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64. Suburbia... city... suburbia

Thu Jul 10, 2025, 11:05 AM

Jul 10

Lived in Lexington MA 'til I was 10. Very much suburban and very patriotic! Home of the original Patriot's Day! Walked to school, but anything else really required a car.

Moved to a small town in NJ (10,000). About one square mile. When I was there, there was just an elementary school (1st-7th). And high school was 8-12. Poor no-name eighth graders. Had to wait a year to get that "Freshman" title!! The rec center had roller skating every Friday night and the park had a couple tennis courts and a big wall that folks would play handball, solo tennis and whatever. There was a siren that would signal for the volunteer fire department (one of our teachers was a ff and would take off if the siren sounded.) And that siren was tested every night at 7pm. The de facto alert that it was time for kids to go home.

BUT.... this small town was just across the George Washington Bridge. We were minutes away from NYC. (My dad taught at NYU) I think I was 13 or 14 when I was allowed to head into the city by myself. A train ride all the way down to my dad's office on Washington Square.

Moved into the city for a job and stayed for 4 years. Loved living in Manhattan!!

Finally moved to Denver... which feels very suburban to me.

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What neighborhood did you grow up in --city, rural, or suburbs? Mine is city until 8th grade. then suburbs. Culture [View all] debm55 Jul 9 OP

Where I grew up was rural at the time but transitioning to suburban Walleye Jul 9 #1

Thank you very much Walleye for sharing with us. debm55 Jul 9 #2

Townie here SARose Jul 9 #3

Thank you very much SARose, It sounds like you had lots of fun. debm55 Jul 9 #12

Kind of depends on how you define each entity rurallib Jul 9 #4

Thank you very much, rurallib. College towns are very diverse. Love them debm55 Jul 9 #11

I grew up on a family farm in Ohio. sinkingfeeling Jul 9 #5

Thank you very much, sinkingfeeling. debm55 Jul 9 #10

Town of 160 people in Nebraska. Bee, Nebraska. Sold ice cream at the post office. OLDMDDEM Jul 9 #6

HAHAHAHAHHAAH. Thank you OLDMDDEM. How did you get out of there? debm55 Jul 9 #9

Fortunately, my dad got a job in the big city, Lincoln. OLDMDDEM Jul 9 #14

Lucky you. Thanks, OLDMDDEM. debm55 Jul 9 #16

Wow, that's small! The 3 smallest places I've ever been to were... electric_blue68 Jul 9 #40

This community was all Czech and German. You spoke one or the other. OLDMDDEM Jul 10 #46

Small town to big city to suburbs. LoisB Jul 9 #7

Thank you very much ,LoisB. debm55 Jul 9 #8

It was a small town in northeastern Iowa. rsdsharp Jul 9 #13

HAHAhahhahahhahha. Good one. Thank you very much, rsdsharp debm55 Jul 9 #17

Rural MissB Jul 9 #15

Great post , MissB. It was a great place for kids. debm55 Jul 9 #18

I grew up in a suburban neighborhood on Long Island. lucca18 Jul 9 #19

Thank you very much Iucca18 debm55 Jul 9 #22

thank you very much. electric_blue 68, What great memories. debm55 Jul 10 #49

Jones Beach! Happy memories! electric_blue68 Jul 9 #41

I love the detailed description of your Jones Beach memories! lucca18 Jul 10 #70

YW. It was wonderful to remember. electric_blue68 Jul 10 #71

I grew up in a number of states LogDog75 Jul 9 #20

That sounds great LogDog75, You have the ocean, great temps. I like it. Enjoy. debm55 Jul 9 #23

All of the above ... Dorothy V Jul 9 #21

Thank you very much Dorothy V. Wow you have lived in so many places. debm55 Jul 9 #24

Very diverse! 👍 electric_blue68 Jul 9 #42

City ProfessorGAC Jul 9 #25

Thank you very much ProfessorGAC. That is very interesting. debm55 Jul 9 #29

Always lived in burbs SheltieLover Jul 9 #26

Thank you SheltieLover. debm55 Jul 9 #30

City. greatauntoftriplets Jul 9 #27

Thank you very much for sharing with us. greatauntoftriplets. It sounds like the perfect place to raise kids. debm55 Jul 9 #31

It still is a great place. greatauntoftriplets Jul 9 #34

Thank you so much. That is good to know. debm55 Jul 10 #51

Grew up in Chicago. boonecreek Jul 9 #28

Thank you very much for sharing with us, boonecreek. Such a greet city. debm55 Jul 9 #32

Lived on the west side of Detroit. Moved downriver, now we live in a rural area near the lake. Srkdqltr Jul 9 #33

Downtown gopiscrap Jul 9 #35

Thank you very much gopiscrap for sharing with us. debm55 Jul 9 #36

The Oakland section of Pittsburgh-urban row house. A very walkable neighborhood. cloudbase Jul 9 #37

I am from SW of Pittsburgh. I live very near the old Century III mall Thank you for posting cloudbase. PS I live very debm55 Jul 9 #38

I lived in a rural area that was developed into a suburb. We went from potato farms and woods to tract housing... NNadir Jul 9 #39

thank you NNagir. I see it around here too. Dairy farms and regular farms that we visited in girl scouts have turned debm55 Jul 10 #52

All the places of my childhood have been obliterated by very wealthy people. hunter Jul 9 #43

NYC. 'nuff said............j/king..... electric_blue68 Jul 9 #44

Thank you very much,electric_blue68 that sounds wounderful debm55 Jul 10 #48

I grew up in the suburbs, sestina Jul 10 #45

Thank you very much, sestina. That sounds so different then my suburbs that I lived in after 8 grade. My had no sidewalk debm55 Jul 10 #47

Working class suburb in a working class town. Emile Jul 10 #50

Thank you Emile, I considered mine a city But it was a small city located next to a Steel Mill.Thank you for sharing. debm55 Jul 10 #56

Rural. I grew up in a very small community on a lake connected to Lake Michigan in northern lower catbyte Jul 10 #53

That sounds like a very nice place to live and grow up. Thank you very much for sharing with us, catbtye. debm55 Jul 10 #57

The road I grew up on was a mix of rural and BlueKota Jul 10 #54

I agree with you BlueKota. Up the hill they are building an extension of the turnpike that would go from Pittsburgh to debm55 Jul 10 #58

I was raised in a small town in Michigan Americanme Jul 10 #55

Thank you very much for sharing with us Americanme. debm55 Jul 10 #59

Small city in Kentucky get the red out Jul 10 #60

Thank you very much , get the red out. Same here ----you had to have a car, no buses, no walking to store. So everyone debm55 Jul 10 #61

Its funny get the red out Jul 10 #65

Thank you, get the red out. debm55 Jul 10 #68

burbs. glendora ca . 25 mi east of la on old route 66. then to sonora ca , late 1984, then to tic toc base in 2005 AllaN01Bear Jul 10 #62

Thank you very much for sharing with us, Bear, You have lived in a lot of places. debm55 Jul 10 #63

Suburbia... city... suburbia Nittersing Jul 10 #64

Thank you very much Nittersing. You have lived in unique places. Thank you for sharing. debm55 Jul 10 #66

"inner city" as they call it Eugene Jul 10 #67

Thank you very much for sharing with us. Eugene. debm55 Jul 10 #69