ..
kwassa
Feb 2015
#91
I have two African American cousin in laws, both African American women.
DemocratSinceBirth
Feb 2015
#78
I thought Skinner put a permanent end to the "medical advice" threads ages ago?
Blue_Tires
Feb 2015
#174