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1. Bummer, and I understand.

Reply to Brogrizzly (Original post)

Sun Jun 1, 2025, 03:31 PM

Jun 1

I cut off all contact with a life-long friend, but tbh, that was long overdue. He was an obnoxious drunk who phoned and emailed really nasty attacks on my family and me, then he'd apologize, then do it again. After Trump came along this supposed paragon of progressive virtue really lost it and became openly racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. The day he defended the J6ers was my last straw. It's been nice not having that toxicity in my life.

However. I'll never feel the same way about some relatives since they became Trumpsters and that is sad. Makes family get togethers awkward.

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I lost a longtime friend, over 10 years of being active buddies, due to my anti Trump statements and feelings. [View all] Brogrizzly Jun 1 OP

Bummer, and I understand. yardwork Jun 1 #1

Thank you. It's so frankly, just weird, to watch people you care about support what's happening. It breaks my brain. Brogrizzly Jun 1 #3

Maybe you lost him because of his pro-trump stances... Wounded Bear Jun 1 #2

I've cut off one brother for the same thing. Ritabert Jun 1 #4

I understand - I have a friend that I have known for almost 50 years. He walkingman Jun 1 #5

My husband lost a longtime friend from college because he pointed out to him that the orange Hitler kimbutgar Jun 1 #6

It ain't Trump that's the cancer, Grizz Montauk6 Jun 1 #7

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. Brogrizzly Jun 1 #9

No, but he's an excuse. LisaM Jun 1 #13

Your friend is likely having a lot of doubts right now Warpy Jun 1 #8

It's sad. But it's life. erodriguez Jun 1 #10

Everybody is stupid sometimes, and just about everyone can be reliably stupid over cetain things. Con men rely on this. JHB Jun 1 #11

You did the same thing many of us have done. You did what was proper. Paladin Jun 1 #12

Locking. Lasher Jun 1 #14