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carpetbagger

(5,242 posts)
8. I would go.
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:26 AM
May 2023

That's my personal judgment, but I moved out of Florida in 2020, and have a trans son who lives near Ocala (and is planning to leave the state next year). I also still have connections to a church in Gainesville that probably has 150-200 gay members.

There are two issues, stochastic nonstate violence and state violence. Rogue violence against gay men is still rare, probably not any worse than Eastern NC. State violence is a bully type thing, they go after the people they can control, state employees, students, etc. Much more directed at trans than cis, and at least presently more performative than not.

I don't particularly want to spend more time there than necessary, and I cut my usual two week trip to one and am only going to see my mom and son et al.

I am torn about what precautions to take. My son increasingly avoids the Panhandle, travel along some of the center rural roads (17, 27, 301), and doesn't make stops in small stores or businesses. But his situation is more complicated due to bathroom and other trans and physical appearance (e.g. 5'6&quot issues.

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It's not just DeFascist -- it's that FL voters would vote for someone like him. eppur_se_muova May 2023 #1
I know right? (n/t) OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #3
very. AllaN01Bear May 2023 #2
I am a fan of the Keys and the Panhandle. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #4
I'm sorry you have to deal with this. calimary May 2023 #5
Thanks. I am sorry too. But they want this and we have to show the world that they want this. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #24
So f'cked up! Completely agree. ALBliberal May 2023 #6
It sure is. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #23
Albuquerque should probably change to ABQLiberal!! ALBliberal May 2023 #30
Incredibly, nauseatingly fucked up! 🤢 ShazzieB May 2023 #7
And those who support that maniac love it. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #22
I would go. carpetbagger May 2023 #8
That is true about 'rogue violence' but that is not the insidiousness of their position. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #21
There's always the call to corporate HQ carpetbagger May 2023 #31
It is awful that our society moniss May 2023 #9
Yep. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #20
Right you are moniss May 2023 #26
deSantis won't be there forever NJCher May 2023 #10
I hear you on that. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #19
Sorry to hear that, OldBaldy1701E. I live in North Carolina, and I'm here to tell you, it's BComplex May 2023 #11
Oh, I know. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #15
.... BComplex May 2023 #29
I am sorry for what you are going through. BlueKota May 2023 #12
Thanks. Their claims are to trick the population. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #16
It's very fucked up. I'm so sorry this is happening. highplainsdem May 2023 #13
Thanks. I am sorry as well. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #18
Yes. The GOP is waging a very damaging war. Irish_Dem May 2023 #14
And, it is working. OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #17
Greatest moral decline and lack of civic duty in US history. Irish_Dem May 2023 #25
When I was younger, I traveled throughout the country & the south with 3 other people. lark May 2023 #27
The problems in Florida were planned and carried out by the Republican Party. Chainfire May 2023 #28
Being from North Carolina, I can relate! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E May 2023 #32
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