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Nikia

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11. Breast feeding was a good choice for my little boy and I
Mon Mar 5, 2012, 01:38 AM
Mar 2012

He was never given formula ever and did not have any solids until he was 6 months old. I stopped breast feeding around 20 months.
While this required a lot of discipline and dedication on my part, I am glad that I did it.
He was not sick at all during his time with only breast milk as nourishment. I did not have to waste any money on formula. I did not have to worry about preparing a bottle in the middle of the night or when we were out. I was below my pre pregnancy weight when he was 6 months old.
What I did have to worry about though was pumping at work. I was allowed to do this most of the time, although sometimes the room suddenly became occupied at my usual time. A few people started to give me grief by the time he was six months old. I also worried about people disapproving of me breast feeding in public. This did keep me going places less than I probably would have otherwise. It also meant breast feeding in the parking lot in the car when we went on shopping trips to a bigger city.
I know that women have a variety of reasons why they breast feed and why they don't. In general though, I think that society is more judgemental of breast feeding women than those who do not. There are people who disapprove of women breast feeding in public. There are employers who do not wish to accomodate lactating women. There are people that are concerned about people breast feeding their child too long, even for infants under a year. While there are a few articles written extoling the benefits of breast feeding, most articles in magazines aimed at mothers of infants are pro formula to some extent.
I don't know about the Founders of LLL but in the present day, I think that this organization enables more women to have more of a choice not less. It is not much of a choice after all if no one helps a new mother breast feed and feeds her baby formula from the the beginning, if breast feeding in public could get a woman arrested, or if an employer would forbid a woman from pumping breast milk at work.







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The evil breastfeeding conspiracy. Crunchy Frog Mar 2012 #1
Did you read the entire essay? REP Mar 2012 #2
It'd help if you didn't link to a site Confusious Mar 2012 #6
Oh, good grief Warpy Mar 2012 #3
The thing is the "extra benefits" are over hyped and women are guilted into it REP Mar 2012 #4
Since you didn't quote the whole thing and Harper's didn't make it available Warpy Mar 2012 #5
Ah crap. Wasn't aware it wasn't available. I'd copy the whole thing except for DU's copyright rules. REP Mar 2012 #7
Studies have said it's better Confusious Mar 2012 #8
For immunity, if continued 3-6 months REP Mar 2012 #9
I can probably find 10 studies that say they do have those benefits. Confusious Mar 2012 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass Mar 2012 #19
It's a reference from the essay, quoted in my OP REP Mar 2012 #21
I wouldn't; sounds like potential copyright trouble. gkhouston Mar 2012 #22
Yeah, me too - guess I'm radical! REP Mar 2012 #23
Same here. Well said n/t Catherina Mar 2012 #24
Women are incredibly sad when they cannot breastfeed. Adriennecliona Mar 2012 #28
It's one of those questions that was scientifically settled before the backwards march started... saras Mar 2012 #10
Breast feeding was a good choice for my little boy and I Nikia Mar 2012 #11
The best thing about breastfeeding, for me, was my health improvement clyrc Mar 2012 #12
I think breastfeeding is great. Fight profit-making companies like Nestlé Catherina Mar 2012 #13
The great Nestle boycott Catherina Mar 2012 #14
Nestle boycott list Catherina Mar 2012 #15
For women without access to potable water, this has always made sense REP Mar 2012 #16
I understand better now Catherina Mar 2012 #18
One of the first things you learn as a parent is that no matter what choices you make gkhouston Mar 2012 #20
Haha. Really? Catherina Mar 2012 #25
Re-read the post: "I wonder what *would* have happened." gkhouston Mar 2012 #26
What about the babies Adriennecliona Mar 2012 #27
Hi, Neighbor! REP Mar 2012 #29
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