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Oeditpus Rex

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11. Marvin
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 02:05 PM
Jun 25

From second or third grade through high school. Then we fought over a girl. (He won.)

Marvin was the coolest kid on the block. He had all the great ideas, and the rest of us followed. His dad was a journeyman carpenter, so we were always building stuff.

The one time he screwed up was in our junior year when he bought a pristine white '65 Thunderbird for $500, literally from the fabled little old lady who drove it only to bingo on Wednesday nights. The first thing he did was put side pipes on it. Well, okay, that's sorta cool-lookin'. But then he put air shocks on the back to jack it up several inches, and then cut and flared the rear wheelwells and put 50-series (fat) tires on Ansen Sprint mags on it. Just destroyed its gorgeous purity. He ended up lending it to a heavy-drinking friend, who wrecked it for good.

Marvin died on the table during nasal surgery 10 years ago. He was only 59. It still makes me sad and wistful for a bit when I think about it, even though we hsdn't seen each other in nearly 40 years.

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Jody (a guy). no_hypocrisy Jun 25 #1
Thant's wonderful you were able to reconnect with Jody. When I was on FaceBook I tried looking for Mary Ann. I could not debm55 Jun 25 #2
Try Linked-In. That's where I found Jody. no_hypocrisy Jun 25 #5
Thank you very much no_hypocrisy. debm55 Jun 25 #6
Since 1956 and still close friends with my old pal Ivan. Emile Jun 25 #3
Thank you very much Emile. That's wonderful that you are still friends with Ivan. debm55 Jun 25 #4
Stephen justaprogressive Jun 25 #7
Thank you very much justaprogressive. I know the feeling. debm55 Jun 25 #8
see what you made me do! justaprogressive Jun 25 #9
Wow.good for you, I am so happy for you. I hope it goes Wonderfully; debm55 Jun 25 #10
Marvin Oeditpus Rex Jun 25 #11
Oh Oeditpus. what a great and unique friend . I am so sorry for his passing. May his memeories be a blessing to his debm55 Jun 25 #12
Andy ProfessorGAC Jun 25 #13
Thank you Professor GAC, Andy and you sound like you were both very good friends. You were both lucky you had each other debm55 Jun 25 #14
Sharon sestina Jun 25 #15
Wow, sestina. what a great post of last ing friendship debm55 Jun 26 #18
One of my closest childhood friends I now refer to as a former friend. 3catwoman3 Jun 26 #16
Thank you 3catwoman3. Yes,, some of my old friends are MAGA, I guess life changes people. I don't bother with them debm55 Jun 26 #17
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