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CTyankee

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Fri Jun 6, 2025, 07:02 AM Jun 6

Scary day in the ER yesterday. [View all]

Hubby woke with a distended belly, saying he couldn't pee. A quick call to his doc's office at 8:30 am, they telling us to get to the ER NOW.

Lucky for us we live not too far away from Yale New Haven Hospital, one of the best. hospitals you can have near you. Also lucky: their ER was relatively quiet at the moment we came (it got busier at the end of our visit).

I had quickly googled hubby's situation and got the same message: GET TO THE ER NOW!

The ER doc and excellent staff showed me what I HAD TO DO later, before hubby went down for the night. We had ample staff who gave us unhurried attention. They contacted our doc's office and informed them of what was being done. I am the worst person in the world with anything mechanical but I do have a steady hand.

Hubby and I were able to successfully switch hubby's urine bag for the night.

He is still asleep as I write. We have the necessary bags and will switch the bags back and go first thing to doc's office for the follow up later this morning.

Fortunately, we have our housekeeper coming today. She is the BEST when it comes to helping out in a bad situation. I was able to speak to her last evening and tell her what the situation is.

Any of you medical folks here at DU, chime in. Not for advice, of course, but any experience you have had with a similar situation and can share.

Meanwhile, I hope this story helps anyone who might face this situation in the future.

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My wife, an RN has saved my life several times. multigraincracker Jun 6 #1
I don't believe in the hand of fate but that sure was fortunate for you in that instance. CTyankee Jun 6 #2
I'm the luckiest man in the world. Half of it good luck and half of it bad luck. multigraincracker Jun 6 #18
I'm glad it came out well for you, and that you have good support around. Scrivener7 Jun 6 #3
I'm fine. We are both exhausted. His from having this disability so suddenly and me as his caregiver. CTyankee Jun 7 #19
Having been a caregiver at times, I get it. A bit of time off is essential, even if it's just an afternoon. Scrivener7 Jun 7 #20
I am planning to do this. Next up: a PEDICURE! My toenails are way too long but it's a matter of money. CTyankee Jun 7 #21
Perfect! But if your insurance is good, maybe a podiatrist can cut them down for only a copay. Scrivener7 Jun 7 #22
Oh my,... medical emergencies can certainly be harrowing experiences. magicarpet Jun 6 #4
Good for you, CTyankee. You have a level head and good instincts. Diamond_Dog Jun 6 #5
I'm so glad things worked out well CTyankee JMCKUSICK Jun 6 #6
Can your doctors office arrange for a paramedic or RN to check him over the weekend? irisblue Jun 6 #7
good idea. We had a visiting nurse help me out after one of my hospitalizations. It was a great thing and I felt secure CTyankee Jun 6 #8
So glad that you and hubby got such good care and attention. I hope you can niyad Jun 6 #9
i had to have a foley catheter installed twice in my life . AllaN01Bear Jun 6 #10
Goodness! Medical emergencies are the worst. hamsterjill Jun 6 #11
I'm so sorry you went through that, but glad your quick wits and excellent medical care, provided a good outcome. LiberalLoner Jun 6 #12
Oh, that's very nice of you. Thank you! CTyankee Jun 6 #14
💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Jun 6 #16
Sending positive vibes. iluvtennis Jun 6 #13
I had something similar ten years ago. JustABozoOnThisBus Jun 6 #15
I completely forgot about prostate issues in the heat of the moment. I'll mention it to hubby... CTyankee Jun 6 #17
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