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Showing Original Post only (View all)All my electronics are smashed... Abuse issues [View all]
I dug out my old cell from my dresser but the SIM from my other phone won't fit. Can't log into my Google account anywhere because of the 2step verification. Can't call or text my kids, can't check email, I'm totally cut off.
My dear friend and roommate has been here for about a year and a half. She's always been abrasive and I guess I let her run over me in the beginning. I always thought it was more cuz she was from a harder life, etc...
We both have health issues, but hers are somewhat worse. Having her move to California was partly so she could get better care. In the past year, I have lost both parents and had some bad depression...dad only just this May.
It's been building, I know better. I had an abusive ex husband so I know that feeling of being belittled and bullied. Then a couple weeks ago, it escalated to her punching the wall, breaking her knuckle...and instead of going to the hospital she used it to guilt trip me...
Today was one of the days I just had enough and yelled back. I also went to my room to cool off or figure out what was next... She kicked my door in and as we argued she grabbed my laptop and broke it, and somehow also got my phone too...
Cops say it's a civil eviction case, the domestic violence place says that it's not a partner so tuff luck...
Spent the afternoon at a friend's house trying to get Google to help... By the time I had to leave, still no resolution of my account so I have to try again tomorrow
What sucks is that I know she's got nothing to fall back on and I don't want to put her on the street. I'm the kind of person who would buy her a freaking van just so she has a place to go.
I don't know what is going to happen in the morning
She was asleep when I got home. It's just stupid and I just want my house back...
Not really asking advice, just needed to vent and this is apparently the only place I can login....
