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Mental Health Support

jmbar2

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3. It's insulting, and doesn't even make sense

Reply to LudwigPastorius (Original post)

Wed Sep 25, 2024, 04:11 PM

Sep 2024

If you feel sick with the flu or you are having an episode of low blood sugar, you feel bad. But you don't necessarily "feel sorry for yourself."

Most people experiencing frequent discomfort manage it with reasonable grace, not self-pity.

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How many of us who are prone to depression have heard this one? [View all] LudwigPastorius Sep 2024 OP

My favorite is Get Over It. SamKnause Sep 2024 #1

Jesus... LudwigPastorius Sep 2024 #2

I was told this by a nurse as well. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #9

Interesting. LudwigPastorius Sep 2024 #10

I always said that it takes a level of disconnect to be effective in that job. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #13

The thought that being a nurse requires... LudwigPastorius Sep 2024 #14

OH yes. OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #16

It's insulting, and doesn't even make sense jmbar2 Sep 2024 #3

Yes, some people still view a very real chemical imbalance in the brain as just a "weakness" of character. LudwigPastorius Sep 2024 #11

Or the charming "pull yourself up by your bootstraps". Dave Bowman Sep 2024 #4

Yep, uggh... LudwigPastorius Sep 2024 #12

It's the type of comment that comes from people that have no empathy. canuckledragger Sep 2024 #5

I think that gblady Sep 2024 #6

People who think they have the right to tell someone else how to feel really grind my gears. ShazzieB Sep 2024 #7

"Wtf, do these people think humans come with a dial that can be set to the emotion of our choice?" OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #17

A lack of empathy can also manifest as being upbeat and cheery. All. The. Damned. Time. ShazzieB Sep 2024 #18

Me too! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Sep 2024 #20

This message was self-deleted by its author ShazzieB Sep 2024 #19

Omg XanaDUer2 Sep 2024 #8

I hate it AND Lulu KC Sep 2024 #15