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MLAA

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1. I can only help on the dehydration problem.
Thu Sep 5, 2024, 05:03 PM
Sep 2024

I care for my wonderful 89 year old husband. After a trip to the ER for what turned out to be influenza, I was told he was dehydrated. Since that time, I keep track on a small piece of paper the number of ounces he drinks each day. Also switched him to decaf coffee. I don’t measure each serving, but I have marked his favorite tumblers so I know each time I fill it with decaf ice tea, water or 7up I know how much he drank. I know his coffee cup holds 12 ounces also.

So with little effort I can have a quick idea of how he is doing each day. He doesn’t get thirsty enough to crave more fluids, so I just bring him drinks all through the day. Dr said go for 80 oz a day. I am satisfied when I get him between 55-60. But it takes me pushing it. I don’t ask if he wants anything I just bring it to him. Some foods have high water/liquid content like watermelon, soups, even the non dairy puddings and soups I get him count. A side benefit is that I realized I was not drinking enough either and have upped my game which has helped my digestive system.

Sending you good vibes!

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I can only help on the dehydration problem. MLAA Sep 2024 #1
Thank you. Not Heidi Sep 2024 #4
Drinking enough water is so important. Lonestarblue Sep 2024 #11
Agree hitting 60 is good and all or mostly water ideal. MLAA Sep 2024 #16
I understand XanaDUer2 Sep 2024 #2
Thank you, XanaDUer2 Not Heidi Sep 2024 #5
He XanaDUer2 Sep 2024 #6
Yipes! Not Heidi Sep 2024 #8
No I refused XanaDUer2 Sep 2024 #10
Hey, friend, I just saw this. Thank you for weighing in. calimary Sep 2024 #3
"We can help each other just by being here, and listening." Not Heidi Sep 2024 #7
You're in the right place XanaDUer2 Sep 2024 #12
I hope you DO stick around. calimary Sep 2024 #14
Amen to this! Lonestarblue Sep 2024 #9
... Clouds Passing Sep 2024 #13
I'm sorry to hear this. Has your wife had her hearing examined? I know that sometimes hearing loss can lead LoisB Sep 2024 #15
Thank you, LoisB. Not Heidi Sep 2024 #23
I sure hope she makes her appointment. Falling is no joke. LoisB Sep 2024 #24
Have you tried a 21-inch toilet? It's ADA compliant. Also, nursing home studies prove that some level of the dementia in2herbs Sep 2024 #17
Hi, in2herbs, Not Heidi Sep 2024 #22
Hi there, the 21 inches is measured from floor to top of toilet rim -- not the toilet seat. Yes, it is tall but if in2herbs Sep 2024 #25
Post removed Post removed Sep 2024 #18
It is and we do. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #19
How are you doing? Nt XanaDUer2 Sep 2024 #20
Oh, just peachy, sweetie. Not Heidi Sep 2024 #21
I know in Canada we have free health care aides who come in applegrove Sep 2024 #26
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