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Lisa D

(1,532 posts)
2. I don't think you're paranoid
Mon Oct 1, 2012, 11:51 PM
Oct 2012

but perhaps just sensitive about your recent experience and worried about other people's reaction to it. I would feel *exactly* the same way.

There's no way to know for certain, but I kind of doubt that they found out about your psych. day program. Most doctors offices are just too busy to do that kind of research into new patients--especially in that short of time span. They want info about meds and medical conditions so they don't make mistakes in prescribing medications and so that they're aware of certain symptoms or side effects they may not be able to explain.

I think you have it right when you said her phone call could have been about anything--possibly about another patient's surprising test result or even a personal matter. She might have even been in some kind of time crunch after that call and didn't give you the time you deserved to talk about your condition.

You could go for a second opinion and have the second doctor request the test results from the first doctor so that the tests don't have to be repeated. I do think it's a good sign that the tests didn't show a retinal tear or anything abnormal, but that doesn't mean your concerns shouldn't be taken seriously.

I hope your eye returns to normal soon and I wish you well.

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Malpractice imo, dear Den. elleng Oct 2012 #1
Agreed. anon223 Oct 2012 #9
I don't think you're paranoid Lisa D Oct 2012 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author kickysnana Oct 2012 #3
Thanks for the responses. Denninmi Oct 2012 #4
My two cents Aeroette Oct 2012 #5
Well I thought in this situation Denninmi Oct 2012 #6
I went to a specialist, mid 1990's... hunter Oct 2012 #7
Well, this entire fear of stigma destroying my life is going to be topic #1 at today's therapy. Denninmi Oct 2012 #8
How is it destroying your life? It sounded like you handled it ok to me. Michigan Alum Nov 2012 #11
I doubt it was a call about you. This day in age everyone has a family member/friend/coworker Michigan Alum Nov 2012 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #12
Fake psychologist? A counselor is different from a psychologist and may not even need to gateley Nov 2012 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #14
I don't think "counselor" is considered a professional status. gateley Nov 2012 #16
I respect your opinion, but in context it seems an appeal to the authority of some profession. HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #17
I just now noticed what group this is in. Makes your response much more understandable. gateley Nov 2012 #18
Sorry, didn't mean to offend. I'm posting here because I have bipolar disorder and ADHD. Michigan Alum Nov 2012 #19
You are fine Michigan - JanetLovesObama Nov 2012 #20
Yes, I'm very very rude. HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #22
HS, was well within bounds. However, you are not. Tobin S. Nov 2012 #23
I'm good with you writing about your personal experience with BP and ADHD HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #21
I would have reacted the same way -- and I didn't just go through what you did. gateley Nov 2012 #15
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