How do you all observe Memorial Day...? Partying or solemn reflection? [View all]

Memorial Day, the quinessential beginning of Summer... we think of BBQs, Beach time, 3 day weekend for family and fun... how many Americans actually KNOW or care what Memorial Day is for?

Living in a tourist town, I see the influx of people and the celebratory attitude. Everyone's buying burger buns and sunscreen... little american flag toys for the kids even.
Do people really know or care why they have a 3 day weekend?
I suppose it's much like Labor Day - we take advantage of the extra time off, but have little knowledge that the fight for labor rights was often violelnt as well...

My dad was a Korean War vet, I never knew if he had friends from that time who may have died in Service. But he always flew his flag on these events, and watched old war movies as a remembrance.

For me, I am hiding from the tourists at home, and using the time to work on the deck and yard, do some low key stuff around the house. I'll light a candle monday in remembrance and quietly honor those who fught for the liberties we are LOSING now...