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Mental Health Support

mopinko

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3. that's a big ole bag of yuck.

Reply to rox63 (Original post)

Thu Aug 14, 2014, 01:45 PM

Aug 2014

growing up in contention does, indeed, affect the brain.
my stbx grew up in similar, tho not as bad, circumstances. after 32 years of the most unconditional love i could muster, and he could never access it. could never trust me.

i would say when it comes up, be honest. there may very well be some deep common ground under that fear and pain.

keep on keepin on.

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When suicide is used as a threat [View all] rox63 Aug 2014 OP

Looks like you got up early libodem Aug 2014 #1

Thank you for your acknowledgement rox63 Aug 2014 #2

that's a big ole bag of yuck. mopinko Aug 2014 #3

Yep, lots of yuck back then rox63 Aug 2014 #5

It's sad how we often don't figure out these sorts of childhood traumas until we are adults. hunter Aug 2014 #4

The physical violence in my household was minimal rox63 Aug 2014 #6

When I was 13 I cut my wrists...and thought I would die angstlessk Sep 2014 #7

This is not what my grandmother was doing rox63 Sep 2014 #8