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Michigan Alum

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10. I doubt it was a call about you. This day in age everyone has a family member/friend/coworker
Sat Nov 3, 2012, 03:54 PM
Nov 2012

Who has mental illness so I don't think that someone is going to be saying "wow" on the phone and be freaked out by someone who has a disorder.

But let's pick this apart looking at each possibility:

But let's say that that it did happen: then that person was a jerk and not worthy of your concern. As one of my friends says "Eff them if they can't take a joke."

Regarding the "paranoia or stigma" question - I think it may have been a somewhat normal response on your part. You were probably a bit anxious a maybe feeling a tad guilty about not filling out all of the psych stuff (which I don't always do either if I'm going to an eye doctor or dentist, etc.). When people are feeling anxious you are going to be more susceptible to being worried and slightly paranoid.

Let's say that you were being paranoid: you didn't over-react and were able to keep it under control. You are aware that you might have an issue concerning stigma or slight paranoia and you are adapting to it. As a counselor, (and a fellow person with a disorder) what I worry about is the people who have NO awareness that they might have an issue. Life is about being resilient and adapting and those of us with a disorder have an extra challenge.

I think you did well so give yourself a little credit and a pat on your back.

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Malpractice imo, dear Den. elleng Oct 2012 #1
Agreed. anon223 Oct 2012 #9
I don't think you're paranoid Lisa D Oct 2012 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author kickysnana Oct 2012 #3
Thanks for the responses. Denninmi Oct 2012 #4
My two cents Aeroette Oct 2012 #5
Well I thought in this situation Denninmi Oct 2012 #6
I went to a specialist, mid 1990's... hunter Oct 2012 #7
Well, this entire fear of stigma destroying my life is going to be topic #1 at today's therapy. Denninmi Oct 2012 #8
How is it destroying your life? It sounded like you handled it ok to me. Michigan Alum Nov 2012 #11
I doubt it was a call about you. This day in age everyone has a family member/friend/coworker Michigan Alum Nov 2012 #10
This message was self-deleted by its author HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #12
Fake psychologist? A counselor is different from a psychologist and may not even need to gateley Nov 2012 #13
This message was self-deleted by its author HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #14
I don't think "counselor" is considered a professional status. gateley Nov 2012 #16
I respect your opinion, but in context it seems an appeal to the authority of some profession. HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #17
I just now noticed what group this is in. Makes your response much more understandable. gateley Nov 2012 #18
Sorry, didn't mean to offend. I'm posting here because I have bipolar disorder and ADHD. Michigan Alum Nov 2012 #19
You are fine Michigan - JanetLovesObama Nov 2012 #20
Yes, I'm very very rude. HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #22
HS, was well within bounds. However, you are not. Tobin S. Nov 2012 #23
I'm good with you writing about your personal experience with BP and ADHD HereSince1628 Nov 2012 #21
I would have reacted the same way -- and I didn't just go through what you did. gateley Nov 2012 #15
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