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In reply to the discussion: Tears for my Son. [View all]

BeHereNow

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8. You posted in the right place for sure- so many of us share similar scenarios.
Sun Feb 26, 2012, 04:32 PM
Feb 2012

Like EF said up thread, there is nothing more painful
than watching our children suffer and not be able to "fix it."

I am so relieved to hear that you called 911.
Any time a person states that they are considering self harm, it is time
to hospitalize them.

Thank goodness he said it- it is a cry for help and he
knows you will get it for him, no matter how angry he appears
with you, or acts out at you, be grateful because ultimately it means
he knows he is safe with you- that you will love him no matter what
and get him the help he needs.

It's the quiet ones who give no warning that succeed at suicide.
A dear friend lost his son that way- no warning what so ever.
No fights, no declarations of "I wish I was dead." NOTHING.

Just quietly went into his room and hung himself.

Don't let his anger push you away- stick to him like GLUE with a consistently
loving voice and gentle touches of love.
What ever you do, do not engage in anger with him.
BHN

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Tears for my Son. [View all] GiveMeFreedom Feb 2012 OP
i'll keep your family in my thoughts fizzgig Feb 2012 #1
It's very painful to see our kids struggling with their own pain EFerrari Feb 2012 #2
vibes. applegrove Feb 2012 #3
peace and low stress mdmc Feb 2012 #4
Calling the psychologist is the right thing to do Tobin S. Feb 2012 #5
Update GiveMeFreedom Feb 2012 #6
i am glad he is safe fizzgig Feb 2012 #7
You posted in the right place for sure- so many of us share similar scenarios. BeHereNow Feb 2012 #8
Oh dear, sounds like Borderline PD. Odin2005 Feb 2012 #9
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