Question re unauthorized remote access [View all]

I think I'm pretty well secured with firewall, anti-virus, anti-malware, anti-ransomware.

My network is passworded, of course, and in stealth mode.

I use software to remote access my office desktop, and that is double passworded, for the app itself and then for the access to my computer, which is the only computer authorized for this access.

Question: Where are the logs that would show me whether, with these protections, someone has or has attempted to access my computer. I can't find the logs in bitdefender, and I don't even know where to look on my pc - windows10.

Anyone know?

Thanks.