Last year when I was at my worst, couldn't eat and was dropping weight like crazy, I called them and set an appointment for myself and talked to someone a couple of times. It helped me get focus on a way forward and with belief that there was a way forward. I did this at the same time I set up an appt. to see my primary care, just to get me through the week until I could see her.
I live in a state with medical marijuana, I called them and got some advice on things to do for heavy depression, and it helped get me through too. I used a syringe concentrate with 1 to 1 CBD/THC ratio. I'd mix a tiny bit in some hot water and drink it before bed and it helped quiet my anxiety so I could sleep and also helped settle my stomach. I did this until I had gotten used to the new anti-depressant which doc prescribed when I got to see her, then I stopped it as it was no longer needed.
Take good care of yourself, as well as your wife. It's important! 
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