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hamsterjill

(16,397 posts)
7. Such good advice!
Tue Jul 29, 2025, 01:14 PM
Jul 29

I was free as of March 1st. I live in Texas and the weather was not too hot and not too cold then, so I had a lot of outdoor projects that I wanted to get started and completed before the brutal summer. I got most of them done. One of those projects was a paved outdoor garden area that is behind the cat sanctuary that I have. (Another story!) This garden area has lots of plants, a sitting area and a lovely hammock. I spend time out there, but the brutal summer is now upon us and it literally forces me to put some things on hold.

So, I've really been concentrating lately on the decompressing. I love an afternoon "siesta". Lying down somewhere comfy, watching mindless old movies or something else entertaining but not stressful, falling asleep for a bit, etc.

I make sure that I get myself out and see friends at least once a week and usually twice because I don't want to allow myself to become a total hermit - and I think I would if I didn't make myself do otherwise! I am lucky to have good neighbors and we visit occasionally over our common fences.

When I feel like I'm ready, I hope to take a couple of classes just to keep my mind going. Maybe a writing class. I think it would be fun to do it without having to worry about getting a certain grade, etc.

And, of course, I enjoy my DU friends and interactions!



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It only gets better Ferryboat Jul 29 #1
Here's hoping! hamsterjill Jul 29 #2
Congrats! Sometimes, it takes some a while to fully realize that they are 'retired', to settle down into a totally SWBTATTReg Jul 29 #3
Such good advice! hamsterjill Jul 29 #7
Sounds like you are well on the path to fully enjoying yourself and your retirement! Wonderful!! And you are SWBTATTReg Jul 30 #16
One of my husband's friends taught us this amusing acronym - SCAN 3catwoman3 Aug 1 #27
First of all I love your signature line hamsterjill. I retirement finds and embraces you. George McGovern Jul 29 #4
Aw, thank you, George. hamsterjill Jul 29 #8
Paid all of my bill and took the 30 and out. multigraincracker Jul 29 #5
That's a good secret to have, and I agree! hamsterjill Jul 29 #9
Congratulations! markodochartaigh Jul 29 #6
Well I don't know about you - but I got to where I just didn't care if I kept up or not!!! LOL hamsterjill Jul 29 #10
Well, markodochartaigh Jul 29 #13
Sounds like you're doing lucid dreaming LogDog75 Jul 29 #12
I think that it is as close to lucid dreaming as markodochartaigh Jul 29 #14
You may be right. hamsterjill Aug 1 #21
I retired at age fifty-three 22 years ago LogDog75 Jul 29 #11
Sounds like you have it figured out!!! hamsterjill Jul 31 #19
Right With Ya! ProfessorGAC Jul 29 #15
I take it you had to travel a lot for your job??? hamsterjill Aug 1 #22
A LOT! ProfessorGAC Aug 1 #25
WOW! That's quite a travel log! hamsterjill Aug 1 #28
I've Worked In... ProfessorGAC Aug 1 #30
... ailsagirl Jul 31 #17
Retired 12 years ago and I don't miss being a wage slave Emile Jul 31 #18
Me either! hamsterjill Aug 1 #23
Congrats but wait till you see how fast 20 years go by UTUSN Aug 1 #20
Oh, that's scary. hamsterjill Aug 1 #24
Congrats, Jill! SheltieLover Aug 1 #26
Thanks, Sheltie! hamsterjill Aug 1 #29
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