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BlueKota

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Sat Jul 12, 2025, 12:11 PM Jul 12

Wish Me Luck [View all]

I am going to my 45 High-school Reunion tonight. I wasn't sure I wanted to go. I have been friends with one guy since we were five years old though, and he kept urging me to come. He was, along with 3 girls, the people I hung out with in high-school the most. All but 1 of the other girls are going. There are a few other pretty good friends coming too.

Plus one of the girls who I sat next to in homeroom because our names are alphabetically close, ended up in the same college so we became good friends there. She's going too. So I figured what the heck I will go.

The only thing is some of the people who I went to the abusive Catholic School with are going too, and they were snobs and use to pick on me a lot. My sister said likely they've changed as adults, and fuck them, if they still don't like me. My friend said he will take out anyone if they hurt my feelings,🤣, but still a little nervous. I am not a classy dresser, nice pants and a clean and pressed blouse are about it, and am overweight, but I make an effort to look at least ok. Hopefully that will be enough. 🙏. I am also not sure what to say because I don't work any more because of my severe depression and anxiety, so what do I say if asked about work? I really don't want to mention the depression, though, so I may just blame my bout with meningitis, and not being able to drive anymore, (which is true) or that I retired, but I am only 63. Not sure which. Any ideas appreciated?

Wish me luck. My friend is picking me up, but I will have my sister on standby in case I want to leave early.

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Wish Me Luck [View all] BlueKota Jul 12 OP
good luck. AllaN01Bear Jul 12 #1
Thank you! BlueKota Jul 12 #2
even though i had some good teachers iin hs. if u were in special ed or the gifted program, u were teased alot. AllaN01Bear Jul 12 #3
Just tell them you got to retire early, mwmisses4289 Jul 12 #4
Thank you! BlueKota Jul 12 #6
I understand. I have anxiety too. 🙏 Good luck 💙 TommieMommy Jul 12 #5
Thank you! BlueKota Jul 12 #7
Flip the question Bmoboy Jul 12 #8
Thank you! BlueKota Jul 12 #9
I hope you have the time of your life! NCgayguy Jul 12 #10
Thank you. BlueKota Jul 14 #15
You don't have to get specific about work. LuckyCharms Jul 12 #11
Thank you! BlueKota Jul 14 #16
When I attened my 30th and 50th reunions LogDog75 Jul 13 #12
Those are good answers. BlueKota Jul 14 #17
Just say you're retired Figarosmom Jul 13 #13
Thank you. BlueKota Jul 14 #18
Soooo, did you have a good time? Sure hope so. Fla Dem Jul 13 #14
Thank you. I will do an update post. BlueKota Jul 14 #19
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